When I met this guy on our first date he went for a handshake, but for some reason I decided to give him a hug. he had no choice but to comply. I did notice that he seemed confused, however it was already too late. Ever since then I've been replaying the moment in my head and thinking that I have messed up first impression.

Now, 5 great dates later we were discussing first impressions we made on each other during our first one and he said that i made an impression of a woman of strength because I went for a hug instead of following his intention for a handshake.

When I asked him to elaborate, he said that it was a total power move to start our first meeting on my terms instead of his and he LOVED IT.

Ladies, those LVM will try to make you think that a woman with strong presence is a turn off; but hell knows it's not . In fact, men who are worth your time will appreciate the strength.