Call me out if I'm guilty of the goomba fallacy, but its not very to see women vent on Reddit about how they feel degraded and disgusted with themselves after a guy had sex with her but didn't text back. Yet at the same time women typically tell men that caring about body count is sexist.

Isn't the message a little contradictory? Either casual no strings attached sex, which typically unavoidably leads to a high bodycount, is fine and men shouldn't care, but at the same time being with a man without it leading to a deep relationship literally dirties a woman, according to women themselves.