We might see the pendulum swing when it comes to people complaining about gender roles. Since women might struggle to adapt to a new world where male gender roles are less prevalent.

https://youtu.be/XlipTAynX6k?si=9UHdVxytWzrshOmh

Contray to popular beliefs. Men aren't the only ones that complain about women not following gender roles. Women do that too. And at a larger level. Since the only time I see men talk about female gender roles is mostly in online conservative and red pill spaces. And those spaces are already considered low hanging fruits online. For the most part in real life, most men aren't super into enforcing female gender roles. Society reflect this, since all the progress and rights women have gotten. Like working and having careers.

So we might be soon in a era where the same progress might happen with men. Particularly when it comes to the social standards of male gender roles though. And similar to how men were struggling to adapt to women having more fluidity and flexibility in their gender roles. We might see the same situation with women and gender roles too. Since society are still raising women to expect that men should be chivalrous to them, and always want to approach/pursue them.

Dr. K once said men are failing or struggling because society raised men to think women still follow gender roles. By telling men all they need is a job and income to get women. But In reality this set men up for failure, when reality doesn't match their expectation or fantasy. Since women already have jobs, and even successful career, where they can do better than men.

I would like to flip this over though. And say women might struggle too. Because again society still raised women to expect traditional behaviors from men. Casuing them to struggle when reality doesn't match their expectations. Like the woman who is complaining in the video about random men not helping her.

Now imagine if the genders were reversed. And a man was complaining about how he has to work a hard warehouse job 12 hours everyday. And he can't come home to a wife or girlfriend who has a cooked meal prepared for him. This man would get dragged online for saying this. Albeit this may be a double standard. Since it's more normalize for women to complain about men not following gender roles in society.

But we might get to a point where women might face more pushback for thinking like this woman in the video. For example like this woman in this video who wants a "masculine liberal man". (https://youtu.be/U_G4cQVM4u4?si=E4zLS5tbq_nPu-Bu)

To bring it back to what Dr. K said about men failing, because men aren't adapting to the modern world when it comes to female gender roles. Again the same thing might happen with women, where they are struggling to adapt with social standards of male gender roles changing. The whole meme of women getting mad for men not interacting with them is a perfect example of this.

In conclusion.

When you are so accustomed to privilege equality feel like oppression.