Learning this saved me from trouble thousands of time.

huevos_and_whiskey · 2020-10-23T00:48:56+00:00

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Partypuppers · 2020-10-23T09:24:40+00:00

One of my friends doesn't understand this. She thinks that just because I find a mutual friend attractive that I should pursue something with him.

Firstly, I don't pursue. Secondly, yeah he's physically my type but he's also trash so I'm swerving on that. I can appreciate him from afar while I find a decent dude thank you very much.

Trocek · 2020-10-23T08:38:07+00:00

Yes! Some girls don't understand that you can care about the guy and still choose yourself.

fairywakes · 2020-10-23T01:28:32+00:00

Easier said than done but so absolutely necessary. A must have for queen-dom. 👸

misoup9 · 2020-10-23T05:22:33+00:00

Off-topic but this is Nico Robin from One Piece and she’s a whole queen 👸🏻

AotearoaCanuck · 2020-10-23T04:52:46+00:00

This really speaks to me and I’m going to ponder it for a while. Thank you.

tossed_salad100 · 2020-10-23T17:20:28+00:00

Life hack: make people disrespecting you feel worse than anything else you could feel. That was how I finally got over my no-value ex. I just kept replaying his disgusting behavior over and over in my mind until every shred of attraction I'd felt to him for god knows what reason completely evaporated. Focus on the bad until you can't see the "good" anymore. Then carry that energy into future relationships.

suncolor · 2020-10-23T10:13:40+00:00

Ain’t that the truth.

levieu · 2020-10-23T11:05:42+00:00

this compelled me to go and print it out during online lectures so i can hang it up next to my bed and not forget.

i needed to read this. thank you so much.

WiccanLuna · 2020-10-23T03:51:51+00:00

Thanks I needed this. Difficult af to live up to but definitely a necessity

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-10-23T11:19:39+00:00

Yes! 💯 love it! Thanks for sharing and for the reminder

bear_sees_the_car · 2020-10-23T14:14:49+00:00

I need sauce

Title	Learning this saved me from trouble thousands of time.
Author	Danaus_genutia
Upvotes	2379
Comments	37
Date	October 23, 2020 12:45 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jgcjmo/learning_this_saved_me_from_trouble_thousands_of/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/learning-this-saved-me-from-trouble-thousands-of.322515 https://theredarchive.com/post/322515

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