Pickmeisha's First Small Victory

theawkwardalli · 2020-09-26T17:25:06+00:00

I wouldn’t call this a victory, tbh. There’s still a lot to learn here. The pet names are super cringe and the flirting needs to stop—He uses you because you’re too available. Should’ve just said no and blocked/deleted

ChristmasPriestess · 2020-09-26T18:03:34+00:00

Everyone's gotta start somewhere! If you rejected him and acted in a manner you wouldn't have in the past before finding FDS, then I call it a small victory. Youre not going to become an FDS queen right away, because of the ingrained Pickmeisha in you, and it will take practice. I found FDS, then did a few not so FDS worthy things until I really figured it out. Some of us have to learn it by experiences. Just keep reading the handbook, reading the stories on here and establish your boundaries. Good for you and best of luck girl!

eveninghope · 2020-09-26T18:02:09+00:00

So, I get it. When you go from being a pickme, this is a step in the right direction, which is something. But can I ask, why engage with this guy? Why put in the emotional labor to boost his ego and then go out of your way to provide an alternative? Fuck this guy. He's nothing to you. He clearly doesn't care about your ego, so why even give a fraction of a shit about his?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-26T17:18:07+00:00

This is so pathetic. He announces his desire to use her for a massage (and sex ofc) and she says "sorry you miss me". Oh girl, please start listening to what he's actually saying. This whole thing is an example of her selective reading.

honeybeeroll · 2020-09-26T18:12:58+00:00

This is a step in the right direction for someone just starting out setting boundaries. Yeah it's not a perfect response, but she didn't jump at the chance to see him. That's really important. We all know the best thing is to not engage and block. I hope she did so after this exchange, because he was especially disrespectful in his last texts and she was still polite in response when he didn't deserve it. He's definitely going to come back, which is why I hope he's blocked!

electroloop · 2020-09-26T17:33:36+00:00

Never tell a man the sex was incredible lmao. Need a Gatorade sis?

Should have left him on read and not entertain this stupidness. You’ll learn.

bluebird_wings · 2020-09-26T18:31:28+00:00

Little steps.

Keep moving up that ladder!

blueveinnoble · 2020-09-26T17:23:29+00:00

More and more, I find it hard to distinguish between the male and female writers in these screenshots.

Who is da prize!? (Steve Harvey voice and bugged-out eyes)

letsberealforamoment · 2020-09-26T17:56:00+00:00

I'm not seeing a victory here. Some scrote fuckbky hits you up for sex, and you enabled his scroteness by being nice and flirty a with him. If your goal was to for him to repeat this low effort behavior with you, then you succeeded.

littletonothinghere · 2020-09-26T18:31:52+00:00

No victory lol

Sinchichis96 · 2020-09-26T18:44:20+00:00

Is the excessive emojis for me

UnitedHoney · 2020-09-26T20:06:00+00:00

You really said you had incredible sex to him and see this as a victory? Why boost his ego?

Summerisle7 · 2020-09-26T18:27:00+00:00

I see no victory here.

Title	Pickmeisha's First Small Victory
Author	princepessa420
Upvotes	2
Comments	21
Date	September 26, 2020 12:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j04v2w/pickmeishas_first_small_victory/
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