Does anyone actually like having their worth as a man tied to the size of our dicks?

Rancor_Keeper · 2025-02-07T19:49:49+00:00

That and also the amount of money in our bank accounts for women to treat us like walking ATMs.

Keokuk84 · 2025-02-07T20:23:32+00:00

I agree. I've seen more than a few videos of "women" who talk this way and help spread it. I spent 7 years active duty and heard alot of females talking this way. But, according to a lot of these "women" they should be accepted just that way they are. They're just so perfect and the dude is the one who needs to change in order to better suite her "needs" (which most of the time is a want and not actually a need). I think you've left out a few things though......money, and how most dudes apparently don't have enough of it for females, height.....apparently you got to be at least 6ft tall and have a six pack, you've also got to be socially affluent. So if you're short, financially you're fine but can't go on a shopping g spree or a vacation, lack a six pack, have a dick under 6", and have a small circle of friends.....you have no value and should go off to war to fight and die because that's all your good for (not my words but I have heard a female say this.)

pbj_sammichez · 2025-02-07T19:45:00+00:00

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Dry-Location9176 · 2025-02-07T21:32:33+00:00

You misspelled bank account.

griii2 · 2025-02-08T09:12:32+00:00

The other day I saw a dick-size insult on r/ science, of all places. Body shaming men is the most mainstream thing.

Local-Willingness784 · 2025-02-07T22:09:43+00:00

it has to do with the options that they have (if only for sex sometimes) and its also a general problem of women going out of their way to make men do whatever they want if they don't want to face the shaming and bullshit of being considered an unattractive loser by women and by society, I also think its easy to tell men to get over it or meet different women or shit like that, but at some point we have to admit that men face problems with this bullshit standards, like men who take steroids to get benched for female attention, but somehow society wants to go out of their way to treat any women with these issues as a poor victim and any men with these as a moral failure.

NCC-1701-1 · 2025-02-07T19:46:21+00:00

It's only an issue for some of the slutty women out there and if you run into one and they mention it then run as fast as you can. The size your heart and wallet are far more important. I am not porn star material below the equator and nobody ever complained.

l3landgaunt · 2025-02-07T22:44:44+00:00

Both the sizes of a man's penis and his wallet should be irrelevant to his worth as a person

Excellent_You5494 · 2025-02-07T19:37:33+00:00

It's not, that's just a body image issue some of us have.

Quinlov · 2025-02-08T07:14:20+00:00

I would be less arsed about it if mine were big

I used to hook up with a guy who once was like "😭 I only get messages when I set my Grindr name to hung top"

I was just like...at least you CAN set your name to that to get messages. I hardly get messages at all and I can't even advertise myself as a hung top to compensate 😭

tilldeathdoiparty · 2025-02-07T19:50:23+00:00

Why would you want to be around someone so materialistic about something unchangeable? A confident man with real boundaries should be able to vet that out early.

Also - porn and Reddit are not reflections of what is happening in the real world, even on this sub many will tell you it is as bad as it seems when on social media. It isn’t, change your surroundings and find more positive outlets to gather information.

NoVeterinarian7438 · 2025-02-08T01:42:03+00:00

I was just thinking of how arduous the task of attracting a woman is, talking to her to get her interested, going on a few dates and making her comfortable.

Then getting the opportunity to have sex with her and then after all that work after all that time with having nothing before this woman. Having to sexually perform like a god and/or have a very large cock or else it curtains lmao.

It’s a tough world. I think it’s just suffering that we have to live with. I fantasize about turning myself asexual but there’s no way that will happen. So as long as there is desire there will be suffering. Just have to learn how to mitigate the desire as much as you can to limit the suffering. It is what it is

tronaldump0106 · 2025-02-08T03:46:57+00:00

Think p size is lower than face rating, height, etc..

potatoloveer___ · 2025-02-09T12:12:36+00:00

As a girl I'm so sorry for other female's ☹️ it's cruel to even think that, men r really oppressed in this century but it's not true that all girls are after that or money, some can be actually genuine, stay safe everyone and to whoever is reading this I hope u have a good day!!! X

DrJ0911 · 2025-02-07T20:14:43+00:00

I legitimately don’t care.

Cadam321 · 2025-02-07T19:50:15+00:00

Get a big bank account lads, it’s a multiplier. Girls look for availability of resources (money in our day and age). If she’s still bothered by the size rather than the effort she’s not finished with being single (mostly)

whitemanrunning · 2025-02-07T19:35:00+00:00

Never been an issue.

fuckingportuguese · 2025-02-07T21:41:25+00:00

I prefer to have it tied to my short height 😂

JayTheFordMan · 2025-02-08T04:21:45+00:00

Never had my worth based on my dick, nor did I ever attach my worth on the size of my dick. If I met someone who wanted to judge me on the size of my dick I wouldn't want to have anything to do with them. Same with money

rhoo31313 · 2025-02-08T12:38:36+00:00

Probably people with 8 swinging.

Valiantay · 2025-02-09T06:52:21+00:00

Didn't know lesbians cared about dick size so much.

I'm not lesbian.

Oh I guess it's your attitude's fault for why you're not getting attention from any men then.

Dkpokefan72 · 2025-02-10T19:00:08+00:00

Dicks ? Just dicks ?

Pretty sure it's height + dick + bank balance + emotional unavailability/stoic. And 20 other different things

Tireless_AlphaFox · 2025-03-03T05:58:08+00:00

Never got body shamed before, but it is absolutely wrong. Nobody should be judged for the look of their body.

Extension-Humor4281 · 2025-02-07T21:13:40+00:00

Women who orgasm from penile penetration alone might be a minority, but I don't think anyone will argue that it's almost always with an average-to-above average penis size. There are simply physical limitations to small penises that make penetrative orgasms more difficult to achieve. Things like sufficient girth to encourage stretching the vaginal wall to stimulate more nerve endings appropriate length to properly encourage G-spot stimulation are both significant factors in this. Obviously we can't forget that clitoral stimulation is also highly important, even during penetrative orgasms.

So an average to slightly above average penis is mostl likely to be a) thick enough to stretch the vaginal wall, b) long enough to stimulate the G-spot, and c) not so long as to prevent pelvis-to-pelvis clitoral stimulation.

efreedman503 · 2025-02-08T01:21:36+00:00

Nope, it’s the size of our bank accounts.

TopBlacksmith6538 · 2025-02-10T15:00:28+00:00

I mean it's one of the reasons asian guys have a hard time dating. A lot of women automatically associate asian men with having a small D

VACN · 2025-02-12T10:41:29+00:00

My thoughts are it's pathetic that you think your worth is tied to the size of your penis. That one of my regrets is having lived several years of my life with a similar mindset, which caused me to miss out on so much good stuff. That this kind of toxicity will eat you from the inside. That you're creating your own misery by obsessing over perceived injustices. And that you are unable to change, because you're already too far gone.

JudgementalChair · 2025-02-07T20:59:53+00:00

There's a thing called big dick energy. You don't have to have a big dick to have big dick energy, it's all about confidence

Worldsapart131 · 2025-02-09T18:19:06+00:00

Remember, equality rights are only for those who aren’t straight white and male.

johnhait501st · 2025-02-08T21:02:29+00:00

Said the guy with the lil pp

BBW_Goonette · 2025-02-07T20:03:55+00:00

I'll tell you the truth, but none of you want to hear it, nor do you listen when we say it.....

Most women definitely do not give a fuck about your penis size.

You will see women joking about men having a small penis, when they're trying to dig at you because they know it will get under your skin. We do this, because we're tired of being degraded down to our sexual worth, so when we feel attacked and we want to attack back, we do the same in kind.

It seems to be having the desired effect though, of fucking with your head.

Wololo2502 · 2025-02-08T00:25:34+00:00

Penis size just translates to a woman wanting a man without ridiculous bodily insecurities.

Vaginas comes in different sizes too.

Title	Does anyone actually like having their worth as a man tied to the size of our dicks?
Author	Able-Yogurtcloset726
Upvotes	208
Comments	74
Date	February 7, 2025 7:21 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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