Financially I never had a mate make more than me. It's more, I been the one to provide, I been the one to cook and clean. You can say I picked wrong, but statistically speaking, if I been dating since 15, for 10 years I never met a man who I "needed" in my life. It's always been the other way around. Although I feel cynical thinking like this, is the reality. They need us. Our nurturing love, our empathy, our souls. They need us to boost their ego, to make their lives worth living. Even if they use us for sex, they need us. We don't need them. Honestly I get off better sexually on my own than with a man. My last sexual experiences left me disgusted by men. The lack of care for themselves, it's repulsive. So what would I need a man for? I can provide for myself, get myself off, and I have amazing friends and family for human company. What are your thoughts on this? Am I too cynical? It does not make me sad to think like this, it's more it actually makes me focus on more important things. Things that will have an effect on my future. I see single women thriving, and I see married women look absolutely miserable. What is the point? Specially if I don't have children? Why put up with their insecurities and mental issues? What am I gaining from that? Please ladies tell me what YOU think.