They're Everywhere!

AnansiNeon · 2020-06-23T22:56:00+00:00

Yup. I went on a date on Sunday and I came armed with FDS knowledge. I just sit back and let him do his thing. He was a nice guy, he paid, didn't neg, seemingly charming but what have we learned about charmers? They usually have an end goal.

He tried so valiantly to get me to sleep with him but I said no. It was a fun date though.

He asked if I would call him after, I said, "you call me. You have my number." he said he was too busy. But that's not my problem. 😂

There were several conversational red flags, and in the past I would have just ignored it or found it charming. Now I know to accept people as who they say they are. No more, no less.

Chantelmorris345 · 2020-06-23T22:57:54+00:00

I swear as soon as you begin to develop the high value women mindset you begin to see how social media is wiring women to be pickmeishas, and men to be LVM. Literally its sad how many women i know that are pickmeishas, which is why i LOVE this sub because i can finally chat with women on the same mindset.

fairywakes · 2020-06-24T00:49:59+00:00

This guy I was seeing started to s/ext last week. I realized awhile back the scenario was not going far because I read FDR. I wish I had saved the messages. Went something like this:

Him, " good morning " Me " hi how are?" Him " I want to make love to you".....yes an actual quote Me...ghosted because i had nothing to say then told him hours later.

"If you want to see me ask me on a date. I'm off to watch Netflix."

Him "don't be so serious! Well enjoy your movie"

Not sure what he's up to now. Deleted and blocked.

jayda92 · 2020-06-23T22:53:06+00:00

It's a blessing and a curse. But.. It opens your eyes. I can't unread FDS and I'm an advocate now! I guide everybody over here. How more women in the know, the fewer 🐈🐱LVM can get.

And boy, do I love putting a stick in the wheel of LVM by not giving a single shit about them and laugh about their asses. I sometimes imagine the male lurkers fuming from the shit they read here.

Shout out: to the male lurkers: haha, pathetic losers, we're on to you and we'll bring you down😘. We have the 🐱🐈, we have the 💪

chateauduchat · 2020-06-24T04:34:09+00:00

Thanks to FDS, I have this profound sense of confidence and fine tuned bs detecting meter I have ever thought to possess. Finding FDS equipped me with the resources and mindset that helped me find the strength to quit my miserable abusive relationship. I also dipped my toes in dating to see if I would be to test my newly learned FDS skills. I dated a model briefly until I found out he was LVM (was trying to imitate sex way too soon, actions did not follow words) and so I called him out, made him feel incredibly embarrassed, and blocked him. I no longer feel the inclination to date for a long time and am so comfortable with this newfound energy. I felt like all the principles I knew I believe in but couldn’t find the community that believed in the same was out there. To know that there are is a group of us women who are not brainwashed by libfem garbage and pick-me-ism out there is absolutely a joy.

helena939392 · 2020-06-24T06:41:40+00:00

Yep. I have realised I have no reason to feel jealous or sad about all my friends having a LTR or a marriage, because all of their boyfriends and husbands are the kind of men I would never look at for more than one second.

meecy166 · 2020-06-24T03:43:13+00:00

Same!!!! I feel like lvm’s have always been around and now i am hyper vigilant to them, like my sixth sense has been opened and I can always tell the end! I’m amazed by how much I’ve learned in a few months

ironymaiden87 · 2020-06-24T10:34:51+00:00

Yes. I realised almost every man I've ever met, especially the ones I had romantic relationships with, are LVM. And nearly all my friends are pickmeishas. And so was I in certain ways. Absolutely not anymore though.

Title	They're Everywhere!
Author	shade-of-daisy
Upvotes	171
Comments	28
Date	June 23, 2020 9:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/henzr6/theyre_everywhere/
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