Please cut this “work husband” junk out. Work is work, personal life is personal life. It’s all fun and games until you really like him and his REAL WIFE shows up and you have egg on your face. You look desperate. I never mix work and personal life. Have you ever “entertained” a “work husband”?

buddingQueenie · 2020-03-12T04:11:04+00:00

I honestly don't even understand the "work husband" stuff. Do you have a "grocery store husband"? Or a "study husband"?

It seems like something Pickmeishas and their cheating low value men created to cast a cloak over their nasty side piecing.

Truly mature people don't shit where they eat.

riseaboveagain · 2020-03-12T04:09:36+00:00

I never understood the “work spouse” thing, like have these people never heard of the term “friends”?

ivy176 · 2020-03-12T04:56:16+00:00

Ummmm... if you get along really well with someone because you're like minded and have compatible personalities, plus you find them physically attractive, there's a high likelihood of developing feelings.

My partner of 4 years was originally my work partner. I fell for him based on the way we interacted and worked together professionally, then that naturally extended into our personal lives and we fell in love. It happens a lot.

So no, I would never have a "work husband" while in a relationship... my "work husband" will be my "real husband", so...

ironymaiden87 · 2020-03-12T11:29:55+00:00

I barely even understand this concept lol. It sounds so, so stupid. 🤡

andersdn · 2020-03-12T16:15:23+00:00

I despise this bullshit. No. My husband is my husband. You don't get a piece of him to claim as your own because he is at work to support our family. My husband would put this shit down so fast. Any HVM would.

siberiansummer · 2020-03-12T19:44:34+00:00

Even their body language shows it is NOT strictly platonic 🤦‍♀️

hanella · 2020-03-12T10:06:03+00:00

Why it gotta be work spouse? What’s wrong with just having a close friend? Why does it have to be upgraded to a relationship? It’s so weird and suspect to me.

radical__daphne · 2020-03-12T19:42:38+00:00

You don't fuck around at work and you don't fuck around in your friend group either. Unless you've known the person for a long time, vetted them thoroughly and want a serious relationship don't fuck around with this.

505ithy · 2020-03-12T10:31:04+00:00

I like this sub but it casually ignores a lot of the ills associated with capitalism. Though I like how it shows women to operate in a patriarchal capitalist world in a pragmatic way it can be unrealistic. These days people spend more time at work than anywhere else and if you’re single and someone you’re interested in work is too, there’s a high chance stuff might develop. Though I discourage work flings (I’ve learned my lesson, don’t shit where you eat) that is where many people have the only opportunity to meet people like friends, unprecedented romance etc. and just as much as you can meet bullshit dudes who may have an entire family outside of work there is a possibility of finding HVM there as well.

appleadam123 · 2020-03-12T16:43:32+00:00

What the fuck is a work husband??

PrincessTiaraLove · 2020-03-12T05:40:26+00:00

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