Simple Questions

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MrsBlooper · 2016-12-05T20:31:19+00:00

I've been trying to improve my posture, but I feel like a) it makes me look stiff/unapproachable and b) it puts my (fairly large) breasts more on display than I'm comfortable with. Anyone have any tips?

OrderMoreMoney · 2016-12-02T02:44:48+00:00

Cooking for my boyfriend

To start off my boyfriend is Chinese and I'm not and we both live in China. His ex was an amazing cook (her parents owned a restaurant) and he really wants me to cook for him too. However I don't know how to make Chinese food or use Chinese vegetables and I can't tell when it's made well or badly because it all tastes so bad to me. I can't eat Chinese food at all, I usually just go to the foreigners market and get some pasta and fruits. I also don't know how to cook meat, or buy meat especially in Chinese.

Any helpful tips? I know my boyfriend likes to eat meat and he actually loves French and Italian food however we can't find the ingredients for that here, we also don't have an oven.

hazelnutbasket · 2016-12-01T18:49:44+00:00

How do you induce oneitis?

Anna2595 · 2016-12-02T11:20:25+00:00

He chased me for 1 month, I just had broken up with my ex- bf so I wasn't looking for something. He presented me to everyone work/familly/friends/hobby by doing "dates" that allowed me to meet them at different times. As we were dating I realised how alpha he was and still a kind a guy. I started to loose frame ando panic because I realised that I wanted to date him.

Physically he is handsome and I am more sexy/hot. But he is 28 and I am 21, he is finishing masters for and PhD and me I am still in my BA. But he dated a stripper who was 21 (I know, wtf)

In to the beginning he was chasing me, planning things with me. And then we spent a weekend together for his birthday. And then from then continued to talk but slowly not as much, I freaked started to loose frame and thought i had done smth to turn him off that weekend . So started to overanalizing everything which resulted into me acting acting simultaneouslying like "Iam confident, always doing stuff " and " Do you want to meet?".

At some point we were texting 1 or twice per week so I thought we should meet to get things not be stale anymore.

We met at his place as and cooked together which was fun. But since it was a working day we went to bed early. We cuddle (because I told him I was as more conservative). And we did that every time we had been on dates But then later in the night I got so excited and we had sex. He came in 3 minutes. We kinda.laughed about it. But then he said something like "well you are less conservative than I am" then we went to bed and fell asleep.

Next morning he was so cold and acted as if nothing ever happend. 1 day after I called him out on that comment he had made that previous night. And he said I was overanalizing and that he didn't mean that and that I was an amazing young woman.

The next week he had to go the US, he said hallo from America and we chatted shortly but coldly. And since then we haven't talked for 3-4 weeks.

Why did do to make him loose interest? Should I take it personnally?

My biggest question is how to keep frame when a perfect alpha courts you?

OrderMoreMoney · 2016-12-03T11:34:50+00:00

If I want to give advice to my boyfriend how would I go about doing it in the least shrew way possible?

pizzae · 2016-12-05T10:21:22+00:00

Where to find RPW irl?

NoFaceNoPlace · 2016-12-08T13:51:34+00:00

cant make my own post because new account I'm in a committed relationship and I'm really happy!! I've done this behavior for a really long time and it's not something I consciously think about but I think it's interesting as a case study.

I am considered a very high value woman in RPW standards and as long as I can remember I was always the leader of my friend group (back in high school). This group consisted of mainly boys and occasionally their girlfriends but I would assert power/dominance over them. Their boyfriends/ the other boys were most definitely my orbiters that I enabled.

Now that I'm more aware, I chose on my own to stop having male friends a couple of years ago and am more of a lone wolf. I've noticed that I've started to show the men I do come in contact with (I.e. My friends boyfriend) that I am of high value and should be given more attention(?) even though I don't really care.

Here's an example. My friend told me certain clothes her boyfriend likes to see her in. The next time I go over I find myself wearing those clothes. It's weird because I would never date this dude/find him attractive he's going no where in life and I'm 100% happy with my boyfriend but I think I might do it to have power over her. Another example is how I offered to help him study when in reality I know it won't help in the slightest. When reflecting on why I offered, I think it's because in that scenario I would be able to showcase how much smarter/patient than her I am.

I feel awful about these behaviors, but I do not premeditate them at all. I think it's something hardwired in my system to attract/persuade other males to choose my genetics than others or just simply stop them from using their resources on other women and just me.

Any thoughts? Discuss with me

lackadaisicalily · 2016-12-04T23:01:24+00:00

I've read several times on TRP that women only have hobbies that their SOs have. I have seen a lot of truth in this, mainly when women like football all of a sudden.

But, I still think that a lot of women have hobbies that are not shared with their present/past SO's. What are your hobbies that you discovered on your own?

Title	Simple Questions
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Date	December 1, 2016 3:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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