Perv = Desire

HalfysReddit · 2014-02-02T19:55:53+00:00

The reality is that it doesn't matter what you do, it matters how she feels about it, and that's largely dependent upon whether or not she's attracted to you.

Edit: OP you're talking about way different shit than I am and I can't defend you.

chavelah · 2014-02-02T14:05:05+00:00

http://www.thornwalker.com/ditch1/devlin_shalit.htm

What women instinctively want is for 99 percent of the men they run into to leave them alone, buzz off, drop dead — while the one to whom they feel attracted makes all their dreams come true. One of the keys to deciphering female speech is that the term "men" signifies for them only the very restricted number of men they find sexually attractive. All the dirty articles in Cosmo about "giving him the sex he craves" and "driving him wild in bed" concern this man of her dreams, who by some amazing coincidence usually turns out to be the man of some other girl's dreams as well.

During their nubile years, many women are at least as concerned with turning male desire off (i.e., telling the 99 percent to drop dead) as with turning it on (getting Mr. Alpha to commit): they get more offers of attention than they have time to process. Cunning feminists, many of them lesbians, have exploited this circumstance to the hilt, convincing naive young women they are being "harassed."

yourunconscious · 2014-02-02T20:11:31+00:00

You're a perv unless you're hot.

Dalinair · 2014-02-02T18:47:01+00:00

Pervert when I was younger meant someone male or female who was doing something sexually criminal or that was deemed by most of society to be a bit too crazy, occasionally you would get it when someone was looking at someone else when they shouldn't be due to being naked or half dressed perhaps.

Perv being a derogatory term in this instance as OP suggests and what is used as these days is bullshit. If a guy looks at a girl he's perving on her, (unless its a guy he wants to look at her, then he's checking her out (and thats ok)). There's a fine fucking line and it all comes down to wanting some people to look at you but not others when really it should be a term left for instances far more serious.

unexpecteditem · 2014-02-02T14:42:08+00:00

What types of things fall under your definition of "perv?" I am just trying to understand what you are saying.

edtastic · 2014-02-02T17:17:34+00:00

I think the shaming of sexuality. People have a lot of hang ups in our culture because we are so conflicted when it comes to these matters. I was going to put it in male versus female terms but it's definitely a two way street. To perv is to recognize your own sexual urges while using a term that inoculates you from the label of deviant by preemptively embracing it.

Aiendar1 · 2014-02-02T18:25:54+00:00

Obviously sexual intercourse between men and women is completely unnatural, that is why all intercourse is rape. /s

HalfysReddit · 2014-02-02T20:23:10+00:00

Everyone should know that OP is using this link as an example.

2014-02-02T19:16:44+00:00

It's only bad when men do it, don't you know? When I was a teenager, my female peers would sometimes jokingly say they wanted to rape guys they found attractive. I didn't give a shit, but a boy who said that would surely have received a stern talking to.

rightsbot · 2014-02-02T13:54:16+00:00

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2014-02-02T18:27:38+00:00

theres no such thing as shallow~ its deep here

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4ZO98H42yM

highxfive · 2014-02-02T22:02:40+00:00

I don't get it. I don't skeeze on women but I generally am able to obtain what I sexually desire; not through coercion or manipulation, but through an understanding of what a person wants and needs, being accepting of that, finding someone that also understands that.

Whats so perverted about wanting to fuck?

2014-02-02T23:31:05+00:00

Is there a link to whatever you're talking about?

Ted8367 · 2014-02-03T00:15:32+00:00

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=perving

2014-02-03T09:57:41+00:00

sexual desire is as natural as it gets, ie not perverted at all. The idea that "man desires a woman he is perverting the course of nature, or doing something to loathsome and vile" is actually perverted.

2014-02-03T10:02:28+00:00

If she doesn't think you're hot, you're a creep. If you're a creep, but she thinks you're hot, you're hot. relevant

Chef_Lebowski · 2014-02-02T18:05:53+00:00

Wow, I didn't know feminists were so into the bible too!

Title	Perv = Desire
Author	unexpecteditem
Upvotes	123
Comments	102
Date	February 2, 2014 1:53 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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