Reminder why kinkmishas are a thing

balladwilds · 2020-12-02T14:59:21+00:00

they need therapy

SarcasmSlide · 2020-12-02T16:27:34+00:00

YES YES YES

Saving this one.

datthingy · 2020-12-02T17:42:42+00:00

I saw the same version but with a man saying he had a CNC kink . Disgusting

🤢

EarthKveik · 2020-12-02T20:52:46+00:00

Am I the only one who saw "CNC" and whose mind immediately went to "computer numerical controlled"? Like, What? They want to perform sex acts involving an automated router?

Literally nothing would surprise me.

2020-12-02T17:00:27+00:00

It's ok to judge though. Especially the men. Judge men who like cOnSeNsUaL rApE. And judge women who defend it and call it empowering.

Thejasminedragon1215 · 2020-12-02T21:07:49+00:00

Yeah, and this is why when people in this sub told me that what I experienced was RAPE and not CNC, I was retraumatized, and couldnt stop crying for days after.

Marigold-ink · 2020-12-02T17:00:27+00:00

No. Hard disagree. There is something wrong if you use it as your coping mechanism because it’s an unhealthy coping mechanism!

Years ago, I read this article about school teachers who developed ptsd from school shooting training. The goal was to desensitize them so that when the event occurred, they wouldn’t freeze and be able to direct their students properly. Guess what a day of training drills did to them?

So, by engaging in cnc coping mechanism, you’re traumatizing yourself from kink abuse.

rebel4acause · 2020-12-03T06:12:56+00:00

Listen, I understand the reasoning behind it. I personally could never imagine being into that, but I'm not going to shame those women. HOWEVER, why would you EVER want to be with a man who gets off from pretending to assault you? That is deeply disturbing.

girludontbringhome · 2020-12-02T23:11:58+00:00

A "CNC kink" sounds super unhealthy and sounds like internalized misogyny.

However, the claim in this TikTok does not seem like something that can actually be backed by research? Does anyone have any sources, I briefly Google'd this and there are many theories as to why women have this "kink." The websites talking about this specific theory seemed to be just blogs/unreliable sources...

janetheautomaton · 2020-12-03T13:49:22+00:00

I've got a little judgement. That first girl's eye makeup was lit.

whokilledhydra · 2020-12-03T17:44:05+00:00

I weep for my younger self.

I know so much now. I have so much self love now. But I still weep for my younger self.

Title	Reminder why kinkmishas are a thing
Author	dont-mute-them
Upvotes	245
Comments	24
Date	December 2, 2020 10:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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