They are the same picture oops💀💀

heladosky · 2021-04-20T15:59:26+00:00

This triggered a weird memory I have, two years ago I was at a Halloween party with a friend, we were dancing and things escalated and we were making out, he invites me to his place, and when we were about to do it he couldn’t get his thing up, I was confused because idk he’s young, he panicked and said that first he needed to watch his favorite porn to get it right, I said ok np, then omg the porn he was watching, disturbing af, it was a woman getting beaten on the face real hard, it looked painful and she looked like crying, and then he said if I wanted the same thing, I was kinda scared and I said I wanted to go home, and he got kinda mad and grabbed my hand and told me I’m dramatic that it was just kinky stuff, then I invented an excuse and told him my mom had an emergency and I needed to go asap. Next day he sent me an apology text saying he was embarrassed but that he still wanted to continue were we left off :/.

Honestly_th0 · 2021-04-20T15:55:57+00:00

I found myself being curious about this stuff and thinking It was what i wanted. Lord have mercy Im thankful I never did it. I casually mentioned it to my therapist just to learn my trauma had an influence on my sexual appetite. I just thank God I didn't have to learn from experience. because the thought of it now just puts a weird disgusting feeling in my stomach. It was only appealing because deep down I felt that way about myself and felt that's the treatment I deserved. I no longer feel that way of course Therapy has truly been an investment and life saver for me.

WeirdRockbaby · 2021-04-20T15:02:04+00:00

And they say that "domdrop" is when they feel guilty for what they like to do to women. But they get over it when the sub gives them after care and words of appreciation 🤡

ThatIntention1 · 2021-04-20T13:45:13+00:00

Just a reminder. Men defend the rape and abuse “kink” more than they defend women. Never forget that.

CrazyPaine · 2021-04-20T21:22:41+00:00

Yeah somehow I was into the daddy kink with my ex but that went to his head really quick. After we had bad arguments he asked me did I want some. I would literally look at him like he was fucking stupid. Yeah of course I want to have sex with you after you just emotionally and mentally hurt me. Sex was the last thing I wanted. He thought sex could make everything better. By the power of dick things could change; however he didn't whatsoever. He thought his dick was the cure for all when in fact it fucking wasn't.

PineapplePitiful272 · 2021-04-20T08:14:23+00:00

Some things should have never been normalised.

pretty_kill · 2021-04-20T12:26:11+00:00

I wonder if the 4 comments not shown are women not approved yet or scrotes who got offended 👀

quirkypinkllama · 2021-04-20T16:11:33+00:00

catandalady9 · 2021-04-20T12:55:55+00:00

Thank god I took off the rose coloured glasses with my “KiNk FrIeNdLy Ex”. This picture is spot on.

ayyymelees · 2021-04-20T13:39:21+00:00

Anytime I see a guy who says hes into kink I run for the hills. Nothing good ever comes out of men in the kink scene.

My breaking point with my ex was when he claimed he was into cnc, meaning he gets off to roleplaying sexual assault and rape. Holy fuck. Its funny how I didnt care if he hurt me, yet me hearing hes okay with reenacting literal rape made me realize hes either hurt other women or will hurt a woman in the future. It made me realize i morally cant be with a man who is okay with literal rape. I told him off, blocked him. Its been a healing process but im realizing i never have to settle again. Id rather be single than ever date a man who gets off to abusing women.

Saddest part is when you havr family members or friends in relationships with men like this... it makss me so worried sick, but kink has been so normalized. No one bats an eye at a girl saying her boyfriend beats her in bed. People usually laugh amd think its quirky. For me Its scary and makes me worry for that girl. :( i just hate how normalized this shit is

Mcccy · 2021-04-20T16:33:56+00:00

Flashback to my ex whom we hadn't had sex in weeks and I was worried that I was somehow doing something wrong. But the night of his bday where he got drunk he confessed to me he was into dominatrix stuff.

He wanted me to hit him, melt wax on him and other equally weird stuff. I left him immediately, not only cause I was only 18 but also cause I loved him and I couldn't even imagine doing anything degrading or hurtful to him.

I just can't imagine how some can hurt or hit the one they 'love'. If someone enjoys these, there's a huge change they have some kind of trauma going on.

99power · 2021-04-20T14:13:18+00:00

I love anti-kink memes. This is some good shit!! 💯💯💯

FARTHARLOT · 2021-04-20T12:09:34+00:00

The only acceptable kink is kink-shaming 😎

camr9435 · 2021-04-20T14:25:41+00:00

& this is why i’m pro- kink shaming 💪🏼😤💯

tiredragon155 · 2021-04-20T11:43:12+00:00

The accuracy

sugarplumcutie · 2021-04-21T03:44:03+00:00

I will forever kink-shame.

Zayelle · 2021-04-20T14:07:50+00:00

Yes Pam!

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-04-20T15:26:04+00:00

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Title	They are the same picture oops💀💀
Author	a_room_of_my_own3
Upvotes	1620
Comments	42
Date	April 20, 2021 7:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mulhb7/they_are_the_same_picture_oops/
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