Fat women: "You go girl, big is beautiful, fat positive, you're so thicc gurrlll, you're gorgeous just the way you are, if a man doesn't want you he's just a shallow pig who doesn't know what he's missing, you deserve your prince charming"

Fat men: "Get to the gym you fat fuck, lose weight, stop being lazy, eat less, no woman wants an overweight sack of shit, if a woman doesn't like you it's your own fault, you virgin, you incel"

Completely opposite messages. Body positivity was only meant for women. Fat porn only features fat women, not fat men. All female body shapes are celebrated.

Men have to follow a different set of rules. They have to fit a very specific body type - tall, broad shouldered, low bodyfat, good musculature - otherwise they are seen as physically worthless. There is no place in the world for fat men like there is for fat women.

Let's see the feminists explain that.