I honestly don’t think I’ve ever seen women actually tell men to “just be nice” as dating advice. Maybe that was more of a boomer or Gen X mom thing, but in my experience the only advice I hear from women is either: Be yourself Be patient, your soulmate will come eventually or something along those lines Be confident Or the rare “maybe you should come out of your shell”

Gen Z and millennial women definitely aren’t out here pushing that kind of advice

Is this something that you’ve seen in real life or is it a myth being spread by guys online?