One Red Flag is Too Many For Me

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-11-05T06:57:58+00:00

I would argue that he wanted you to see that. Any guy in his right mind would have thrown it away if he was done with other women

2020-11-05T07:24:43+00:00

Please be careful and consider getting an Airbnb or hotel for a night if you need to stay another night.

Doing weekend get away with men - especially men we are not exclusive with - can be extremely dangerous. He could get enraged if you leave, and he already is gaslighting you and saying you’re over reacting. Be so so careful please.

yolosunshine · 2020-11-05T10:33:28+00:00

If he remotely cared about you ‘accidentally’ seeing that, he would be apologizing profusely and showing you he’s interested in you, just a ditz.

But he’s saying he don’t like you angeryyy. Nah.

thedrunkcuteblonde · 2020-11-05T08:05:28+00:00

I’m really sorry that happened to you. But I’m so proud of you for immediately leaving and not allowing yourself to be gaslit. That takes strength.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-11-05T12:16:31+00:00

I'm right there with you. One red flag and I'm out. This guy here displayed more red flags after you called out the first one, so definitely GOOD RIDDANCE.

migrate1 · 2020-11-05T10:18:23+00:00

So glad you’re getting out of there! You’re exactly right in your assessment of this guy. Please make sure you’re keeping yourself safe before your flight home.

lucylucylove · 2020-11-05T16:34:02+00:00

He left that shit on purpose, hell he probably bought all of it himself just to neg you. I'm so proud of you for calling him out and leaving. He sounds like such a loser.

Mountain_Nectarine_6 · 2020-11-05T17:37:26+00:00

I’ve dated a guy before who had women’s stuff in the shower and he claimed it was leftover from a previous relationship ...turns out he was still dating that woman. #cheater!!

theawkwardalli · 2020-11-05T17:23:40+00:00

This should be the standard we teach all young girls! You don’t have to wait for a list of red flags—one is more than enough!

MakeURegret · 2020-11-05T18:22:56+00:00

He's saying im handling things inappropriately. He's also saying its a turn off for him because he doesn't like fighting.

Lol as if you care that it’s a turn off??

2020-11-05T17:55:48+00:00

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Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-11-05T21:09:06+00:00

It's not that he doesn't like fighting, he doesn't like being called out.
For every red flag you find, he's usually hiding 2-3 more.

rideoffalone · 2020-11-05T21:15:52+00:00

Don't travel to see men. They should travel to see you.

Title	One Red Flag is Too Many For Me
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	232
Comments	33
Date	November 5, 2020 1:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jo9pq2/one_red_flag_is_too_many_for_me/
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