30yo guy posts in r/AskMen saying how he sees TRP confirmed all around him, but still isn't "that bitter" to accept it

DanReggins · 2014-01-20T15:27:51+00:00

I understand where he's coming from exactly.

His issues go beyond women. He admitted that he fundamentally is not and cannot fit in to the local society. Lonely isn't a strong enough word -- he's a literal omega type because he has "failed" to conform to the loser culture predominant in his area.

This absolutely will affect people psychologically and make game/frame so much harder to maintain.

He needs to move. He's acknowledged that. But that's only scratching the surface.

Just because he moves doesn't mean that he won't bring some lingering issues/damage with him. He will. If he stays away from excessive alcohol and gets some good psychological and social support from the beginning, it's an uphill battle that will take time, but he can make progress.

He's come close enough to swallowing trp that he'll come around.

Modified_Hackware · 2014-01-20T15:07:49+00:00

You don't need to be bitter for TRP, just have enough spine to swallow a bitter pill.

Still using weak excuses for being weak even though he knows the truth.

He might not make it brahs.

ekjohnson9 · 2014-01-20T15:37:10+00:00

Black guy in Arkansas who is into Jazz Piano and works in IT.

Dude needs to move somewhere civilized.

FAwhy · 2014-01-20T14:56:33+00:00

He's ripe for some real Red Pill.

He's even classically frustrated by the "Be confident!!" advice spewed out 70+ times in the thread.

Textbook case, really.

how can i be confident when litearlly every girl i tried to talk to the last 5 years has rejected me, stood me up, lied to me.

Easy, take women off the pedestal. Stop caring about if they're going to judge you, stop caring and being worried about being not good enough, stop caring if you're going to be alone tonight/this weekend/on your birthday. Some 30 year old divorcees with alimony and child support payments would kill for your "loneliness" at 30 years old.

He is thinking about attraction from the eyes of a man ("I look good, smell good, dress above average") those things are just bonuses for women, not the core of attraction. He would love to settle with a girl who looks good, smells good, and dresses above average, so he thinks that's all he needs to get girls attracted to him.

Shame he denounced Red Pill already, he'd actually get closer to a modicum of success here.

Enjoy incel, bro!

theredslap · 2014-01-20T22:25:27+00:00

I'm not that bitter

whoa there chief...

for someone who's not bitter, he comes across as pretty damn bitter...

red pill was the cure to my jaded, frustrated, pathetic, most importantly incongruent views of how things are or should be.

redpill cures the bitter

SgtBrutalisk · 2014-01-20T14:12:35+00:00

I'm not a red piller, i know the whole community and I never want to go down that route. I'm not that bitter. But at the same time What the hell man.

chivalry_augustus · 2014-01-20T17:17:33+00:00

It mystifies me that people will SEE the truth, BELIEVE the truth, yet refuse to assimilate with the truth. I've said this once already, I was disgusted by this place when I first got here. I almost broke down and cried. I didn't cry for myself - I cried for all the cunts who had lied to me. I cried for the things I'd missed out on because my life paradigms were all wrong. These people don't want to go RP because they are their own victims. Try living red pill for a year and see where it takes you. If it doesn't work, you can always go back ...

SoftHarem · 2014-01-20T18:34:06+00:00

"I'm not bitter" = "I don't have enough balls to anger the feminists of Reddit."

Regardless, it is progress. A year ago even this weak conversation would not have existed.

shabadiddlle-oo · 2014-01-20T21:43:19+00:00

He doesn't want to swallow the red pill for the same reason as a lot of guys: the truth is fucking depressing.

TRP philosophy works wonders for guys who are already outgoing and confident enough to apply it to their lives. When you're a seriously entrenched introvert like this guy, you see TRP truth all around you and there's nothing you can do to help yourself that doesn't involve years and years of work.

You're faced with two options: A- accept your grim reality and continue on, knowing that you need to completely overhaul your personality and get an entirely different group of friends before casual dating will even be an option, or B- block it all out, go back to your warm comfortable blue pill world, and tell yourself you'll meet someone some day.

mejor_o_nada · 2014-01-20T15:18:45+00:00

He'll see this thread then ignore it, but if he doesn't:

Moving won't solve your problem, dude. Changing cities only to find out the women there won't date you either will be a pretty crappy slap in the face. Embrace your semi-successful lifestyle, find a worthwhile hobby, improve yourself, and put bitches to the side.

It's clear that this nice guy routine isn't working for you. The red pill may be "bitter" at first, but it won't take long to get used to it.

Once the initial film of anger/disappointment wears off, you'll notice that TRP doesn't renounce women. It just shows you what they actually want. Good luck.

redpillbanana · 2014-01-20T19:29:56+00:00

Perfect example of a guy who needs to figure out first how to be happy alone without depending on others. The fact that others are using and abusing him because he is lonely is a sign that he needs to stop compromising his dignity for companionship.

...not to make light of his terrible situation - he's definitely not in the ideal location for his interests and talents. However, I've been in a similar situation and I'd rather just chill by myself than hang with losers/users.

mighty_mogomra · 2014-01-20T16:53:59+00:00

I'm in the same boat; field wise. I worked in IT as a pc tech. I'm also around the same age.

Here are my observations from the South since I'm from it:

Women where I live tend to go for the excrement of society. What I mean by this is that the men they ("women") choose to hook up with tend to be unemployed, have a rap sheet longer than my arm,are tatted up, dress like hip hop stars, are emotionally unstable, and usually do drugs with the smoking/drinking. These are not the leaders of society; these are people so dumb that they think using correct grammar and punctuation make you a "fag". I avoid interaction with these type of people as much as I can. Too bad they are the new "standard" for men where I live.

The "women" (I again use the term loosely.) tend to be tatted up, emotionally damaged (from getting pumped n dumped by alphas),have high partner counts, are overweight, are materialistic, are vapid, and are untrustworthy. Some of them even have short hair. Many of them are even single moms now. I avoid these women like the plague. Sadly, gone forever are the Southern Belles of society: The women of quality character, piety,modesty, and virginity. What exists in their place instead I wouldn't wipe my own ass on as toilet paper and I have very low standards for toilet paper.

Checking out (MGTOW) or Pump N Dump are your only options in today's society. I wouldn't even consider many of them for plates.Quality relationships,like the dodo bird, simply do not exist anymore.

frequentlywrong · 2014-01-20T15:06:03+00:00

He knows about TRP and refuses to take our lessons and believes some bullshit that we're bitter. I feel little sympathy for people too scared to help themselves. Only pity.

trudatness · 2014-01-20T17:43:54+00:00

I'm not that bitter

LOL Yeah you are.

You start out bitter when you get here, but after you adopt the mindset and start seeing the benefit that bitterness fades out quick.

ivesaidtoomuch · 2014-01-20T23:24:15+00:00

The reason he rejects TRP is because there really are several members here who are obviously bitter recovering betas who sound way too angry in their posts. There's a lot of golden information here but sometimes it gets lots amongst the hordes of angry neckbeards lashing out at the women who've rejected them their entire lives.

The truth is only bitter when we impose our personal insecurities on it. Everyone would be better off if they were just a little more zen about things.

2014-01-20T17:36:21+00:00

This guy said a girl he likes fucked his roommate and "rubbed it in". If this guy can even get hard any more I'd be surprised.

pcadrian · 2014-01-20T20:35:47+00:00

He's gonna come back to us, especially after the responses he's getting.

IllimitableMan · 2014-01-20T22:13:31+00:00

Those who deny reality are fucking idiots.

alt30313 · 2014-01-20T23:18:55+00:00

I don't fit in with black people becuase i'm too white for them and I don't fit in with white people because I'm to black for alot of them

What the fuck is this guy talking about. Most successful/professional white people I know love black people that "act white." Educated people with class generally don't care about race. He's professional, articulate well rounded and fit. It's not the South. The problem is him. Why isn't he hanging out with guys he plays basketball with? Why isn't trying to hangout with the people he knows professionally? You cant wait for some one to invite you to the table. You either have to invite people to your party or invite yourself to theirs (you have to risk rejection).

TLDR: Race isn't the problem. He's the problem.

TfahsNoriEht · 2014-01-20T14:32:39+00:00

I once heard a parable from a man wiser than myself, and I think it applies here so I'll share with you all:

"Sucks to suck"

2014-01-20T18:46:33+00:00

stage 1?

AlmostRP · 2014-01-20T22:19:02+00:00

He needs NMMNG as a basic paradigm shift.

alt30313 · 2014-01-20T23:29:26+00:00

if i were just a recluse and didn't talk to anyone i would just chalk it up to e me being a hermit. But i keep putting myself out there and keep getting told i'm not interested or being told you aren't my type or being compared to the guy who is wearing an ankle monitor because he's still on probation

I don't want to go out on Saturday nights and party because I like to work on Sundays.

This guy does not know how to talk or interact with women.

I've been stood up, rejected, beat out by deadbeats.

He presents himself in a boring manner, he's serious, he's trying to do traditional dating.... This guy needs to be fun spontaneous and fuck the girls before he tries to lock them down. If he's fun, a good fuck and continues to be successful professionally I can guarantee women would be fighting over him for the opportunity to attempt to lock him down.

CocaineOnThaSink · 2014-01-20T20:51:53+00:00

I noticed this shit too, im from East New York, Brooklyn. Plain and straight, black bitchs want someone that act like a super star. The nerd is cool and all to be friends with, but I've never seen that nerd able to keep thots is ro. Again black bitchs, not the Janelle Monaes.

jobs33ker · 2014-01-20T22:53:44+00:00

Wow, this guy is a FUCKING loser.

Then to make it worse girls are always like just keep trying, keep looking you'll fine someone and then they go out with the same losers.

So not only does he suck at getting women (and sucks in generally socially) but the above quote would imply that he then goes off to women and whines about them not liking him, and his inability to have a successful relationship with women, thereby lowering his SMV waay more.

These losers can't dress. These losers aren't in shape. These losers aren't even good looking.

I can't tell you how many times fat, ugly, sloppy angry betas have shit talked ME, the way I DRESS, and call me UGLY, out of sheer jealousy because I went home with the bitch they had set their sights on. Mind you i dress way better, look way better, and am 100x as smooth as any of these guys (obviously, otherwise they wouldn't bother with the jealous shit talking). So im guessing this is the same principle at work with this bitter, jealous virgin.

I actually had to pay a girl to go out with me on my birthday last year because I did not want to be by myself.

Nothing even needs to be said about this...other than SMH.

I'm just a frustrated dude. I have no kids, I have no ex wives, I have no real baggage.

In other words, you're fucking boring. I'm not saying you have to ooze drama in order to be appealing to a chick, but you gotta have something going on. I can just picture this guy, boring as fuck, letting whatever poor sap of a girl he somehow cajoled into a date with him, (note: A date) make all the decisions about where they are going to go, and whay they're gonna do...with nothing at all interesting to say about himself or anything else, and then wondering why she never calls him.

Lesson is...being boring is the absolute worst. You can be almost anything but boring. It will make any girl dry up like the fuckin Gobe desert.

mercuryg · 2014-01-20T19:34:36+00:00

poor guy

Ididerus · 2014-01-21T06:39:49+00:00

Off-topic, but why don't the thread buttons work on RedditLog?

cray-cray-cray · 2014-01-21T19:49:15+00:00

I can see how dudes hit 30 and start whoring. I am not saying that's what i want to do but i see why it's done

That's so delusional. He paid someone to go out with him on his birthday, and acts like fucking a lot of girls is an option he won't entertain.

attaxx · 2014-01-20T16:22:57+00:00

It's past the point of even sex. I just want.. to go out to the movies not by myself every once in a while.

he's deluding himself... is always about sex.

WeAreAllSheep · 2014-01-20T17:53:22+00:00

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pony1108 · 2014-01-20T18:45:32+00:00

Men who are bitter are losers who failed at attracting good women. Just saying that "good women are unicorns/dodos" is being bitter. You just suck: either your personality sucks, your appearance sucks, your ability to spot a woman sucks, or your game sucks. The rid pill is not about being a bitter loser who sucks, it's about techniques of attracting/ keeping a woman. The guy in the article is obviously a sore failure and blames women for his inability to attract or keep one.

Title	30yo guy posts in r/AskMen saying how he sees TRP confirmed all around him, but still isn't "that bitter" to accept it
Author	SgtBrutalisk
Upvotes	96
Comments	114
Date	January 20, 2014 2:12 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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