This shouldn't come as a surprise to most of you, but there are still those that might say, "She's different, she wouldn't do that. She respects me too much." Whatever. If she thinks you're hiding something that might affect her, she'll snoop. If you're unplugging and your behavior is changing, she'll snoop. If you say or do something "weird" then she'll snoop. If she has it in your head that you might be cheating, flirting, talking about her, she's going to snoop.

Do you have a cell phone? Those text messages and voice mails are fair game.

Do you stay logged in to Reddit, your email, Facebook, or anything else on your computer at home? That's fair game.

Do you keep a journal in a flat box you put inside the box spring? That's fair game too.

There are a few reactions I expect from guys when this comes up.

"Shitfuckfuckfuckshitfuck" might come out if you still care enough about your wife's approval/disapproval about what you say to others.

"So what?" might be a response for anything that is apathetic, has given up, has nothing to hide, or simply holding frame.

"What did she read, and is it something I need to address" is normally my first reaction to this sort of thing. Knowledge is power, and I like to have as much of it as possible going into any situation.

Whatever the reason for snooping, whatever your reaction, it's important to have a clear boundary concerning privacy. Of course, she will eventually snoop. She is a woman after all. I have a rainbow pissing unicorn back at home right now, she's the last person that would ever snoop. But she does it. I have no problem standing behind what I say, even if it's something bad about my wife, but I would rather not land in that sort of situation in the first place.

How do you avoid this? First, you can watch what you say and where you say it. This is a good idea anyway. If you have something to vent and you're doing it in a chat/email/social media site, password protect your shit. With a password the wife doesn't know. Also, don't be a retard and keep your email or myspace up and open on your computer when you aren't there. Log out. If you don't need a transcript of any conversation that you don't want seen, delete everything that was said. Nuke the conversation.

One last thing, do yourself a favor. Do you post on this sub? Do you talk about red pill anywhere at all? Don't leave it where your wife can see it. Not because you're scared of your wife because, hopefully, you're not. Her finding out you "do trp" can hurt your credibility and make things harder for you. Her seeing you talk about her in any way at all is opening you up to extra shit tests. That's a waste of time and resources, so keep yourself from getting into those situations.

TL;DR- Don't leave information you don't want your wife to know laying around, otherwise you only have yourself to blame for any time wasted or bad attitudes resulting from her finding it.

Edit: Hi honey!