Reframe how you think about “choices” :)

_differentmentality_ · 2021-01-26T23:59:38+00:00

If a woman said that her man likes to slap and choke her with her permission outside of sex, we would all be weirded out by it and think that something is wrong with this dude. However, if she says that her man enjoys slapping and choking her during sex then suddenly it’s seen as normal. Apparently there’s nothing unethical about a man who likes to hit women as long as he derives sexual pleasure from it.

K0rla · 2021-01-27T03:33:09+00:00

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K0rla · 2021-01-27T07:53:27+00:00

Yes! THIS! I don’t want a society where men are taught that having sex is a right and something that can be paid for. It is impossible live in a egalitarian society if some women are considered just walking vaginas.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-01-26T23:42:30+00:00

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kycake · 2021-01-27T04:25:12+00:00

this is good. i never though about it like that, makes so much sense. i hate how the focus is always on women to do the right thing or to fight oppression or to advocate against male violence. men just get to sit and enjoy their life only being concerned with their stupid useless dicks.

2021-01-27T03:20:42+00:00

Men will never change. It benefits all men when some men are violent.

slayeroftruth · 2021-01-27T07:55:54+00:00

How much of choice is it for women who choose rape industry, BDSM ect when its glamorized? Look at how Pretty Women is glamorizing prostitution: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EBAVoN8L_U vs the reality: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGfL3UGmyXw ..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mbF4Vc_jR60

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0aK8T8W0hE

Hugh Hefner got tv show glamorizing porn. You have sugar babies being pushed as men just wanting to talk with little sex. We all know that's lie.

2021-01-27T04:43:09+00:00

Men literally don’t care even when confronted with that logic. They will just say “yeah, if she likes it then it’s fine to bruise and suffocate her! Who am ~I~ to deny her that just because she’s a woman? That’s sexism!!” It’s just pointless to try arguing

maracat1989 · 2021-01-27T13:35:33+00:00

This reminds me of a documentary I watched about the ripper serial killer who was murdering women in Yorkshire. The women had a protest about female rights and one of the signs said “MEN OFF THE STREETS” I was like YEAH why is it that we have to stay in at night, why don’t we hold men responsible for their behavior?! They are the ones who should have to stay inside instead of raping/murdering! Why are we punished and responsible for their BS???

gugalgirl · 2021-01-27T05:22:42+00:00

👏👏👏 Excellently put.

pickadaisy · 2021-01-27T01:39:44+00:00

Wow, I absolutely love this.

yggiwtmiih · 2021-01-27T01:21:05+00:00

This one hundred times.

GoldandGlowing · 2021-01-27T02:19:21+00:00

Good shit

Title	Reframe how you think about “choices” :)
Author	d33n3r_
Upvotes	912
Comments	31
Date	January 26, 2021 11:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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