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[–]abby_ch238FDS Newbie 167 points168 points169 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
“Sex without kissing first”
At some point I started to wonder if something was wrong with me because the common explanation from scrotes is that kissing is more special so they reserve that for a girl they truly love but sex is just sex so they just fuck whoever is available. It started to make me feel so degraded because I could not imagine wanting to open up my body like that if someone only thought of me that way.
[–]Strict_Leopard1707Throwaway Account 121 points122 points123 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I didn't know sex without kissing first was a thing, and now I'm truly appalled.
[–]Slonky-Cat 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was fwb with a scrote for two years and we never kissed even once. They want it as unintimate as possible
[–]Healthy-Salt-4361FDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's their fantasy
[–]fak_beauty_standardsFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I went out with a guy who told me he "hates kissing, maybe only in the beginning". Like the honeymoon, I mean, honeyweek, then you're an old auntie.
[–]_queeeen_FDS Newbie 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the actual fuck was that statistic.
[–]Summer_SparklesFDS Newbie 195 points196 points197 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Statistics like these make me feel so happy and relieved I’m not sexually active yet. I don’t have any words for how glad I am that I found this sub before I ever entered the dating scene.
[–]rubthefleebFDS Newbie 74 points75 points76 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Right! Their was a time before FDS where I felt like I was "missing out" because I had decide to wait. Now I'm kinda dreading the act all together. I hate what porn has done to the minds of boys and men.
[–]Summer_SparklesFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess I’m still kind of in that first stage. Realistically I know it’s nearly impossible to find a man who’ll actually be good enough for me, but I have trouble keeping myself from fantasising about finding my dream man. Thankfully I have all the time in the world to learn and grow and level up, I don’t have to do it by tomorrow. I’m already enjoying life by myself and in due time I’ll stop feeling like having a man in it will make it better.
[–]AriaLuzFDS Apprentice 122 points123 points124 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I’ve been celibate for almost seven years and I can honestly say you’re not missing anything and I don’t miss sex at all. Sex is very empty today and not even worth it.
[–]Summer_SparklesFDS Newbie 89 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’m just disappointed, because I’ve always been a dreamer and finding out life isn’t like a fairy tale hurts sometimes. But I’m certain I can create my own beautiful fairy tale, with or without a man.
[–]acrosstheoceanin1984FDS Newbie 54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh, sis, I am the same. I read a lot of books and then create these unrealistic fantasies in my head. Sometimes I feel so sad.
[–]Summer_SparklesFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I really relate to that. It sucks, but it’s nice to know I’m not alone in this.
[–]mashibeansFDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think that goes for a lot of women, I grew up with Disney princesses (before Disney actually made a Disney Princesses brand, I'm not that young) and movies/shows for women hyperfocusing on romance (super pickme stuff), and being told that a romantic partner is the bestest thing to happen, that you NEED one, that life is miserable without one... (mostly for women, stories for men didn't focus on that, they "got" the woman as a prize on the side of the main plot) and then when we actually experience the stuff, it's such a fucking disappointment. It's one of the biggest scams, and it's rage inducing, to say the least.
[–]MuffcakelordFDS Disciple 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is good sex to be found out there, and i think FDS is a good tool for doing so! I've probably been lucky but i've also treated men with suspicion all my life and my experience has been only partners who value and prioritize me in bed, even my first boyfriend who i later lost to porn addiction.
The most important parts i think was to hang around at least a few months before engaging in intimacy, and having them only pleasure you the first few times before they get any reciprocation. Nothing wrong about staying celibate either, but few people prefer that and we want you to be your happiest. Stay strong!
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly sis buy a good vibrator and hold off as long as you can - vet the hell out of men when you do decide because this isn’t the generation for making mistakes out here.
So many lying ass pick up artists spreading STIs on apps. Men serial cheating on ‘longterm’ partners. Pornsick men jackhammering women and using them as objects. You’re not missing out on anything.
[–]radsera99FDS Newbie 74 points75 points76 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why aren’t people focusing on this more. This should be all parents number one concern.
[–]daisy_0720FDS Disciple 39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My heart breaks for Gen Z girls.
[–]cutekittensmeowFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly, seeing statistics like these gives me really conflicting feelings.
On one hand they remind me that the vast majority of men are trash who will never see women as people. They are unredeemable and just not worth any of our time.
But in the other hand they make me feel so sorry for the young boys raised in this awful woman-hating culture. So many of these young boys never even have a chance to experience how wonderful healthy relationships with the opposite sex are. They'll never have a chance to even form meaningful friendships with 51% of the population. I feel so much compassion and pity for these children that aren't being raised right. (I'm still not going to date them or try to fix them when they are grown.)
And it's almost all because of the grown ass scrotes and libfem pickmes who insist that women being objectified and degraded is normal and empowering.
[–]XASTA123FDS Newbie 61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I’m not gonna lie, I find it incredibly hard to believe that nearly half of the boys they surveyed have had anal sex, especially considering they’re so young.
[–]Strict_Leopard1707Throwaway Account 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's half of those who have had sex, not half of those surveyed
[–]XASTA123FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
apologies for my unclear wording, should be, “nearly half of the sexually active boys they surveyed”
[–]SurfCanucks[S] 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t be surprised if that many have tried it. My boyfriend at the time when I was 18 kept pushing anal sex and back in my pickmeisha days I ended up doing it because he insisted that it was normal and it’s all over porn. I didn’t enjoy it at all. A lot of guys push to do it because it’s a regular thing in porn that it just gets normalized in their brains. My friends also ended up doing it between 18-20 because of their boyfriends as well and thinking it’s normal because porn.
[–]qwaliYFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I knew a few girls when I was in college (16 - 18 in the UK) that had tried anal sex bcs their boyfriends were obsessed with it, even some girls when they were in secondary school (11 - 16) had tried it. You'd be surprised how depraved young men are, and girls - being raised in an increasingly pornified culture, where this is painted as normal - are pressured, whether by their boyfriends or the increasingly sexual culture that surrounds us, into giving in.
[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/bmjopen/4/8/e004996.full.pdf
http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-09/Flood%2C%20Senate%20submission%20Porn%20and%20youth%202016.pdf
[–]-25TFDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
These statistics are often bullshit. I remember taking one of these quizzes in middle school and many of the boys were bragging about how much they lied.
Expecting mature honesty out of immature people isn't going to go well.
[–]shipintheskyFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also, this is Daily Mail
[–]fak_beauty_standardsFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"shown them to other boys" that's totally what's happening, his pals will see you naked and comment on the size of your nipples
[–]freerollerskatesFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I work in UK politics and survation are an absolute trash polling company that twist their questions and really lead their respondants so I would take this with a really massive pinch of salt.
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