Just can't win can we?

EmiNVS · 2021-04-05T09:16:32+00:00

If you feel the need to apologize for stuff that others did you're dumb.

realbrit · 2021-04-05T09:42:47+00:00

If you're apologising on behalf of others who have done bad shit before because they are also male then you need to take a good long hard look in the mirror and reevaluate where your self respect has gone.

cryptonalyst · 2021-04-05T11:42:45+00:00

Right on point. Men need to stop apologising and start holding themselves, their friends and family accountable. Don’t tell me you’re a feminist, show me. Change the status quo. At least try to.

One of the comments...bitch I don’t want to be part of a man hating cult. And what should a man hold himself accountable for? Cunt.

RoyalBlueSquare · 2021-04-05T14:05:06+00:00

> Male feminists need to spend less time trying to prove that they're one of the good ones and realize that they too have abused and raped women in their lifetime and that it's unforgivable

One of the comments. Do they really think every man is a rapist?

tiredfromlife2019 · 2021-04-05T11:15:11+00:00

Now you get it OP. Don't apologize. To hell with them.

2021-04-05T08:59:13+00:00

theblackparade87C · 2021-04-05T12:53:44+00:00

When she talks about 'apologising on behalf of other men blah blah not forgiving for your misogyny' bitch are you blaming misogyny on all men?

Ody_ssey · 2021-04-05T11:11:29+00:00

Nice to see them addressing the creepiness of male feminists.

Criket · 2021-04-05T09:48:28+00:00

Dear feminists, where sorry that you all are entitled snowflakes

-men

Boss4life12 · 2021-04-05T13:59:44+00:00

Except that Australian school principal disagree’s.

Rexanvil · 2021-04-05T12:34:36+00:00

We know who's not getting any ass tonight apologizing for everything is weak

2021-04-05T15:58:36+00:00

It really seems more and more clear to me that women don't know what they want. Or rather, what they want is to be outraged/complaining. That's why it seems like we can't win - because the thing women want to do, the state of their desire, inherently involves the criticism, shaming, and insulting of men as a whole.

TDG0922 · 2021-04-05T20:25:25+00:00

You win by not playing. It's always been that way.

OctaviaPinfold · 2021-04-05T14:52:21+00:00

However you look at it and whatever the intention is behind it, men should not apologize for something they didn't do. Nobody should.

That said, I have a feeling that there are men out there already who actually think they have to. But that's just worse.

Luchadorgreen · 2021-04-05T16:11:22+00:00

I’ll never apologize. I’ll never feel bad about things I didn’t do. I’ll never be guilted into serving in their personal war against a minority of men just because I share superficial traits with them.

omidoggo · 2021-04-05T17:13:08+00:00

We should start making feminists apologies for their feminists who falsely accused guys lol

LettuceBeGrateful · 2021-04-05T17:26:09+00:00

I agree with part of #1. People who apologize on behalf of their entire gender are cringe.

#2 is just dumb though. She's engaging in bullshit gender identitarianism. Not surprising, given that in number 1 she starts from a place of assuming the guy is guilty of something merely for being male.

ghostofkilgore · 2021-04-05T23:41:25+00:00

Why on Earth would anyone apologise for something someone else did?

theskincoatsalesman · 2021-04-06T01:34:00+00:00

If you’re a decent person who doesn’t hurt people, you shouldnt feel the need to apologize on behalf of other people. That goes for men and women. You don’t have to be sorry, you just gotta not treat other people like shit.

Like is it so hard to treat humans like humans? On both sides. Like i want to be like “yeah im a feminist”, in the definition that I think men and women are equals and should be treated as such. But twitter feminism doesn’t seem to have end goal, or even an ideal for what they want. Theres no way they end up happy.

Theres never a “you should do x” its always just, “you’re doing it wrong!!”. Like do they even know what they’d like to happen? How can make progress with no ideal finish? What I also don’t get, why on earth would anyone want to support you if you’re always going to punish them for it? Like if you don’t want to be punished for being a woman the answer is not to go fucking punish men for being men. Its Literally fighting fire with fucking fire and expecting the wildfire to die down its fucking ridiculous.

Rockbottom503 · 2021-04-06T01:44:28+00:00

It's a no win situation discussing stuff like this with women, let alone militant feminists. The shit you get when you go along with their crap is clearly in the comments there; disagree and you're a rape apologist.

BestGuessGuest · 2021-04-05T15:29:44+00:00

I tried many times to crosspost in this sub but it was not allowed. Any advice on whether I'm doing something wrong or things have changed ?

Jackfly0114 · 2021-04-05T16:52:00+00:00

Are they stupid? Warranbool school or whatever got in a shit ton of backlash a week ago for the same thing.

Manux005 · 2021-04-06T10:37:41+00:00

Since men are not apreciated, we should just stop doing anything for women, if it's not family or for work. They will finally know, what they had, when they don't have it anymore.

Manux005 · 2021-04-06T10:39:24+00:00

Why don't the women feel the need to apologise for being the same gender of that "terrible gender"?

Bad_Routes · 2021-04-06T15:43:13+00:00

I actually started laughing, thank God I'm in the break room by myself

Caring_Cactus · 2021-04-05T09:41:46+00:00

They have a point though, it's totally unnecessary to say and detracts from the main conversation, which probably was someone opening up about harassment they recently experienced.

It is a way to subconsciously separate one's self from the devastation that others are causing. There are more authentic ways to express genuine concern than that.

Title	Just can't win can we?
Author	homo__schedule
Upvotes	200
Comments	79
Date	April 5, 2021 8:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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