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[–]dalia-chanFDS Newbie285 points286 points287 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It doesn’t teach them shit. It just makes them pissed off for once, to see old creeps catcalling a pre-teen girl aka their daughters.
[–]wildcard0009FDS Newbie185 points186 points187 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah and it’s really not even about them respecting their daughters. It’s about them feeling the other men are disrespecting THEM because their daughter, and apparently her sexuality, is his possession.
[–]dalia-chanFDS Newbie78 points79 points80 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep. The best you could wish is that they’re defensive because they care for their daughter, but most of the time, they get angry, cause a man catcalling their daughters/sisters in front of them, is like telling them “ I don’t fear you, so I openly lurk on her lol”. That’s why they’re so mad.
[–]wildcard0009FDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bingo. “Didn’t they see me standing there!?” Yeah, because your presence should be the only reason we don’t get sexually harassed. Sick, you are the problem.
[–]RiteWriterFDS Newbie197 points198 points199 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I will always hold the door open for my fellow woman.
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
❤ SAME
[–]SslimReaperrFDS Newbie63 points64 points65 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
*always and only
[–]newuser20202020FDS Newbie130 points131 points132 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👏👏👏
[–]slynnryFDS Newbie169 points170 points171 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I shouldn’t have to wait to push a son out to learn to ReSpeCt men. His father should be a man I can respect. It’s simple.
[–]FaginRagetteFDS Newbie185 points186 points187 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. When men give all that "now that I have a daughter..." BS, they're implying that they didn't even respect the woman who had their daughter even if she was his partner/wife , but a lot of women give respect to men who don't deserve it.
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[–]jucamonoleFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Having a son teaches you the opposite. It teaches you that we have a responsibility to educate our sons on how they should treat women. If we leave it to the men, this world would be a complete shit show, not just a partial shit show. The few good men out there were once boys with mommas who did the right thing to educate their sons. (Yes, there are some good men. Not many, but some!)
[–]-badmadAMFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And so often good and empathic mothers who try their best still end up with shitty sons. Seen it enough.
[–]jucamonoleFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, of course. Sometimes society speaks louder in the ears of young men/boys. Still, we try our best to set examples for our kids.
[–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe because those women managed to raise a man worthy of respect.
[–]NurseBubbleGumFDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It taught me that I need to show my son how to love and respect women appropriately.
[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They can't grasp the concept that someone outside of his household is a breathing, feeling person. Especially women are seen as objects or aliens, and not people with their own struggles and impact to the world. It's crazy. When they're kids they seem to have more humanity, awareness and being unbiased, where the fuck do they lose their empathy and consideration? Their hormonal teenage brains being rotten by false porn world, constant disrespect for a woman and her body everywhere, peer pressure from toxic manosphere spaces that want to kill all women because some girl rejected an awkward boy in middle school, or a struggling single mother is asking for child support from the father, who's just as responsible, but these men, ”dads of the year”, see being held accountable and feeding their own children as unfair. Positive male influences are very rare and the boys end up copying and normalizing the toxic ones. No wonder newer generations are having less sex than ever and women are not scared of solitude anymore. Dying alone with cats? Bring it on.
[–]cmore_moneyFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bwahaha! This is so true. I’ve always hated this saying cuz it’s like , “So you’ve been treating your wife/girlfriend like crap all this time?”
I’d feel so disrespected if this were my husband.
[–]GrapeJuiceEnthusiastFDS Apprentice42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'm confused as to how this tweet should be understood. Is he pointing out how fucked up it is that men only learn to "respect" women once they have a daughter by showing how women don't need to have a son to respect men? Or is he saying "Why don't women respect men????!!!"
[–]Salt_SatisfactionFDS Apprentice51 points52 points53 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it's probably the first one
[–]ms_monquisFDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I read it immediately as the former — this is a criticism of the ostensibly grown men who have that “now that I have a daughter, I can see how girls should be respected” epiphany once they have one of their own.
[–]miniangelgirlFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just having brothers and empathy as well. And Uncles, my Dad and step-dad, guy friends, etc. It makes a difference when you take the time to be mindful.
[–]MargiePup44FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It takes the innocence of the young to understand the malice of the old. It's true!!
[–]upgrading2QueenFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this so much I bookmarked it so I can always come back to it. This is why I love FDS
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
How do you count the number ZERO on your hand though
I have literally never heard a woman say this.
Ever.
I only just now realized how weird it is men say this shit so much. Ugh.
[–]HhjjuuyFDS Apprentice32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's the point.
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I know I know. I just wanted to state the obvious
[–]Le_Lotus_bleu10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But he said "...count on NO hands..." so that part is correct.
... though from a logical and communicative point, I think the use of "count" there is wrong.
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I missed that!!
Oop!
I'm dumb and i like this post even more now.
❤ lmao thanks sis
[–]wildcard0009FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Next time someone says this I’m gonna be like ‘I can’t wait to give birth to a son so that I can then learn how to respect men.’
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm mad bc this will never be a cultural phenomenon bc women are too nice. It seriously pisses me off
[–]ComprehensiveProfit51 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
they don't, he's confusing things. Men say this when they talk about how difficult it is to be a woman or a person of color, which they don't think about until they have to raise one
[–]giggirltraFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This statement is so fucked up. Ok buddy, maybe we just won’t carry your sorry ass around for NINE MONTHS and then push your body out ripping ourselves APART to bring you into this world!!!? Why are SO MANY MEN SO STUPID THESE DAYS!!!?
[–]HhjjuuyFDS Apprentice62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He isn't saying anything about childbirth or actual children at all, he's calling out how fucked up it is when men say that having a daughter is when they learnt to respect women. The statement isn't fucked up, what he's calling out is fucked up.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t actually understand what this post is saying. Is he saying this is good or bad?
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