Ain't that the truth

Bossdonut · 2017-11-15T17:04:24+00:00

4 years so far. Hard to find a reason to go back.

EpicWinningFTW · 2017-11-15T17:05:44+00:00

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tw1g007 · 2017-11-15T20:30:41+00:00

women direct outward emotions to hide their cruel self.

men direct outward cruelty to hide and protect their emotional self.

It is one of the biggest fallacies of mankind, to think that women are more emotional then men. Its the other way around. Thats why they can manipulate and control us so easily.

balancedben · 2017-11-15T18:51:02+00:00

That's because women are incapable of love. What they feel is temporary crushes.

MTrueSolitude · 2017-11-15T18:53:24+00:00

3 months

you are either the backup or fallback guy, they are never single

2017-11-15T18:54:42+00:00

The one who cares less wins.

NewThrowaway115 · 2017-11-15T17:24:19+00:00

You made a typo. its 3 days.

T0000009 · 2017-11-15T19:06:21+00:00

3 months?

That was 40 years ago before modern tech cut it down to minutes, at most it might be hours if she has to wait for her next wallet to pick up the phone.

trumpisaforcedmeme · 2017-11-15T17:17:18+00:00

Tried relationships again this year, mistake.

mongolian_usa · 2017-11-15T18:26:53+00:00

Women are sadistic loons, and thrive when they can play the victim card.

GetrichonIMP · 2017-11-15T17:57:09+00:00

The whole reason they moved on is because they can't be in love. The man loves the women and the women loves the BENEFIT she receives from the man, once that benefit in her mind is gone you're history buddy.

fuu999 · 2017-11-15T20:22:06+00:00

nope, they fuck a new guy in 3 days max

raisins3142 · 2017-11-15T17:08:30+00:00

Because ancient men could survive without a female partner

silive · 2017-11-15T18:02:18+00:00

"3 month later"? Three months before, more likely. Or even three months before she even met you. All of them try spinning the multiple plates and with no exceptions. P.S. The last "relationship" I had was seven years ago and I will not have that mindfuckery again as long as I live.

ninjabaseballbatman1 · 2017-11-15T18:21:05+00:00

Its funny how I had casual relationships last longer than any official real relationships I had. Its been about 6 years for me but chicks I been with casually have had at least 3 bfs since I first met them and once in a while they still come around. I could never have a serious gf knowing what I know now.

SkullOfAchilles · 2017-11-15T18:01:45+00:00

She already had someone on the backburner.

At the 3 month mark she will be twice, or thrice, removed by then.

Three-Legged-Fox · 2017-11-15T17:39:34+00:00

I thought I'd give it another go last year. Found a nice traditional woman from Latin America. She started demanding a ring and a tradcon life within four months of dating. I noped out and I think I'm done for good.

AnnikaQuinn · 2017-11-15T19:30:40+00:00

3 months? That's cute. You mean 3 months before the first relationship ended right?

1UPZ_ · 2017-11-15T20:39:10+00:00

Its because "other" men compete for their affection and attention.

Horny men who would back stab their friends to hook up with their friend's ex is an example. It happens too often.

For every honorable men... there are 2-3 dishonorable men willing to take their place in anyway possible.

BlackFire68 · 2017-11-15T20:18:18+00:00

Women will already be in love with someone else and THEN leave

DontPrayForMe · 2017-11-15T22:16:09+00:00

Ex coworkers husband died about a month ago. Now She's engaged to someone she meet a week after the death.

duna_cl · 2017-11-15T20:24:03+00:00

It has been 2 years for me and still don't want to know other woman. I found mgtow community and i really don't know where i stand now or if i even i'll get well or unbroken. i started to questioning my beliefs and some of the ideas agree with mgtow philosophy. I haven't returned to formal work, luckyly i haven't needed the income. During this 2 years i visited other countries and i enjoyed this a lot. What most worries me is the idea of being in loneliness, i 've felt it and sometimes is overwhelming. I think once figure this out i'll be on my way to hapiness. What is the answer of mgtow to loneliness?

JStheHammer · 2017-11-15T18:53:54+00:00

3weeks.

1UPZ_ · 2017-11-15T20:35:54+00:00

women don't love like men do.

Women love men that makes them feel certain ways... if someone else can bring those same feelings she'll be attached to the new one easily...

Men, they get attached to the person physically somehow, I'm not sure why, but maybe like a son to his mother lol

But Men just fall in love or gets attached to physical tangible things or people more....

Actanonverba11 · 2017-11-15T21:40:59+00:00

Can confirm. 5 years and counting. Shit messes you up.

_perfect5outof7_ · 2017-11-15T22:03:12+00:00

Three months lol. The woman I recently got out of a relationship with was messing with one of my friends the entire time we were together. She was even texting him right after my dad died a couple weeks ago.

OptimusFried · 2017-11-15T20:10:37+00:00

3 hours later. Probably 3 hours before.

shadof · 2017-11-15T19:38:02+00:00

You mean days

realChebz · 2017-11-15T20:19:17+00:00

3 months? try 3 days...

TigPlaze · 2017-11-15T20:33:23+00:00

No kidding. The game is rigged in their favor.

LabTech41 · 2017-11-15T21:50:42+00:00

There's a typo there, there should be quotation marks around the word "love". You need to have loyalty to call it love; something that can be gotten over that easily bears no loyalty, only necessity. Women don't love, not like men do; they have infatuations, and those infatuations are only as attaching as the woman thinks is useful to her.

Had a woman for over 6 years, she never stopped talking about getting married. From what I was able to piece together later, just about the time she found a guy who was a better trade-up, that talk stopped... and the issues with ME started. I was very lucky to have avoided any serious rape charges after we broke up, and its not like intimations weren't made on her part. That was years ago, and I'm still not really over it.

The worst part is, I ran into her a few years back when I was in a MUCH better state of affairs than when we broke up. I shit you not, within the span of an hour of talking, she was perfectly fine with cheating on me against the guy she left ME for, who was now her husband. I was just thirsty enough by that point to almost take her up on that offer, but then all of my thoughts and feelings since the breakup flooded back, and all the puzzle pieces fit together and I KNEW. She'd never loved me, not really; I was just the only guy at the time willing to spend any time with her; once she could trade up, she did, and once she could trade back to something better, she would.

If I wasn't MGTOW by then, I was after. I'm not totally ruined on women, but it would take something special to make me interested in going back into the game again. I'm not an emotional man, but I put too much of myself into that relationship and got so much hurt out of it to go through that again.

casra888 · 2017-11-15T21:39:29+00:00

3 minutes later

gravelheart · 2017-11-15T23:54:55+00:00

This is naive as fuck. The default behavior of women is to monkey branch and start fucking some other sucker before they even break it off.

Essential message is correct though. I know a guy who swore off women 20 years ago after he caught his first girlfriend fucking someone else in his bed and heard it on the grapevine that the love of his life wasn't satisfied by his dick size.

Heartbroken and humiliated publicly. She killed his sexual confidence forever.

LawlessDestiny · 2017-11-16T01:02:01+00:00

I agree with this. That’s why I told my gf that if it ever ends with her, then that’s it for me. I’m never doing this again. I feel too close to her and we shared so much time together that to do this ever again with someone else would be soul-sucking. I will constantly be anticipating the moment it goes wrong. I’ll be paranoid and second guess her every intention and word just looking for a growing disinterest towards me. No thanks. That’s how you get high blood pressure and the eventual heart attack. If not her, then no one. If she ever goes, then I’m mgtow monk mode forever and trust me it will be easy.

Poster515 · 2017-11-16T01:18:19+00:00

That's bc in general men put up with a relationship to get sex and women put up with sex to get a relationship. Men are already kind of averse to LTR, when we get fucked over we become REALLY averse to it. Same with how if a woman has a bad sexual experience or is raped (actually raped) she'll have a negative reaction toward sex for a long time. The problem is men are shamed for wanting sex, women are praised for wanting commitment, and men are shamed for not wanting commitment.

Itisforsexy · 2017-11-15T21:53:18+00:00

3 days later*

krik81 · 2017-11-15T22:02:25+00:00

More like 3 days

Its_Not_Over_Yet · 2017-11-15T22:20:41+00:00

More like 3 days later

801735 · 2017-11-15T22:21:11+00:00

~~later~~.

prior.

DarkLorde117 · 2017-11-15T23:05:08+00:00

Complete bullshit to be honest. We aren't homogenous fellas. I was flirting with the girl I hope to date soon within two weeks of my breakup in a serious (though only a year) relationship; over the ex within a week.

Death_Metal_Chuck · 2017-11-16T01:11:55+00:00

3 months later? More like 3 minutes. They already have the next couple dudes lined up.

ICantHaveIt · 2017-11-16T01:23:35+00:00

I went out with my best friend, a week and a half later she was with another guy that we had met 2 weeks before then, says that she loves him and didn’t think it would hurt me but she still loves me as a friend

Shimakaze4 · 2017-11-16T01:40:54+00:00

A friend of mine was dating this girl for at least 5 years, they broke up, she was back in a relationship in 2 months. I just wonder how much she liked my friend because she moved on fucking quickly.

iniquity42 · 2017-11-16T04:09:40+00:00

Not so. Moving on from a failed relationship is liberating. After a fake, extremely short marriage, I had about a half year of casual sex until I found the perfect woman for me, and could not be happier.

JackWithTheHammer · 2017-11-15T22:21:41+00:00

More like 3 days. Probably already had someone lined up.

arena_say_what · 2017-11-15T23:44:43+00:00

God damn that's a truth bomb

lulz3r · 2017-11-16T02:27:35+00:00

You spelled weeks wrong.

DankJaeger · 2017-11-16T03:17:51+00:00

Mostly because most men learn their lesson the first time, women make the same mistakes over and over and over again

Islandlife123 · 2017-11-16T04:23:31+00:00

"women don't know how to love, she told me. you know how to love but women just want to leech. I know this because I'm a woman.

hahaha, I laughed.

so don't worry about your breakup with Susan because she'll just leech onto somebody else.

we talked awhile longer then I said goodbye hungup went into the crapper and took a good beershit mainly thinking, well, I'm still alive and have the ability to expel wastes from my body. and poems. and as long as that's happening I have the ability to handle betrayal loneliness hangnail clap and the economic reports in the financial section.

with that I stood up wiped flushed then thought: it's true: I know how to love.

I pulled up my pants and walked into the other room."

Charles Bukowski

manbat123456789 · 2017-11-16T04:34:19+00:00

It's evolution, it hasn't kept up with society.. There was no negative reward signal to learn for joining an invading tribe. Females jumped to the most powerful man that wanted them, a simple heuristic.

In tribal society this was an edge case. You knew everyone and people looked out for each other. Marriage was an agreement from the powerful men to everyone else saying, hey, lets build society and I wont fuck your girl or hurt your family. It doesn't work now when there are so many humans.

WhistlingAlong · 2017-11-16T04:44:40+00:00

Going on 2 years for me.

TheOldEskimo · 2017-11-16T05:08:56+00:00

Try tomorrow or maybe next week.

My observation's been that most of the time a LTR ends, it's because the woman found an "upgrade" so they've already got somebody lined up when they leave.

The real bullshit is that they'll do this exactly as we've described it then vehemently deny it to the ends of the Earth and play the victim. You know, despite having just completely thrown you under the bus for their own gain.

Women are the biggest hypocrites on the planet. What's crazy is they really seem to genuinely buy into their own bullshit. It's mind-blowing watching those hamster-wheels in their brains work.

In their minds, cheating or branch swinging either isn't wrong at all (only when they do it though) or if it is than they're definitely not guilty of it like "other girls" because what they did is "different".

My ex laid the whole thing out for me.

"Well that wasn't cheating because he kissed me! I was drunk"

"That wasn't cheating because I told you about it afterwards! At least I told you!"

In the end, she left me for a guy she'd been dating unofficially (while living with me) for about a year. In hindsight I should've seen it coming a mile away given how she mentioned some moments they shared which were way to intimate for "just friends". This guy apparently won her over by telling her how heartbroken he was to have aborted his kid with another woman. Apparently, he sold it well.

One day she ups and swaps like it ain't no thang. Tells me, "It has nothing to do with Max". She's with him the next week -- reality is she was with him for a long time before she left.

4 years down the drain like it was nothing. Thought she was my best friend.

Taught me a lotta hard lessons.

nunhgrader · 2017-11-16T05:14:07+00:00

I was with one beautiful woman for 26 years - 12 years of it married. Best friend. AWALT. She went for the jugular and did a partial divorce rape. Karma is a bitch. I will never marry again.

cleats4u · 2017-11-16T05:20:25+00:00

3 years of pump and dump (after a couple months with them) and 3 years of monk mode now for me. I just have no feelings for women, I won't allow myself to get close to one. I know going in I'm playing a role and I'm going to dump her. They mistake it as confidence when it's really indifference. Lol.

ZergSuperHighway · 2017-11-16T05:58:19+00:00

Three months? Try one week.

And for myself: 1st LTR resulted in me going celibate monk mode for 8 years. It's how I truly got to the core of who I am and why people compliment me on being so genuine.

After this last LTR. Never again. I smash from time to time. I will live alone unless I can find someone that improves my situation. Most likely I will live alone and be free until I die.

raisins3142 · 2017-11-16T06:37:34+00:00

I knew a married couple through my industry. The husband died a horrific and slow death from cancer. Like 6 months later, I see the woman at the grocery store with a new guy and he is squeezing her ass openly and joking loudly about marinating her rump roast (yeah, cringe). She's laughing like a school girl.

It just really bothered me.

But there must be the silver lining of a roastie joke in there somewhere.

svgelife · 2017-11-16T07:18:05+00:00

real shit nigga

redredredredddd · 2017-11-16T08:23:58+00:00

This is sad. :(

fruguy · 2017-11-16T08:30:40+00:00

3 months before.

FTFY

Aussiewolf82 · 2017-11-16T09:57:43+00:00

Over 2 years here now. No way am I going back.

2017-11-16T10:42:28+00:00

"Love" is like an addiction, you can sober up from it.

BK20177 · 2017-11-16T12:01:20+00:00

1 year so far. Never going back. Monk Mode unti the end of time!

mgtownigga · 2017-11-16T12:24:06+00:00

3 months lol. More like 3 weeks, sometimes days.

Nezborn02 · 2017-11-16T14:47:39+00:00

Seconds later actually

superfjant · 2017-11-15T23:12:41+00:00

lol yeah my ex recently ended our relationship and she has already found a new guy.

The funny thing is that he seems very similar to me in several ways.

maxrocky · 2017-11-16T05:16:16+00:00

8 years for me, 1,5 months for her. Truth.

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MrDysprosium · 2017-11-15T22:23:05+00:00

Come on guys, it depends on how the breakup went. I blind-sided a girl once and she was not ok for a very long time... Don't fall into this hyperbolic rhetoric, it just.makes MGTOW seem more far fetched.

Title	Ain't that the truth
Author	MTrueSolitude
Upvotes	484
Comments	182
Date	November 15, 2017 4:43 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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