Ultimate PickMe?

darkhorse8419 · 2020-01-05T09:21:02+00:00

Y’all I can’t. This waste of space takes advantage of a teen he considers “trash”, abandons his child to a life of poverty and has the nerve to call her “trash”, and then harasses the wife for “manning up” in his place

Maisiebr · 2020-01-05T09:36:40+00:00

Sometimes it's not about who's the pickme (though I agree it's not magically someone else's fault that she's with an asshole), but about how much of a piece of shit is the husband. Men only care about the children that are from their current girlfriend/wife (but sometimes they don't care about even them), and shit on their past lives. Whether the child is from an affair or from a long lasting past marriage doesn't make a difference, if the man is like this.

Sometimes it's not about the woman being a pickme, but being naive and believing the ideas about love we get fed every day since the day we are born.

popfriday · 2020-01-05T09:53:28+00:00

She’s not even a pick me cause she’s doing what the fuck she wants and ignoring her low value husbands low value behavior(ie ignoring the mess HE created).

I mean I could NEVER but let’s not take focus away from what a steaming pile of horse shit this joke of a man is.

take1990 · 2020-01-05T13:17:55+00:00

I really hope the top commenter on the thread is being sarcastic. Being a doormat woman apparently makes you likeable on the internet.

aclumsygirl · 2020-01-05T19:17:57+00:00

I'll take the unpopular view here-- things are a lot more complicated when you're married to the shitheel guy and have kids with him. There's much more at stake. You put your kids first. So I'm not into judging this woman. I think her impulse to help this (adult) child in her predicament is impressive, and admirable. I'm not sure I could do it myself.

TBearRyder · 2020-01-05T17:32:20+00:00

Her husband is dead wrong for abandoning his child that he had by a teenager when he was in his 30’s. Financial support is not all a child needs, they need guidance as well. Now she has to nanny in the home her siblings ? He’s truly a deadbeat !

jalapenopancakes · 2020-01-05T15:47:13+00:00

Jeeeeeeezus

quasarbar · 2020-01-05T16:39:38+00:00

The wife is a very sweet lady to help out the young woman, who is innocent and has really been screwed over by life and by her father. The husband is, of course, a major piece of shit. It's sad that his wife didn't leave his worthless ass. He should get down on his knees and thank his lucky stars she stayed with him, but instead he has the audacity to get mad at her for being a better parent than he is when he's the actual parent? The fuck.

Title	Ultimate PickMe?
Author	darkhorse8419
Upvotes	16
Comments	28
Date	January 5, 2020 9:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ekass2/ultimate_pickme/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ultimate-pickme.685554 https://theredarchive.com/post/685554

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