Get comfortable with this question.

Ask him. Ask yourself.

Memorize this question until it is a natural instinct when considering a man.

Him being cute does not improve your life long term. Nor does him being cool. Or stylish. Or potentially being willing to commit to you one day if you jump through the right hoops. Or good in bed. Or charismatic. Or DeEp. Or driving a nice car. Or being a talented doctor/surfer/writer.

He takes all of that with him when he leaves. All subsequent women will receive the same “benefits”.

What is he doing that directly benefits you and you alone?

Sit back and let them move mountains for you, because we all know they will when they meet the right woman.

Don’t let them play you and waste your time and dignity.

They’ll respect you more for it, and, most importantly, so will you.

Set that bar high and build a life for yourself.