In dating, it's natural for both men and women to have certain standards and expectations based on how they see desirable people treated. These standards often shape what people feel entitled to or demand from potential partners. Many women expect men to pay for dates, put effort into planning, and provide protection because they see attractive, high-status women being treated this way. Even average women often desire this treatment simply because it’s what the most desirable women around them receive. It becomes a subconscious marker of value; if men don't treat them this way, they feel less attractive or desired. This extends even to feminist women, who might still want a man to lead, pay, and plan dates—not necessarily because of traditional roles, but because it validates their desirability.

On the flip side, many men hold expectations women to dress modestly, be respectful, and follow their lead because they observe desirable men receiving this treatment naturally from women without drmands. Women naturally tend to dress respectful not go out to clubs and drink with thier friends alone, and are 100 percent submissive with men they admire or find attractive, so even average men often feel entitled to the same treatment as a marker of their desirablity.

This dynamic creates a cycle where both genders are influenced by what they see desirable individuals receiving within each respective gender. When people base their worth on being treated like the top-tier men or women they idolize, it often leads to frustration and disappointment if they don’t receive that same treatment. Most average people need to Recognize the difference between realistic standards and idealized expectations based on how desirable people are treated and courted.