Today my sister in law, mother in law and I worked all day cooking and preparing our family thanksgiving dinner. My brother in law smoked a turkey (cumulative time invested about 45 min). At no time did my father in law ask if we needed help or raise his finger to help. Sure he played with the kids for a bit but for the most part the two men of the family sat in the recliner, watching football and drinking. (My husband passed away a few months ago but he would have been parked in a recliner too or up my ass anxious as hell) We ladies are cleaning up too for the most part.

LVM will drain your energy and resources dry and ask why you cussed under your breath and tell you that cussing is bad manners.