Original post: http://archive.is/o0sXt

Update post: http://archive.is/UTLqZ

Red Pill TL;DR - Increasing your SMV and dread game is the key to stupid easy mode as long as you're not needy and keep some game going

Blue pill example TL;DR - I feel bad for this guy because he has no idea she got with him just so he'd stop living the RP dream

 

(OP:)

I've known this girl Erin since we were in elementary school ... I've always been attracted to her, in middle school she was cute, high school she was extremely attractive, we went to prom together as friends. I've told her a few times over the years how I felt and she was always saying you know let's just be friends or that would be weird, pretty much turning me down.

Can you say orbiter? He's been friends with her for years but hasn't ever gotten with her despite his best attempts. As opposed to popping off and gaming other females he's waiting by this one for his Nice Guy Pussy PassTM to finally come through. You can be friends with a female, but not so easily with ones you want to bang.

 

We grew distant in undergrad due to us attending different universities and then she studied abroad but still kept in touch from time ... In undergrad I started working out seriously and playing soccer ... One evening I'm taking a nap and hear someone coming in my apartment by the time I open my eyes and get myself together Erin is already sitting on my bed. I'm thrilling to see her it's been nearly two years at this point since we've physically seen each other ... She leans in and instead of the normal "hey what's up and how's life" kisses me on the lips, I'm blown away, shocked and beyond happy, kisses lead to touching and touching leads to sex. When we finish she tells me I better get used to her because she's attending the same graduate school.

Well, they may have not physically seen each other in two years but she's seen his swole pics on facebook. Now that she's going to be nearby, he has his own place, he's in great shape, is going to graduate school himself, and hasn't tried to use his pussy pass in two years of course she's going to fuck him. Are you kidding me? This is ultra-easy mode

 

That was nearly 3 months ago and now she comes over some days we talk like best friends and other days it's just a lot of sex. My emotions are all over the place as if it wasn't bad as her best friend being FWB is really a challenge for me. To my knowledge she has no boyfriend, no love interest or anything like that but whenever I bring up dating or anything serious I'm met with sexy time and a open ended "we'll talk about it later or let's just have some fun together and think about it later"

Can you blame her now? She's here to ride the CC as she wishes and suddenly you have emotions and want to lock her down? Jeez, come on man, she's hot and low maintenance. Just let this play out and net yourself some plates while you're at it. You are being spoonfed this on ultra-easy mode. You are the gatekeeper of commitment, she of sex. She's on a cock bender right now so why would you mess with the status quo in the first place, let alone try to chase her down into a relationship? Are you kidding me? Holy shit son, I am disappointed.

 

(Update:)

We went on to be FWB for about 4 months and those were honestly the most nerve-racking months of my life ... After our school semester ended we drifted a part a little bit, we both were spending time with family and friends.... She ended up going on vacation with her parents to visit her grandparents in England ... I actually had annual soccer tournament with my traveling team and we met this all girl's team at the tournament that I was telling her about it since she plays soccer as well ... She seemed happy for me that I was having fun but I could tell that it was bothering her I just chalked it up to maybe I sounded like I was bragging or something

Okay, see, now he's got some space in there and she's out of the country and bam! heavy ass dread game however unintentional. She's off stuck visiting family, probably taking a dick here and there, but here's OP plowing his way through a hot women's soccer team. Can you say high as fuck social proof when you're cock deep in smokin' collegiate poon? She can't compete with that from across the pond!

 

Two weeks later she asks me if I can pick her up from the airport because she flew back early and she nearly knocks me over she hugs me so tightly. She never shown so much intimacy in public before she even tells me that she really missed me ... Eventually she confesses that she realizes that she does like me as more than just a friend and she apologizes for her unfairness making me wait so long before giving me an answer ... She tells me that before she left she didn't really know what she wanted, she didn't know if she wanted a relationship or if she was ready to be in one.

Of course she came back. Her man prize was having too much fun so it's time to reign that shit in and lock him down, which of course he puts up absolutely no fight over. This 'unfairness' she is speaking of is code for "I have to make it sound like I feel bad about having fun and dicking around with anything with a pulse while not wanting to commit to you until I realized you can and were having way better than I in excess quantities". She's just afraid to lose her fuck toy now.

 

She told me that she experienced a lot of things in England and was sad that she wasn't able to experience them together.

Cock. She's talking about cock.

 

So we're officially dating and everything has been awesome, couldn't be happier.

I give it a month before he's totally whipped to the point she starts resenting him.