How picky are you?

AlprazolamTablets · 2015-08-02T23:20:46+00:00

Male, purple. Two women have hit on me for casual sex and I turned them both down cuz I wasn't really into them and one of them was drunk. Honestly despite what RP says about men I would rather have a wank than fuck a woman I don't actually find attractive.

SabineLavine · 2015-08-03T01:21:02+00:00

I'm a woman, not entirely RP or BP, and I could not even begin to count the number of times I've turned guys down over the years....hundreds, probably. It's not always pickiness, but more inappropriate/awkward timing and the wrong approach.

BattleDrillOneAlpha · 2015-08-03T02:43:46+00:00

Male, red.

Honestly, I am very picky. I know I am an attractive dude. I have a very high standards even in regard to something as simple as a one night stand. Most times I go out I have one opportunity or the other to have sex, and a lot of times I go home empty handed because I chose to.

I recently went out with some new acquaintances, and they were shocked that I simply rejected a girl that was making her intentions very known. Girls who find you attractive and make the effort to approach you are pretty transparent with their attraction most of the time.

With that said, I look for girls who are physically fit/attractive, sweet (if that makes sense), non-cynical, and can hold a conversation. Generally when I talk to other dudes they seem to think a greater variety of women are attractive than I do. For example, they will count a slightly overweight chick as 7 and 8 while I will consider the same woman a 5; that is generally the trend unless the woman is what I described as my preference.

Epicureanist · 2015-08-02T23:11:31+00:00

sex that are less physically attractive than you that hit on you / were interested in you, have you turned down, rejected

Better question would be what percent of the opposite sex you're interested in.

For short-term dating most people aren't going to bat in the minor leagues. People go for their levels or higher.

elitemage101 · 2015-08-02T23:55:00+00:00

Male, No affiliation, I have only turned down 1 person because I am not picky. But I have only been approached by a few.

OfSpock · 2015-08-03T03:10:59+00:00

Turned down for a date, or turned down for sex? For sex, about 99%. When I was single, I accepted most dates. It's hard for me to say whether they were less attractive than me. Most were in the general ballpark, but it tursn out I have a type, so am I grading them as 'general attractiveness' or 'attractive to me'?

wtknight · 2015-08-03T03:14:56+00:00

I am male and anti-Red. 100% of those less attractive than me. I have also turned down women who I thought were equally attractive to me, but whose personalities I wasn't into. There was one woman who was more attractive than me that I turned down, as well, but that was because I knew she had a boyfriend already and I am anti-cheating.

itgscv1 · 2015-08-03T08:34:23+00:00

Male, red. I'm very picky, but a big part of that is my financial situation and also where I live. The current dating scene in the country I'm currently in is pretty terrible and I'm not interesting in playing.

Ekaj_B · 2015-08-03T08:51:29+00:00

I'm physically fit so I've turned down overweight girls.

I had an attractive woman (although not my usual type) hit on me in a club once but I was so shocked that a girl would actually pay attention to me I ran away.

GuitarsAreGettingOld · 2015-08-03T10:31:16+00:00

Male, red pill and not picky at all by default.

I have changed in this department and I am more picky than back then.

Looks-wise I am still not very picky.

Whenever I turned down a woman, I wouldn't say that it was because I was "picky".

wombatinaburrow · 2015-08-03T11:07:48+00:00

Very picky, but it's more the vibe a man gives off than looks. Someone who comes on too hard, is pushy, is handsy is rude or just seems off is going to get the don't argue, no matter how pretty he is.

ReddishBlack · 2015-08-03T00:06:24+00:00

What is the time frame here?

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-08-03T00:43:45+00:00

She's really just gotta be pretty. I don't give a fuck if she's got a personality, brains, a boyfriend, actually wants to fuck me, thinks she can use me for my money, or whatever.

SirNemesis · 2015-08-03T07:30:05+00:00

RP male. I was hit on by one girl once upon a time. Turned her down cause I wasn't interested in dating at the time. She was more physically attractive than me though, so that doesn't count I guess.

Ergo, I have a 0/0 record at turning down girls less physically attractive than me.

max_peenor · 2015-08-03T15:07:02+00:00

Don't stick your dick in crazy. Once you learn how to spot crazy, the number of women you turn down grows dramatically. Keep in mind, that women generally don't overtly approach men (unless competition is fierce, as I have explained many times), but rather present themselves and expect the man to make the selection. In a lot of situations, the fact that a woman is outright propositioning me is a leading indicator of her mental state. That said, it's hilarious to watch women jockey for position such that they are the first tail I see lifted in my direction.

State your gender and pill or non pill-ness

Red by philosophy, purple by necessity.

wazzup987 · 2015-08-03T15:19:04+00:00

there was one i should have turned down, but didn't (i got guilt tripped). I have turned down a chick hotter than me. i would have been fun but god way to much crazy.

gregariousnefarious · 2015-08-03T17:14:03+00:00

Blue. Not terribly picky when it comes to looks, but very picky with personality and brains. Turned down most men in college (which was rather a lot), but largely cause I didn't feel a spark due to lack of personality and brain meshing. I fancy a certain type of intellect

grendalor · 2015-08-03T18:06:34+00:00

Male/red.

Turned down less atttactive probably 50%, but depended more on persona, context and red lights than attractiveness, provided it was not more than -2, compared to me at the time.

cxj · 2015-08-03T18:18:01+00:00

Male, red. I used to be way less picky about who I fucked when I was younger, but now that I'm older, know what sex is like and seen first hand what the consequences can be, I'm a lot pickier. I was always pickier with LTRs, but now I'm so picky I wonder if I'll ever have one again lol.

I actually turn down a lot of girls in the 4-6/10 range. The way it goes down is they flirt with me, msg me on facebook, follow me on instagram, and then one of their friends talks to me to see if I'd be interested in them.

buttlollipop · 2015-08-03T21:54:58+00:00

I posted this elsewhere, but since I don't do casual sex at all, I can only go by who I'd date. Through a bunch of assessments I've made looking at men in public places, I can figure that I'd be willing to date 70% of men close to my age who aren't fat. It sounds inclusive but because most men aren't 20-35, and because most men aren't non-fat, it's still pretty picky. And I'm not even bringing height or hair into this- two things I don't really care about, but a lot of women do.

I'm probably a 7/10 in attractiveness (a 6 by some guys' standards, 9 by others'. I'm a specific type. ) I used to probably be a 5, and back then I was less picky.

MrsPound111 · 2015-08-04T11:38:43+00:00

Female, 22. I'm knocking down guys everyday. I'd say my rate of rejection is 99% but I'm married. When I was younger I was super picky still, it was probably still at 95%.

Title	How picky are you?
Author	taiboworks
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	August 2, 2015 11:09 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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