This is terrible advice and will just come off as a manipulation tactic. Just block and delete.

AnniaT · 2021-08-06T12:55:58+00:00

Why waste time in getting low interest and low effort men back? Better just move on to someone with consistent interest and effort.

MsWriteNow07 · 2021-08-06T13:13:56+00:00

“How to set yourself back six months by falling into the manipulation he planned.” If you have been on three dates or fewer with a guy, he’s a stranger. He has no expectation of hearing from you ever again. But I don’t care if you’ve been married to the guy for 10 years, if you feel like your safety could be compromised, leave in silence. Men turn to violence when their little feefess are hurt

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-08-06T13:20:01+00:00

I really don't see the point behind this.

If he is low effort he is not interested in you. Why try to reel him back in and play mind games? Ok, you can end things politely like she did with her first text but it's just that - ending things. Thank you, next. Have a good life.

But what she does is to threaten him with a break up yet hoping he crawls back to her? If someone sent me this text I assume that they are actually sure about not wanting me in their life. I respect the people I'm dating, therefore I take them at face value and won't bother them. Sure it hurts when I still want them but hey, that's life. She is basically creep-baiting this guy. What a waste of energy and braincells.

FrenchHeel · 2021-08-06T14:57:35+00:00

Any time dating advice for women involves a lot of Words and communication it’s usually bad advice.

If he isn’t pursuing you, he loses you, plain and simple. It doesn’t require a conversation. You just date other men instead. He loses your attention and his date time slot.

p0ludnitsa · 2021-08-06T14:12:20+00:00

Waste of energy. In the time it would take me to compose one of these texts I could do something that makes me happy or something that's constructive.

Men know when they're not up to par, they just go on with how they're acting in the hopes that you're stupid enough not to notice it or that your self-esteem is low enough so you'll tolerate it.

FDS-GFY · 2021-08-06T12:59:02+00:00

Agree. Waste of time.

shockingupdate · 2021-08-06T14:41:39+00:00

she had it on the last one. ignore him, he’s fired.

that’s what you should do with all three scenarios, right before blocking them. why waste your time with all of this? it’s like training a dog but way less rewarding.

hydrohydrangeas · 2021-08-06T17:12:15+00:00

I’m not here to teach a man how to act. Ain’t nobody got time for that.

Block, delete and next him sis

esthermaniii · 2021-08-06T18:45:37+00:00

Explaining yourself to a man is the worst thing you can do. Just move on and find someone who you don’t have to explain basic decency to

CuntWaffe · 2021-08-06T18:40:37+00:00

I'm not here to teach men. I'm not your mother or your tutor.

__kamikaze__ · 2021-08-07T03:55:20+00:00

This never works. Explaining either leads to them arguing with you to prove a point, or stroking their ego—they get satisfaction from pushing your buttons. Best to block and delete.

Vmchik · 2021-08-06T14:21:18+00:00

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Ok-Appearance5982 · 2021-08-07T14:32:39+00:00

This is too much. I’m tired from just listening to this.

Title	This is terrible advice and will just come off as a manipulation tactic. Just block and delete.
Author	Vmchik
Upvotes	146
Comments	23
Date	August 6, 2021 12:42 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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