Not being able to comprehend concepts like "creepiness" is a kind of social color blindness that a lot of Red Pill guys seem to suffer from, a significant social handicap

prodigy2throw · 2017-01-15T03:06:08+00:00

Do you really think we talk like this in real life?

BrownEyedENFP · 2017-01-15T02:51:27+00:00

Every guy alive will be called creepy at some point in their life. If people keep calling you creepy over and over against, you should probably check your own shoes for shit. It's just a feeling someone has. Fuck, people even call Chad creepy. I'm pretty confident TRP men aren't that dumb.

discoFalston · 2017-01-15T03:57:55+00:00

A lot of guys that end up on trp probably don't know what creepy is and isn't. Many are completely lost, that's the point of coming to the sub in the first place. But I also know trp puts emphasis on being social, creating a network which is something you simply cannot do if you're creepy.

Part of being creepy is not knowing what you can and can't pull off given your circumstances though, which may indeed include your appearance. I.E. a hulking bearded guy versus an academic looking guy probably can't get away with the same things just because one is inherently more intimidating than the other.

But more to your point, some may not understand it's possible for an attractive looking guy to be creepy as well. I specify "looking" because as we all can agree, part of being attractive is how you carry yourself.

wtknight · 2017-01-15T04:44:40+00:00

then it does not matter if you look like Brad Pitt, people are going to groan and walk away when you step over another boundary that you never even saw.

Yes, there are creepy things that even a Brad Pitt lookalike wouldn't be able to get away with saying or doing. But there are all kinds of borderline creepy things that the lookalike could get away with because of his attractiveness that an unattractive man would not be able to get away with.

inkoDe · 2017-01-15T11:07:22+00:00

Most "red pill men" aren't really that. Most men aren't that. it's something for desperate men cling to, to get over their abject failure at finding a mate. They are angry and desperate outcasts. There is also a lot of bullshit happening. Truly "alpha" males, if such a thing even exists wouldn't spend time online trying to mentor social rejects. The whole premise is silly at best.

acecutty · 2017-01-15T10:35:51+00:00

"Creepy" has been used so often that it almost doesn't have any meaning anymore.

I know plenty of women that call guys creepy simply because they aren't attracted to them.

despisedlove2 · 2017-01-15T04:28:27+00:00

Another attempt to conflate RP with incels and the like.

Yawn.

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2017-01-15T05:48:00+00:00

I can comprehend it, but I pity the fool who has a value system where any kind of sex act or courtship behavior that's beyond their ken is "creepy".

Sorethroat5 · 2017-01-15T07:14:59+00:00

And I shudder thinking how sad OP's life must be as he continues to display more autistic behavior than the RP men he criticises.

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Alth12 · 2017-01-15T03:58:43+00:00

A lot of red pillers come from a background of being social outcasts, either by choice or in some cases not. Kids are horrible like that and we all know sometimes they just take a dislike to someone and relentlessly smash him/her and because usually bullys in school are popular other people join in.

Social cues are things you can learn though, but it takes acknowledgment that you have a problem rather than randomly hitting out at everyone, women in particular, like a lot of those posters tend to.

Through trial and error, dropping zingers etc you do get a sense of what you can and can't say in social situations. It's also something that ebbs and flows. Even the average person who knows the cues would struggle after say, a months isolation.

Go out every night and socialize for 3 months, by month 3 you'll be greeat socially, reading the signs etc. Then stop and don't go out at all for 3 months and next time after that when you do go out, you'll struggle.

wattwatty · 2017-01-15T05:58:38+00:00

Not for nothing, but I think Saturday Night Live just did your post, Twilight Zone "Eye of the Beholder"-style.

lilchaoticneutral · 2017-01-15T06:37:29+00:00

social color blindness? wtf

cxj · 2017-01-15T11:31:31+00:00

I agree and posit this is part of why societies used to have specific courtship protocols men could follow. Huge numbers of men simply cannot innately understand social interactions intuitively and have very little chances in a world where success depends on it. Men's strengths are physical strength, efficient team hierarchies, and abstract reasoning, not emotional or social intuition.

boomadley · 2017-01-15T12:10:38+00:00

Being "creepy" usually means the creepy person in question is completely unaware of the feelings of others, or doesn't care, and crosses lines. From what I've read of TRP, empathy for women is a pretty low priority. TRP seems to be about tangible results and doesn't really have room for the feelings of the "other" in it. It seems to originate from, and celebrate, being profoundly disconnected from women.

For the record, I've encountered plenty of creepy guys who would fit the BP mold. They think they are being awesome and feminist and are actually arrogant and make your skin crawl.

Title	Not being able to comprehend concepts like "creepiness" is a kind of social color blindness that a lot of Red Pill guys seem to suffer from, a significant social handicap
Author	SkinnySweaty
Upvotes	25
Comments	102
Date	January 15, 2017 2:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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