Why some men dont want kids.

FrequentPotato6116 · 2025-12-16T03:27:09+00:00

« Out body our choice » until the men doesn’t what he wants with his body. Watch how they will come for men who chose not to have kids by snipping. They will blame y’all for it and call you selfish and bla bla bla. They always find a way to flip the script. When they do it it’s well intentioned and brave. When we do it « it’s because we want control and lack accountability ».

Soulful_Sadist · 2025-12-16T03:57:59+00:00

Another clueless leftist feminist (at that point it doesn't even matter if they're male or female)... and... yet one more Male victim of a gynocentric society and legal system.

So then, we can genuinely ask... who precisely has all the "privilege"?

AT LEAST in this context, if not a great deal more... it sure as hell isn't Men. Hint: it never was.

Added thought: No shade on those dudes... but I think I'll be avoiding the snip. Instead, I'll just employ a couple things called personal discipline and self control.

goinsouth85 · 2025-12-16T04:10:28+00:00

Keeping the pregnancy test with him to this day - heartbreaking

BEEZY086 · 2025-12-16T03:33:03+00:00

"you should be grateful she made a choice that was best for her"

WTF kinda logic is this you might ask? This is logic where they fully expect you to care more about women than you care about yourself. This is logic where they fully expect empathy while giving none in return. This right here, is the full embodiment of feminist logic. Zero accountability yet they always know who to blame.

mr_kangaroo · 2025-12-16T10:00:13+00:00

Our body our choice

You should be grateful she made the choice that was best for her

Men are the reason for declining birth rate.

Bitch, no man would have a child with you even if humanity goes extinct.

World-Three · 2025-12-16T07:39:11+00:00

I love when people pick out one thing in your entire post and fight with that instead of the whole opinion.

What? Are we coding? Did the rest of the code not get to you after you hit the one line that didn't work for you? Fuck all the way off, lady.

"Yeah you did all that, I really don't care, bye... By the way, this is all your fault."

I guess by always saying it's your fault you're supposed to want to fix it? But when it was up to you, you tried your best and it didn't work out, and somehow that's your fault too. Now it's also your fault for not trying more.

Literally gambling. You didn't win because you didn't keep playing, but you're a loser for playing? Most people lose more than they ever win back, and she can't see that because she's a winner.

bakedpotato486 · 2025-12-16T08:24:38+00:00

After all that, ending it with "men are the reason" leaves me banging my head.

JACSliver · 2025-12-16T11:16:22+00:00

All freedom and no responsibilities... She should know by now there is only one type of person who can make such a claim without being deemed a narcissist: a baby. Those who make it all about themselves, who expect empathy while giving none in return, are just narcissists fighting for the right to be babies.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2025-12-16T08:47:57+00:00

Jup. When men get no respect and have no choice or option in the whole process past the just shut up and follow what ever a women wants and shut up and pay for everything.

Ofcourse people want no fking family or even care about women less and less just by how clear and common and open the disrespect on men is ofcourse people see less and less value in it.

Its just a natural outcome especially when every dude know like 10 men that got raked over the coals by women laws and court systems again and again and again.

Ow damn shocking more and more men don't value relationships and or wish to have children. Especially when its at every part its just shut the fk up and go with everything women say and just pay for shit.

Especially when there many safety nets for women literally none for men. So all the risks none the rewards so ofcourse natural outcome its not worth playing the rigged game anymore so birthrate go down. Cause even poor people if there was value in it would have children. And thats why its massive deflection when people say the economy people have had children in poor circumstances all the time.

So when people don't want it or see no value on it has actually nothing to do with money

Normal_Cow1991 · 2025-12-16T12:07:31+00:00

Gentlemen, don't take this the wrong way, but many of these "feminists" have ideas that are pure evil.

In one of these feminist subreddits, A man asked a question phrased as: "If feminism is equality, why doesn't my body, my choice apply to men" and he was disrespected by those feminist redditors.

And the lack of humanity when it comes to sensitive topics like abortion is also visible. If a guy wants to keep the kid but the woman doesn't? "My body, my choice"

But if a man doesn't want the kid but the woman does/ "That guy is evil"

Something that truly bothers me is if my girlfriend would have a change of heart since both of our views align, But honestly a part of me has already decided to let go if things get fuzzy.

I just feel bad for the guy in the text.

Marvelous_dahhhling · 2025-12-16T13:14:04+00:00

"Men are the reason for the declining birthrate". - emotional reaction and bad faith argument to his valid concern.

Preform_Perform · 2025-12-16T16:42:07+00:00

This reads like a strawman.

For the sake of my sanity, can you confirm this is a strawman and nobody is actually this willfully dense?

dexterpoo · 2025-12-16T03:24:15+00:00

As a women, I feel embarassed by the whole “my body my choice” thing because the baby inside you isn’t you it’s a whole new being and it takes two to tango, and I’d expect my bf to care and know that when I’m pregnant but if you don’t want kids just don’t have sex ez if you can’t then suffer the consequences you shouldn’t abort a baby cause you’re irresponsible.

MyBoyBlue83 · 2025-12-16T03:30:24+00:00

i'd like kids but why would you want to raise them in this world. oh hey just work hard go to a great school and have half your paycheck taken away from you to subsidize the bureaucrat class and the rest of the third world. we live in an anti-meritocratic society with no principles, ethics or morals.

bigpolar70 · 2025-12-16T18:08:19+00:00

I wanted a vasectomy in college, and after college, and was refused by multiple urologists. I was the oldest of 8 kids that had a huge negative effect on my life and was beyond certain I did not want any of my own.

The one I finally found who would do it after I turned 30 required a notarized signature from my wife saying that she was aware of it and approved it.

It is INSANE how hard it is to access reliable sterilization for men.

If a product like vasalgel is ever perfected I am convinced it will never be allowed to make it on the market because it will shift the balance of power (regarding sex and reproduction).

Imagine if men had access to a 100% safe, effective and reversible method of contraception that could be applied right after puberty. Women would absolutely lose their minds.

Infamous-Hat-6504 · 2025-12-16T20:26:33+00:00

She’s not even providing a stable argument.

Comfortable-Side1308 · 2025-12-17T11:19:52+00:00

Women abort kids to avoid having kid = my body my choice

Men getting snipped to avoid having kid = blame for declining birth rate.

Women abort a million babies a year. Take some responsibility.

Conservatarian1 · 2025-12-16T03:02:43+00:00

Until the laws are changed I recommend every young man to get snipped. It’s a 10 minute procedure.

Same-School4645 · 2025-12-16T18:00:15+00:00

It’s always men fault. Cough

watchman11222001 · 2025-12-16T21:44:01+00:00

Agreed.

BeatAlternative2009 · 2025-12-17T19:45:45+00:00

Feminist robot parroting bimbo babble 😂

Technical_Bet_9785 · 2025-12-17T23:31:38+00:00

This is actually pathological - psych student here

SidewaysGiraffe · 2025-12-16T15:34:05+00:00

"My body, my choice" doesn't apply when the battle slavers come knocking. It doesn't apply when a rape victim is facing prison because he can't support a child he never agreed to have from a sexual encounter he never consented to. It didn't apply when governments, companies, and organizations were demanding people take the Thalidomide shots.

What they mean is "my uterus, my choice", and if they were honest enough to say that, I could at least respect it.

Local-Willingness784 · 2025-12-16T21:59:22+00:00

yeah idk, i dont have any argument against whoever you responded to, i guess she can do whatever she wants? on that same vein i would never asociate with someone like that, much less have a kid with her but i guess she can make one herself or something? her body her choice, right?

Pitiful_Awareness_48 · 2025-12-17T10:40:43+00:00

Damn that sounds like an exhausting conversation

Qantourisc · 2025-12-17T23:16:26+00:00

Who the hell was that chat in grey ? my god. Why do you know this person ?

Ancient-Bat8274 · 2025-12-30T18:00:15+00:00

As a leftist woman I applaud this guy. He’s right it’s his body his choice and too many women actually do take advantage of men in that regard. Quite sad really. If I’m allowed to be childfree by choice then I assume men out there might feel the same way

Equivalent-Youth-664 · 2026-01-06T07:08:19+00:00

Just so you know, most normal women think contraception/sterilisation should be easily available for men. As it should be for women. Most women believe in fairness and equality. Don’t get too caught up in the extreme feminist views. They don’t speak for all of us.

If people don’t want to be parents, they should be able to get sterilised. Would mean a lot less miserable and abused children would exist

Express_Mechanic891 · 2025-12-16T03:17:15+00:00

Nope, men still want kids. Ots women. Stop the cope that men have the power to make the decision

Title	Why some men dont want kids.
Author	SirVegeta69
Upvotes	181
Comments	86
Date	December 16, 2025 2:55 AM UTC (8 months ago)
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