I just found out my ex-girlfriend of 4 years performed oral sex on another man. I’ll spare the details but I guess the reason for my post is why do you think I feel the need to want to work things out and is it even possible. I love her but feel deeply betrayed to the point where my heart burns. She had told me she had done it because she hadn’t been feeling close to me and felt rejected/unwanted. We’re both Christians and we had tried waiting until marriage but fell into fornication at month 6 then continued fornicating for two years until I finally said we have to stop. The stop caused her a lot of rejection. Logically I’m done, I have not responded to her texts and removed her from social media.