Looking for support and strength from the queens of FDS!

tigerlillyss · 2021-04-08T15:19:21+00:00

I'm sorry I couldn't even finish reading those points....You need to dump him......like immediately!

Nottheprob · 2021-04-08T15:09:44+00:00

Girl, this man is a fucking loser. You’re lowering your value and wasting time by dating him. Get out immediately, block him and MoveOn

tigerlillyss · 2021-04-08T15:30:29+00:00

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classic_falafel · 2021-04-08T15:36:10+00:00

This list is.....sooooo long o.o

Like wtf. I know many women are in similar situations but it is nice that you realized that he is not the one. You learned it the long and hard way but you learned it!
He is not going to change and he is using you.
If you stay with FDS a bit longer you will find stories that prove that if a man really wants you and loves you he wouldnt treat you that way.

He is using you as a bank, a cleaning lady and sex doll.

Btw him being short with making compliments and giving likes on your photos is a way for him to lower your self esteem and a good indicator(red flag) in future relationships.

Leave him and live a better, happier and less stressful life!

pinksamosa · 2021-04-08T16:19:33+00:00

I was wondering today, what would have happened if I maintained my standards and walked away from every situation/relationship with a guy that disrespected me and barely met my standards. I would have been so much happier and confident as a person. Please walk away from the abusive shit show. You deserve to be with someone who treats you right and doesn’t abuse you and steal from you.

IAteTheDragon · 2021-04-08T16:01:39+00:00

I don't think I even need to comment on this man himself. Dump him sister. He really is a burden. You'll see how even your own body will feel physically lighter when you cut him off. It will be a relief for your health on every level. Stay positive 🌼 🙂

outgrabed-momerath · 2021-04-08T15:57:38+00:00

You cannot change him. You cannot make him love you in the way that you deserve and need.

You CAN change your situation and give yourself the love that you deserve and need. Don't waste anymore time not loving yourself by letting this guy destroy you bit by bit.

pinksamosa · 2021-04-08T16:10:12+00:00

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electroloop · 2021-04-08T16:46:04+00:00

Didn’t you write an entire post about finally leaving him? You went back to him after members of FDS poured their hearts out to you, applauded your decision, and gave you valuable advice?

You need to read the handbook and stop commenting here.

firewithin89 · 2021-04-08T16:52:29+00:00

He isn’t even providing the bare minimum.. leave him girl! You are not supposed to be his momma or his maid.. dudes like this is the reason why I wish I was a lesbian.

CoconutYogurtCEO · 2021-04-08T16:57:00+00:00

if you have to make a list, he ain't the one

sending you all the strength to dump this fool. you will immediately feel lighter once you do, I promise

_queeeen_ · 2021-04-08T16:57:18+00:00

You’re writing a dissertation and he’s living like a couch creature. Just another iteration of “she was a lawyer, he was a sandwich.”

Queen, just focus on getting your finances in order and start building up an emotional barrier between your sacred energy and him. Talk to your friends and family and build up a support system. And then leave him.

PS this list of offenses is utterly depraved.

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Title	Looking for support and strength from the queens of FDS!
Author	luceario
Upvotes	27
Comments	17
Date	April 8, 2021 11:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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