AWALT

TrainingTheBrain · 2015-10-16T11:33:09+00:00

You were (are?) a weaksauce fuck and she sought out a real Man. Did she cheat on you?

EDIT

So I saw other responses and she didn't cheat but actually recognized what was going on. She saw that she was developing the feelz for a guy, who is probably a Man and looked at you and realized she could do better. She cared enough to let you know you disgusted her, reward that.

Also, stop saying 'if', it's not "IF this is my fault". You need to say "This* IS my fault". Because it is. Accept that and accept that all of the failures with your relationship are you fault. On the flip side, all of the success es will be your's as well.

Your relationship can be whatever you want it to be IF you're the type of Man who deserves it.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-10-16T00:58:24+00:00

do I leave her for getting a crush on someone?

That would be ridiculous. Sounds like your wife was honest with you and actually told you the truth about losing her attraction for the increasingly Beta you. Fix THAT, not her.

Now shes upset that im doing all of this for me and not for her

Sure, that is why she is fucking you all the time now. Watch what the do, not what they say.

RPAlternate42 · 2015-10-16T04:11:14+00:00

She has a potential Chad at work and then told you she wants you to be your alpha self?

Sounds like she thinks she may catch feelings for Chad but wants to stay committed to you; she recogniEs the social implications to cheating on her husband and recognizes the value you still have.

She gave you a warning that she had a potential replacement for you; this is a special kind of shit test... One that actually requires you to do the thing she wants.

Keep improving, ignore Chad... Trust it verify. Don't confront her about it, for you, now, it will show jealousy and this weakness.

Countpudyoola · 2015-10-16T02:22:03+00:00

problem is now im waking up im realising my unicorn is just your typical 25 year old woman...

How is that a problem? Everyone in some fashion is typical. You included. Now you just know how to steer things better and you've leveled the playing field a bit.

She has a crush? BFD. Women think lots of crazy shit they never act on. Work on you and she'll soon lose her focus on Johnny Outofreach. Or not. You leave chicks for cheating on you (well I would anyway). Let her fantasize a way so long as it's your junk she's getting on all the time.

Give less shits.

RedPillJax · 2015-10-16T00:33:10+00:00

Now shes upset that im doing all of this for me and not for her...

What? How would she know this?

find out shes got a crush on a guy from work

More importantly, how did you find out about this?

as far as i can tell via snooping through social media etc

Buddy, you don't know jack. Women are crafty - never assume she's not talking to him just because you haven't found it yet. I've known women who have had separate phones, aliases, and email accounts who you'd never suspect.

Anyways, very difficult to give advice without a little more information.

Squeezymypenisy · 2015-10-16T05:08:37+00:00

Why do you type so strange?

nightdepartures1 · 2015-10-16T01:05:09+00:00

You need proof that she hasn't cheated already before you do anything else

If she hasn't, you can turn it around, but do it fast. The fact that she is honest enough to tell you she's not in love tells me she still wants you (to change).

rurpe · 2015-10-16T00:39:43+00:00

AWALT does not necessarily mean that all women will behave a certain way. It means that all women are capable of behaving that way due to their nature. It comes from general gender discussions where you will hear people say "not all men/women are like that". It is a way for disccus behavior with devolving into discussions of specific women.

For your specific situation, you need to keep the attraction up. Lift, read the sidebar, etc.

[deleted] · 2015-10-16T12:53:07+00:00

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SorcererKing · 2015-10-16T00:47:06+00:00

First off, this should be on askMRP.

Second, what do YOU want? If you next her without fixing yourself you'll just repeat the pattern.

Title	AWALT
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	10
Comments	42
Date	October 16, 2015 12:18 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3oxdyb/awalt/
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