All issues, minimal resolutions

E-2-butene · 2021-12-08T17:44:13+00:00

I mean, sometimes problems are just unworkable. Take the example you alluded to with male/female attraction differential. How do you even conceivably solve that?

Women aren’t physically attracted to most men. You basically have a few options. 1) Women share the few men they are attracted to, 2) many women enter dissatisfying relationships with men they aren’t attracted to, or 3) only top men and women marry, everyone else stays single.

What are your other options? You can’t rewire women to make them find average dudes attractive, for example. It’s just a shit sandwich that we get to eat thanks to evolution.

Aldabruzzo · 2021-12-08T17:53:07+00:00

You're in a subreddit specifically set up for people who love to discuss intersexual relationships. And about men talking about what's important to them which isn't important to women. And women talking about what's important to them which isn't important to men.

KirthWGersen · 2021-12-08T17:49:05+00:00

I don't know: it makes me feel really good to come here.

I hear people wailing about problems that I and the people I know never seem to face.

Makes me feel pretty lucky really.

Fit-Photograph1646 · 2021-12-08T18:04:08+00:00

If you're at least 5'10" RP theory works Below that looks maxing will only move you slightly forward and money maxing is next best option

Now in the grand scheme of things I really do think surrogacy and sex work is the only way to end this debate because the only way to ensure Real egalitarianism between men and women is to fight back against tyrannical feminism and to entrust the future to our children. That's may or may not mean moving to another country or staying where you are but making sure your kid thrives in the hypercompetative social fuck fest that this country has become. Can you imagine an army of single dads vs single moms at your kids elementary school open house? That sounds metal af.

Need_wine · 2021-12-08T18:13:39+00:00

Only slightly disagree, a lot of men have admitted to having sex and being in relationships with women they don’t like, it’s just women usually won’t have sex with men we’re not attracted to unless you have other redeeming qualities or we just want a hook up.

Most people are average looking but being as attractive as you can and staying well groomed helps.

XtoDoubt · 2021-12-08T18:18:31+00:00

Lift
Spin plates
Ignore all dating advice from women.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-12-08T17:48:11+00:00

Nah, you just have to understand the Game. Not the book, the actual game between men and women. If you buy into the "romantic" shit then you are going to get your heart ripped out. If you understand how things really work, then you can take measures to protect yourself.

I don't hate women - and women shouldn't "hate" men who pump and dump them. It's like "hating" a shark who attacks you. It's nothing personal; the shark is just being a shark.

There are three lessons that people struggle to learn:

A) Don't hate the player hate the Game.

B) Fish with a net, not with a pole. You need to identify the pool of men/women who are into you, and then find compatible people in that pool. Trying to double down on that "One Special Girl/Guy" is a recipe for unhappiness and life in the FriendZone (or "Graveyard" or wherever ghosts hang out.)

C) Forget the past, but remember the lesson.

The_Meep_Lord · 2021-12-08T17:45:54+00:00

Well, what do you propose that can be REALISTICALLY done?

I have said solutions before, but those will never happen.

I wish both sides would treat each other better, but you will have to change this entire “ME” culture to make any difference at all.

wtknight · 2021-12-08T18:19:15+00:00

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baresquad · 2021-12-08T17:54:25+00:00

There isn’t enough logic in the world to apply to peoples lives to resolute single absolute truths propagated around this sub

You put 10 dudes in a room, all different experiences, each one is gonna project their views as the norm unable to fathom what it’s like for the guy next to him although he may think he does. A guy who does well women sees things differently from the guy who struggles yet both claim the other’s view is wrong simply because neither shares an experience, they only argue what they think it’s like. There’s never gonna be compromise in that (I’m guilty of it tbh) and that’s the basis of this sub lmao

2021-12-08T18:01:07+00:00

In my understanding, debates over issues should have resolutions or compromise at the end. Generally speaking of course.

No and not online for sure.

Here is the value to online debate.

I say X is right.

Someone obviously wrong because they don't agree with me says Y.

I say Y is stupid because of Z.

They wrongly say Z isn't a factor but Q is why X is wrong, like a moron.

Then I point out Q is fake news and here are more sources for Z, being the smart brain guy I am.

Then they stupidly link stuff about Q not being fake news, like a loser, and how Z is totally a dog whistle.

Eventually one of us stops responding and the other person refuses to see my correctness.

Anyways, I and the ~~moron~~ fellow debater won't conclude or compromise.

Thats up to you to read and decide if I, the smart and biggest brain guy is right or the other less smart and tiny brain guy based on what we argued about.

You can learn a surprising amount this way, even though the debate itself went no where, provided you are smart and big brained too.

CFinCanada · 2021-12-08T18:14:20+00:00

There is no resolution.

Men's interests and women's interests are diametrically opposed.

I can cite examples with citations. But that is the conclusion that I have come to. And that is the source of the contention - there is no resolution for this. It's nature's joke.

What we have in a progressive society like ours is varying degrees of uneasy truce.

Title	All issues, minimal resolutions
Author	Think_gawd
Upvotes	2
Comments	29
Date	December 8, 2021 5:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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