UPDATE: Bae mad I play weekly dnd

First post - https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/cga3j0/bae_mad_i_play_weekly_dnd/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app

My eyes were opened by how consistent your comments were . I had a rush of Adrenalin and knew I needed to act on it NOW, else I would chicken out later.

I got all my stuff from her apartment. Pretended to be all lovey dovey. I even mentioned cutting down the dnd hours to 1 day a month. That got me into the apartment. Spent some time there. Got my stuff, got my car , and broke up with her over text. Blocked her on everything. It’s done.

I also positioned a camera on my car outside my door, just in case.

This wasn’t the end of it. Because she obviously began complaining to my relatives. This was the long winded message my MOTHER sent me after she found on (paraphrase, not direct quote).

Mom: I’m deeply disturbed you would chose a video game (it’s not a video game?!?!!?!) over such a nice and kind women. I’m also disgusted you wouldn’t be a man, and break up with her in person.

Me: if I tried to break up with her in person, I wouldn’t have been able to get my stuff back, and it could have escalated with me getting hit. She already has hit me in the past.

Mom: people > convenience. You spent a long time with her. It’s RESPECTFUL and being a GENTLEMAN to do this in person. Do you know how many times a guy did that to me?! do you know how that makes girls feel?! DO YOU NOT CARE?! I thought I raise a more mature son.

Me: did you seriously just ignore me telling you that SHE HAS HIT ME IN THE PAST.

Mom: you are literally a foot taller than her. I’m sorry she did that, but you are overreacting. She is a good girl and she is just enthusiastic about the relationship.

Me: I genuinely distraught that you literally are taking her side , and ignore literally everything I’m telling you. You don’t give a shit about me , my desires, or my god dam health. Really?

Mom: I’m not taking her side! I’m just trying to lead you In a correct life path that will make you the best man you can be. Relationships take work! You can’t abandon them when things get tough.

Me: ..... I’m literally shaking with how furious I am at you. I consulted multiple people about this decision, and they all told me you didn’t care about me, shown through your behavior. But I didn’t believe them. I’m your SON.

Mom: you are literally only talking about YOU. YOU, YOU, YOU. What about her?

Me: I’m blocking you, goodbye .

one hour later, my father texted me

Dad: I have no idea what on earth is going on. I keep getting mixed messages from your mother. She’s saying you essentially spit in this girls face. Is this true?

Me: no. Not at all.

Dad: I support you no matter what decision you make. You should pursue the relationship that makes you happy.

Me: thanks.

Dad: you are welcomed at my place anytime. Even if it’s to get away from your crazy ass mother. I won’t tell her. I still have to go back there occasionally to visit your younger brother. You’ll have free range of the place while I’m gone obv.

(Kinda hard to edit out the personal information that was included in the texts. But like...hopefully the paraphrasing cane out okay)