Q4FDS, Explain your Journey

PPD-Angel · 2020-01-02T13:05:11+00:00

This is not r/FemaleDatingStrategy. Removed.

jalapenopancakes · 2020-01-02T00:19:09+00:00

Dated a guy for 4 years, realized I was his mommy and fuckable house maid, realized he had no potential and I kept forgiving him, so I found Sami Wunder (it’s the same thing as FDS, just packaged more nicely).

Dumped him, rotational dated half my town, never paid for shit, stopped doling out favors, stopped being nice for no reason, and ended up married to the man of my dreams. Single to engaged in less than 2 years, with no “girlfriend phase.”

Sans memes and lots of man hating, what they’re saying over there isn’t novel: it is actually a very old school strategy that works to get the most put-together, stable man possible. And if done correctly, it works scarily well.

Maybelowsmv · 2020-01-01T23:18:49+00:00

I kinda love how men on this subreddit are like "I would never date an FDS girl. I'd go for a random hot younger chick" etc.

Whilst simultaneously all having had bad experiences with bitches???

Like n*gga, you ARE dating women who played you

FDS just exists to let nice and nerdy girls stop being so forgiving with asshole men

Orange_Paisley · 2020-01-01T21:42:02+00:00

I saw it here and I thought some of it was sensible and some of it was hilarious.

DisastrousMeaning1 · 2020-01-01T22:34:52+00:00

Unpopular opinion, I like it. They are forcing men to step up and be quality men. The only flaw in their logic is that quality men have unlimited options,why would you waste time with some fds chick who is 2 decades past the wall when you can bang a younger hotter version of her?

Harriett- · 2020-01-01T22:50:15+00:00

I’ve seen bunch of posts about it from random subreddits. Men were super butthurt about it, so I thought it must be a cool sub and checked it and loved it.

atlantisasalover · 2020-01-02T03:54:28+00:00

FDS is full of losers, but I agree with their premise. I'm 18, and I've already decided what it is that I want out of dating. I've learned just how much the vast majority of men will lie for pussy, that men aren't capable of loving me in that codependent disney style of love I wanted when I was younger, and things like "netflix and chill" don't appeal to me in the slightest. I used to want to be the person who loved harder because I was addicted to delusion and emotions. Now, I'd rather be the person who's loved more.

I don't hate men, I didn't get alpha widowed or whatever and decide to take revenge on men. I just look at things logically and think with my own best interest at heart. Feelings, fairy tales, emotional rollercoasters aren't tangible, they're not going to benefit me in the long run. Assets, property, having a family, having a legacy, that's what matters to me.

Also, casual sex was terrible for me. I'd tried it a few times. I might still be delusional if I'd actually enjoyed it.

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Freddit98 · 2020-01-02T11:32:34+00:00

Actively sought it out after seeing and enjoying similar content on YouTube. Figured it must also exist on Reddit. My motivation: always putting myself first and ensuring my needs are met. Absolutely love it.

Iamthegirliam · 2020-01-02T11:55:25+00:00

I was always told by my mother and grandmothers to never rely on men or to never trust them because most likely they will want to use me and destroy my self confidence.

Do I knew how to ditch guys and say know, even though It was hard for me because I waa a people pleaser and felt the need to not make anyone feel bad.

But I never had one night stand, never agreed to give head to a Playboy or whatever. I would stop talking to a guy as soon as he would start trying to have sex with me. I knew that I should only sleep with someone who loves me and will care about my comfort and pleasure. U also knew that sex is not as good for women as it is for men, so I didn't see the point if it.

Now i'm engaded to an amazing man who is crazy about me. He cooks, cleans, takes care of me when I'm sad or sick, we almost never argue. I did well.

Title	Q4FDS, Explain your Journey
Author	Wallstreet3
Upvotes	1
Comments	136
Date	January 1, 2020 8:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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