This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-02-28T17:15:01+00:00

He should have just said Tuesday works For him.

Usual_Zucchini · 2020-02-28T18:35:03+00:00

I'm gonna go against the grain and say another huge red flag is the type of date he proposed. "Wine and dark jokes?" What the fuck is that?

randomyellowumbrella · 2020-02-28T17:16:39+00:00

Throwing tonight in there is a red flag

Radtron3000 · 2020-02-28T17:19:54+00:00

How arrogant of him to not consider your needs, pushy and manipulative.

SnowHatesWome · 2020-02-28T18:12:52+00:00

Reeks of LVM. If it starts off with him valuing his time over yours it will always be that way. Great early detection.

timetofliptables · 2020-02-28T23:49:57+00:00

It’s posts like this where I learn. At first I was like I don’t get it what’s wrong? Then I read the comments and I was like oh damn... lol. There is is. And there it is. And that too.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-02-28T17:33:55+00:00

Always trust your gut! If it sounds/seems off to you it probably is. You don't owe him the benefit of the doubt.

sadpourtoujours · 2020-02-29T01:56:58+00:00

He should be trying to accommodate you, not the other way around. Next.

YesNoMaybe87 · 2020-02-28T21:55:10+00:00

Ugh I hate it when they open like this. Men aren’t entitled to my time like this. This would be a “that’s a no from me”.

jayda92 · 2020-02-29T09:17:22+00:00

Please do not do it! I had a date like that and it was terrible... Couldn't get away for like one hour. It's better invested in someone who respects and knows you more!

2020-02-28T20:01:03+00:00

You're allowed to just say "sorry I don't make plans on short notice." Let him then suggest a better time.

randomyellowumbrella · 2020-03-02T09:43:27+00:00

Lvm. Doesn’t introduce himself and asks you a manipulative question. He’s not going to be a caring or attentive partner.

extraacct1234 · 2020-02-28T17:21:22+00:00

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