The generations of men before ours worked the shit out of them to keep the family unite. To guarantee a future to their children and wives. It was part of a normal life. Shit jobs always existed but receiving love and respect from your darlings was a heck of a boost.

I stand between the so called millennial and genZ generations and what I see in everyday life is a lack of general motivation in men or a slow progress.

Whatever you do, It's so easy to say that you do it for yourself, starting with financial independence... And then you have your apartment, your hobbies, you can travel more etc. And that's it. You are a full grown man that already accomplished everything. And without a mentally stable woman to build a future, it is like a snake biting his own tail using your money for hedonism or any other kind of entertainment.

Premise, I am not an incel, I have my life and like most of us some ex GFS stories behind. I'll get an high paid job at the end of my prestigious uni education and I started realizing I want to get the chillest part of it. No managerial roles or things like that at the top of the pyramid. I'll do everything to work less. No gf atm, no prole, unclear future. So less objectives than my predecessors. What's the point of working like a beast once you get a stable job? Making more money for what?! I am not a materialistic person or an avid consumer. Even chasing success today seems futile to build a solid relation with a woman. Most of the successful men I know said they do it to afford top notch hoes lol.

I feel like during this years something changed inside my male colleagues and brothers. We are opting for a chilling life or unstable little jobs. Taking our time to decide what to do while observing the rise of females graduating, getting the best out of it, boosting their ego while venting on us. They could be incredible workers but apart of that everything else seems so detached and unreal.