Am I welcome?

Maximum_Afternoon · 2021-01-15T16:22:30+00:00

|My girlfriend is not like the types of women most of you describe having bad experiences with

Here's the thing: you won't know for sure until about five years after you marry her. Maybe 10.

Every one of us that got married and then wrecked in a divorce ALSO thought "My girlfriend is not like the types of women most of you describe". Every one of us.

Kid, just do us all a favor: never get married. Ask yourself: "What, exactly, about signing a contract with the government, makes this relationship better?"

Suka87 · 2021-01-15T16:15:51+00:00

Learn about Hypergamy, learn about the shit tests, realize that she's not yours, its only your turn. We all thought "she is not like the rest", they never are, until it happens to you.

30203forever · 2021-01-15T16:34:23+00:00

My girlfriend is not like the types of women most of you describe having bad experiences with, and that is why I am with her. We are very much in love.

Almost every man on the planet has believed that at one time or the other. And a very small percentage had it confirmed, unfortunately. What you have is called NAWALT in our lingo so as far as you're not pushing your "my girl is not like that" narrative while irritating the people with some solid experiences & access to statistics to actually know that it's not so, you can participate here like everyone else.

P.S. I see that your girlfriend is only 19 so of course, she's not as materialistic as your average woman! Wait till she's 24 (assuming you last that long) and you'll see the difference between that and her younger version, guaranteed.

ncharliend · 2021-01-15T16:08:42+00:00

I’m curious on where you found mgtow and how your girlfriend isn’t like the others, I’m jealous but yes you’re very welcome.

unmasteredman · 2021-01-15T17:51:25+00:00

Check out r/marriedredpill if you want to see the Battle of Helm's Deep your life will become

Edit: AWALT

classicliberal1 · 2021-01-15T19:32:07+00:00

I'd have no problem with you. Relationships are fine as long as they are non-committed and non-exclusive. I would not count on the woman's loyalty to you. Like it or not, you have to accept that she has almost certainly slept with guys before you (even if she says she hasn't) and will sleep with guys after you. If you are attached to her, that's going to hurt.

I recommend sticking to non-exclusive, non-committed relationships. See my post at https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/kxfcnu/why_no_relationships/

cz_masterrace · 2021-01-15T16:29:17+00:00

Most people here thought the exact same thing about their prior relationships and girlfriends

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-01-15T22:33:07+00:00

Sure, you're welcome. MGTOW = no marriage, no cohabition, and don't get anyone pregnant. It also means detaching yourself from the need for female validation and turning most of that attention elsewhere. Some MGTOW date and have STRs, though, and there's no rule that says you have to "swear off relationships."

The main idea is just to be smart about it -- educate yourself, know what the risks are, pay attention to red flags, understand "female nature," etc. And of course, avoid marriage, cohabitation, and pregnancy.

You don't really fit the MGTOW lifestyle, though. Few MGTOW have LTRs, and you won't hear MGTOW guys talk about how much they love their girl and how she'd never do the stuff other women do.

Good luck. Hope it works out for you.

WeAllNeedLoveRespect · 2021-01-15T16:30:39+00:00

Visit r/DeadBedrooms at your own time and spend a few days going through the posts there and let us know what your thoughts are. Especially read up on what some of the men are posting there.

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-01-15T23:39:17+00:00

Idk about anyone else but I ended up here after quite a few years of "treating her right" and getting ignored/dumped/cheated on/etc anyway. "Being a gentleman" achieves nothing, it is not rewarded with loyalty (or even honesty) and it's just worthless.

I acknowledge that happy marriages do exist. But I also acknowledge that they're by far the exception.

Blunt_Sage · 2021-01-16T01:25:35+00:00

I consider myself a part of the MGTOW community. I haven't sworn off relationships, though. Instead, I use what I've learned here to navigate relationships. I can better see through the lies, bullshit, and manipulations.

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-01-16T05:27:05+00:00

Its about searching for the truth. Most people actively reject uncomfortable truths; society has a shared 'mass delusion' about what is to be believed & how the world works.

daniellederek · 2021-01-15T23:32:19+00:00

Do what you like. But we have the research data.

All Women Are Like That.

If you make the mistake of upgrading her to wife please be fully aware of the financial and legal repercussions of that along with completely understanding there is a 98.7% chance she will cut off her hair, close her legs, gain 50% in mass and become umemployable as soon as you impregnate her.

Just do not ever come complaining about it after the fact as WE FUCKING TOLD YOU IT WOULD HAPPEN. You aren't Kurt Russell and she's not Goldie Hawn.

femabuse · 2021-01-15T17:11:34+00:00

Yes you are welcome.

AndiNOTFROMTOYSTORY · 2021-01-15T18:20:22+00:00

If you think your girlfriend is truly the Unicorn woman as we tend to call it do not get married if she understands why then you could be happy with her even have a wedding but do not sign the contract.

That's what I think as long as you don't get LEGALLY married you can be happy with her at least it's what I think it's your life do what you want.

woke_is_a_plague · 2021-01-15T18:45:53+00:00

I hope it stays this way, and wish you all the best

Content-Board7302 · 2021-01-16T05:10:23+00:00

Do yourself a favour and listen to Coach Greg Adams’ and read the rationale male by Rollo Tomassi before you get married ...

avtarius · 2021-01-16T08:56:12+00:00

You're going your own way just like most of us here.

Also MGTOW isn't club, no welcome needed.

NovaPrimer · 2021-01-16T13:14:36+00:00

You never know who she really is until you have to tell her NO. Something changes in women after "I DO"

casra888 · 2021-01-15T16:28:24+00:00

Why would anyone mind??? Go your own way. But, I am curious about how you describe your girlfriend is not like all the others? How is she different? How old are you both?

Dead_Art · 2021-01-15T19:34:39+00:00

Hey there are good women out there, maybe you found one. Hopefully she stays that way but I'd still read up on the content here about how the male mind versus the female mind perceive relationships and the opposite/same sex. My last relationship was good right up until I caved on those philosophies

Deplorable_X · 2021-01-16T00:02:10+00:00

Everyone is welcomed here brother

sevensliders · 2021-01-16T02:05:10+00:00

So you come here to learn about.. what exactly? Do you realize that all you may learn here will be contrasted with having a girl in your life? Have you come here to gawk and to point and laugh and call us incels because we can't get pussy?

If you want information about the philosophy in the lens of someone in a relationship, quora seems to be a good choice. Otherwise, you are welcome. Remove your relationship-centric glasses before you give your opinion and things will be smooth sailing.

__Vandetta__ · 2021-01-16T03:06:26+00:00

Dude you are welcome in my books. But I do agree that the best way you will learn is through experience.

ConfederateGuy · 2021-01-16T03:16:12+00:00

As far as I'm concerned your more than welcome here. If your in a happy and stable relationship then I'm happy for you. I've read some of the interaction you've had with other members here but all I can do is say your welcome here from my pov.

james_white22 · 2021-01-16T03:25:21+00:00

My girlfriend is not like the types of women most of you describe having bad experiences with, and that is why I am with her.

Yeah... we all said the same thing bro. I would’ve sworn up and down that my girlfriend was different. You’d be surprised how much a woman can change once she gets the power.

jonathaninfresno · 2021-01-16T09:17:56+00:00

You will join us eventually. Before divorce court, or shortly thereafter

omen_tenebris · 2021-01-15T23:01:37+00:00

You're welcome. Hope your relationship works out for you. Truly

XGHOW · 2021-01-15T23:17:52+00:00

Sure, live your life however you wish. Good luck, hope it works out for you

totallossguy · 2021-01-16T01:07:09+00:00

Nah most dudes here are incels or scorned men. I go my own way. I’m married. Going your own way doesn’t mean listening to guys who got unlucky and screwed by women.

the-tokoloshe · 2021-01-16T01:30:12+00:00

Of course you are welcome. We don’t hate women, or men that choose to partner with women. Alot of us just choose not to do it ourselves for our own reasons. Most people don’t understand hypergamy, learn about it.

My personal takeaway from mgtow is that I actually care more about society as a whole than I originally thought I did. To me that is important and I thank the commenters here.

The-truth-hurts1 · 2021-01-16T02:13:47+00:00

Dude... every relationship people have been “very much in love”, every guy has said “my girl isn’t like that”.. and the majority haven’t ended that way.. I’m not , we aren’t, saying that every relationship is doomed, but if you want to play the odds, the smart move for a guy is not to play the game

Capital-Ad-831 · 2021-01-16T02:15:24+00:00

“Not like most types of women” which tells me she’s exactly like them.

Algo2Pete · 2021-01-16T02:32:47+00:00

Love to pound them pussies but I cant trust most of them. At least half the stuff come out of their mouth is bullshit. The worst part is they aren't fucking good at lying. So easy to detect when the bitch is lying.

LicksMackenzie · 2021-01-16T14:09:52+00:00

Welcome to mgtow2, here is your complimentary tea cozy

LatomVagabond · 2021-01-16T18:36:31+00:00

Sounds like a woman larping as a happy man in a relationship. Username looks oddly like Angelica, nuff said.

mitchivantaylorov · 2021-01-17T00:18:01+00:00

..im going to shut this shut down right now..first of all..the author of this is obviously a woman..smh..i can tell because im getting tired of responding to the same shit over and over..bae..boo..homie..cuz..playa playa..big dawg..home slice..we accept you..just fall in and take notes like the rest the newbs and just chill..we dont need to know you're here..unless u just want attention..in that case im trying to not hurt your feelings..but i hate giving my time and attention away for nothing..thats why im mgtow

Andre5505 · 2021-01-20T16:43:28+00:00

aS LONG AS SHE TREATS YOU RIGHT AND RESPECTS YOU ASA PERSON i'D DSAY YOUR WELCOME AS LONG AS YOU STAND YOUR GROUND AND BE DOMINANT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND RELY ON YOURSELF ON YOUR OWN PURPOSE AS WELL IN LIFE. P.S sorry for the caps I was to lazy to re do it.

Title	Am I welcome?
Author	arnglca
Upvotes	1
Comments	178
Date	January 15, 2021 4:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/kxxins/am_i_welcome/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW2/am-i-welcome.802881 https://theredarchive.com/post/802881

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