All responsibility for relationship falls on guy under terms of 17-page relationship contract.

isleno · 2021-09-11T02:57:05+00:00

I'm sure this chick is a feminist, but under the terms of the contract this dude has the burden to pay for all dates? Oh and of course her last relationship was toxic. Based on her 17-page contract I'm sure she had no fault in that. Get the fuck out of here.

OblongConsistency · 2021-09-11T02:56:36+00:00

“We treat our relationship almost like a business interaction,” Wright told the Sun.

Lol what a fucking world we live in.

NorthHelicopter- · 2021-09-11T04:06:12+00:00

And yet a consent form is seen as strange. On the other hand this just takes the absolute cake

dukunt · 2021-09-11T04:25:08+00:00

Doesn't he get to make a contract too?

adiaz0126 · 2021-09-11T03:52:19+00:00

Sooo..... she's a private escort that offers GFE, with a shitty business model, with an Iron clad contract? Is this OF next business model?

auMatech · 2021-09-11T08:07:25+00:00

relationship contract

Excuse me, what? Also, it's a 17-page red flag.

If he doesn't bail from that alone, tough shit.

Edit:

“I made the idea as a joke, then he said, ‘No, seriously. We can do that and talk about it,’ ”

...

Additionally, she asked for “a romantic gesture once every two weeks” and to work out “at least five times a week.”

Haha holy shit. OK fair enough.. No compassion from me

The interesting thing is that these people don't realize that relationships change over time. Unless you're constantly redrafting the contract, the relationship is doomed to fail if you keep adhering to it. You and your partner will have different needs 2, 3 or even 5 years down the road, and a healthy relationship will adjust to those needs accordingly. When you put rules like this in writing as a contractual obligation, it takes the relationship to an unhealthy level, because it can force either party to be required to do things that they might not want to at the time, purely to adhere to the contract (don't people like to go on about marital rape all the time when discussing 'historical oppression of women'? This is that.)

Anyway, as a law student, I would have figured that he'd have more sense than to do this, but good luck to him.

mrmensplights · 2021-09-12T18:03:34+00:00

A contract is a binding agreement between two parties - one that represents both parties interests. This isn't a contract. This is a 17 page attention getting device written by the woman, about the woman, and underscoring her needs and expectations alone. The pathetic dude who sticks around is going to be in for a rude awakening one day when he realizes that this screed is in no way binding if she's fucking some other dude or emotionally blackmailing him with more self servicing bullshit.

"I don't know why more couples don't do this".

They do. It's called sitting down together and discussing your hopes, dreams, and aspirations together. Almost all couples do this. What couples don't do is to totally avoid that discussion and process by drawing a one sided document in the 'aesthetic' of a legal document. Heartwarming.

This belongs on a cringe subreddit.

0815Username · 2021-09-11T05:58:59+00:00

So basically she was shittesting him and he went along with it. Cough honesty cough communication. I don't see how this relationship wouldn't work out when he is a doormat that has reduced himself to a wallet.

AirSailer · 2021-09-11T14:16:20+00:00

Objective #2: Communication A successful and strong relationship is not build in silence

Boundaries 1. Prying: A: when I am ready to talk I will. As you know I will go silent when I am upset

Stonkman3 · 2021-09-11T09:04:59+00:00

That guy is a cuck

yungdale · 2021-09-11T05:11:18+00:00

He’s very good looking and will cheat on her average lookin ass

Big_Chocolate_420 · 2021-09-11T10:48:24+00:00

I want to read this contract

not Just small parts

UltimaterializerX · 2021-09-11T16:08:46+00:00

The definition of a cucked simp.

SoulKeen · 2021-09-12T00:08:40+00:00

Good luck with that... sha has the crazy eyes... poor bastard

Kantorex · 2021-09-12T04:38:52+00:00

If he ever watched freinds he would have known she would have been a toxic bitch like Rachel.

Title	All responsibility for relationship falls on guy under terms of 17-page relationship contract.
Author	isleno
Upvotes	137
Comments	49
Date	September 11, 2021 2:54 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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