Never let a men guilt you for ghosting..Ghosting should be the most acceptable form of breaking up or not continuing a date (unless the guy was high value, in which case explaining is an okay thing to do)

If any male lurkers get their dirty boxers with holes in them in bunch that's on you. Keep scrolling. As for the ladies, never feel guilty for ghosting.

Ghosting is not just you being an unreasonable meanie head. Ghosting is in a way safety measure. When you tell men you're breaking up with them many of them go insane and become violent. They start demanding you tell them why you're leaving and they'll cry and beg you not to.

If it's over text they'll spam you or begin to cyber stalk you (or worse, stalk in person). And last, if you tell them you're breaking up with them that gives them to chance to gaslight and convince you that YOURE the problem.

This happened to me with an ex. When I was finally fed up and wanted him gone he gaslit me. Making it seem like he was doing everything to make it work and that I was being unreasonable, then he would go back to being affectionate for a few days only to stop. Those few words and fake effort was enough for me to feel like it was my fault and that I needed to try harder

If you're planning a breaking up with a guy and he's low value ghosting is absolutely acceptable, block and delete all the way. You're actually not even obligated to tell them anything. They aren't owed an answer and nor do they deserve one. They deserve to feel confused and hurt over you leaving, just as that's how they made you feel by treating you horribly.

Close that door, lock it, and throw the key away .

Another thing, I'm sure many of you know this already but I'll just say it anyway. When you're first meeting a guy don't give him your real number. I know sometimes women give fake numbers but sometimes the guy will call it then and there to see if it works or not. So instead give them your Google voice number, so that way if they call it it'll ring but it's still a number that doesn't trace back to you and can be abandoned or deleted it.

If you don't have Google voice a good app that I used to use was called "talkatone" on the Google play store. It gives you a free number and it will match your area code.

Good luck ladies!