"Why won't men approach me?"

Sytraxo · 2025-08-31T17:50:28+00:00

We were told not to approach.

So, ok, we don't approach.

Gotta say, really don't care.

Tam_A_Shi · 2025-08-31T18:12:21+00:00

This is a good thing. People will only learn if there are consequences to bad behaviour

TheNittanyLionKing · 2025-08-31T19:04:08+00:00

It's pretty easy to have confidence when the worst thing she can do is politely decline. We have been shown that there are much worse fears than her simply saying "no" though. There are a multitude of other reasons too. Another reason is indifference. The potential hassle is not worth the disruption to our peace. Then there is also the fact that the majority of single women are not worth chasing as they will not reciprocate an ounce of effort. Most of them want to be treated the way their grandpas treated their grandmas but they won't do the stuff their grandma did to make that relationship work for decades.

Ok_Night_7767 · 2025-08-31T19:16:53+00:00

She said that the situation leaves men in a situation where they are "damned if they do; damned if they don't".

Wrong, only damned if they do. Not approaching is safe.

DecisionPlastic9740 · 2025-08-31T22:27:53+00:00

They want brad pit to approach.

Dismal-Diet9958 · 2025-08-31T18:50:30+00:00

How is that bear working out for you?

Which_Ad_3917 · 2025-09-01T06:30:48+00:00

You can approach men if you want, you know?

deconstruct2012 · 2025-09-01T07:33:06+00:00

Because they don't want to? You are not entitled to attention from men.

fifty50flip · 2025-08-31T18:51:51+00:00

I feel like this is an old topic now.

Men have been approaching women less since before the pandemic.

Are woman still curious or in denial as to why?

p4p4shili · 2025-09-01T04:43:21+00:00

Have fun with your cats m’am

Cwash415 · 2025-09-01T02:38:19+00:00

they dont actually want me to approach, they're just making content

ciaobellapgh · 2025-08-31T19:45:39+00:00

Insanity

Cbr77ip · 2025-09-01T08:38:31+00:00

Just a reminder that Sydney Watson is a MASSIVE feminist

Charybd1ss · 2025-09-01T02:38:43+00:00

the bear will approach them. no worries

Drayenn · 2025-08-31T19:36:01+00:00

Pretty sure a lot of those "why men wont approach me" is ragebait.

That-Programmer909 · 2025-08-31T22:44:30+00:00

Women like that make me ashamed of my gender.

Cactus2711 · 2025-08-31T21:59:41+00:00

The juice is hardly worth the squeeze even for a 7/8

I genuinely don’t understand men who put in effort for these 6s and 5s

jack_avram · 2025-09-01T00:52:22+00:00

I did approach her yesterday, she made this after.

RangerPitiful4186 · 2025-09-01T12:45:14+00:00

you asked for equality. Enjoy it

Magical-Hummus · 2025-09-02T09:10:48+00:00

Reminds me of this post on Reddit of this one one woman complaining that her coworker id not approaching her at all.

RightfulClay69 · 2025-09-01T13:31:16+00:00

I'm sick of such posts.

This sub is about men's rights.

Not about women, nor a relationship advice or pickup artist practicing forum.

Can we recenter this sub around its original purpose ?

ckhid · 2025-09-02T06:42:24+00:00

I learned if a woman can't handle the truth, keep it pushing. Society teaches little girls "dont cry" & when they grow up, they still feel it's not right to be told something that upsets their emotions. Producing an emotionally unilligent creature. A "Queen" has a kingdom before she meets a man ... if she doesn't have a Kingdom from her past years, before she meets you, leave her alone

WhyDidntITextBack · 2025-09-02T19:04:36+00:00

She’s great! Not a right winger myself but she has some hits.

AdSuspicious8005 · 2025-09-05T15:09:27+00:00

A lot of men don't even want to go out on a date. Why make an effort with a woman you know nothing about when a lot of them are mega liberal psychopaths or will reject you with a possibility of a ridiculing one where they start to scream and shout. Dudes would rather chill at home, grab food, and goon at home before bed than approach a woman based purely on looks. We've got millions of women's nudes on Google images for free now especially since the ones who thought they could be millionaires for taking nudes except they just made $80 a month and had them all leaked on Google images for free.

Even if the woman becomes successful and now regrets her decision and makes a life change and hires a company to bring down all the photos off of Google, they are still on the Internet and can be found through Russian or foreign search engines.

The good news is all of this is finally being understood. It's slowly being changed, and hopefully in 5 years things will change around

ULTI_mato · 2025-09-08T18:59:46+00:00

It disgust me how the police only goes against men catcalling women but not women catcalling men

Nightcore-Games · 2025-09-01T01:29:33+00:00

To start off, I'm a woman. I don't want strangers to approach me. If ya know me, fair game.

I got approached the other day by a guy three times my age and they were extremely handsy (inappropriately) despite me saying no 5 times.

Cuntbag42 · 2025-09-01T14:33:23+00:00

Respectfully, all of these posts are gaslighting ourselves. The statistics do not support women feeling lonely or like they aren't being approached.

This subreddit is selling a narrative that isn't reality. When statistics and surveys start suggesting that women are feeling pressure in the dating scene, then I'll pay attention to stuff like this.

But as is, a couple-off tik tok videos about women whining is not a genuine or valid source of information.

Beginning_Act_9666 · 2025-08-31T21:29:23+00:00

Approaching is actually worse than dating apps. If you can't find a good dating app I highly recommend Boo. This one got me my gf and doesn't have much p2w BS.

Title	"Why won't men approach me?"
Author	WillyNilly1997
Upvotes	390
Comments	58
Date	August 31, 2025 5:21 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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