Being raised with beta mentality

Sayikrs5 · 2022-10-08T17:41:24+00:00

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X-Trem0 · 2022-10-08T17:43:42+00:00

Welcome my friend. Rest here and read

sussykeke · 2022-10-08T17:50:45+00:00

Ayy it's like I'm reading a post about myself! Don't worry, it's normal these days to be raised to be an extreme beta. The shit I did in middle school and high school makes me want to vomit when I think back on it. - I paid for girls' groceries when we hung out - I had a long distance relationship with a chick from overseas that I never met once - I had a hot girl interested in me but I fucked up by just being my beta self - I would text with girls online endlessly because I was too afraid to actually talk to any in real life. I got friendzoned either way. - I never went out with anyone from school. I just went straight home. Always.

It fucks you up. But people change. And I changed! And I'm happy now. With a life, decent money and girls. And it's only gonna go up from here.

PM_Happy_Puppy_Pics · 2022-10-08T17:51:38+00:00

You can learn to be more assertive, whenever there is a situation for conflict, recognize it, and go into it and fight. Doesn't matter what it is, they put milk in your coffee instead of the heavy cream, you go back and tell them they messed up. Think of it as a game rather than conflict and it will help you approach it better.

For your voice, you need to youtube tonality and practice "speaking like a man" You can do it, just research it and practice, there's a lot of videos out there.

erottawa · 2022-10-08T17:56:23+00:00

You're young, you have your whole adult life ahead of you, and most important of all you are self-aware. You're going to be fine but it will take some work.

First you need some confidence in order to learn to stand up for yourself. The early bullying is still in the back of your head. Hitting the gym is good, but consider some martial arts as well. Stick to something that has actual hard sparring: boxing, muay thai, judo or bjj. One year of any of those arts will make you a beast compared to the average guy. You'll never use the training (hopefully) but it will give you confidence. You shouldn't actually need to do this for confidence, but if you need it, give it a shot. Most martial arts gyms are surprisingly friendly places - some of the few remaining male bastions, and everyone there was a beginner at some point. They understand.

Second, find some other loners to jam with. Yeah, no one gives a shit about your guitar skills, but it's fun to play music and you can find some other dudes to play with. It will give you a social outlet. Lots of girls like artistic guys - let them chase you.

Finally, we're all nobodies. The whole world is a bunch of nobodies. And women are nobodies. We're here for a short life - just find stuff you like and enjoy it. Best of luck, dude.

NewDay0110 · 2022-10-08T17:51:21+00:00

I was raised the same way. My parents always told me to "tell the teacher" when bullied and then they would become overly involved in my life, micromanaging me. My dad hated some of the things I got into as a teen, like weight lifting, simply because they weren't compatible with his interests.

Embrace the anger you feel for your parents letting you down. Let it propel your drive, and channel that energy into something productive. Knowing what you don't want yourself to be is a good guide.

Drojic · 2022-10-08T18:03:59+00:00

1.) Being polite or kind =/= to being a pushover. As others have pointed out, being assertive does not necessarily mean being an asshole about it. It would be unwise to put yourself in situations where you are unnecessarily the source of antagonism.

2.) Speaking like a man also involves practice quite similarly to public speaking.

3.) If you can, also get into martial arts whether grappling or striking.

4.) She's just another girl.

Steelrain322 · 2022-10-08T18:05:30+00:00

David goggins can’t hurt me - read it

NightwingTRP · 2022-10-08T18:28:37+00:00

It takes time to turn the oil tanker around. It's hard, you'll push for days, weeks and months on end and see you're nowhere near where you want to be every single day. The people who get to where they want to be are the ones who keep pushing on every single one of those days. That's not to say it's easy, but it is to give you the proper perspective of the task at hand. It's long and hard. Take it one day at a time and focus on doing the short term bits of your long term plan. That's how you turn the oil tanker around, slowly with perseverance. There is not other way, the red pill shows you reality, but that reality is not pleasant. The question is what do you do once you know? Good luck!

btrpb · 2022-10-08T18:14:14+00:00

One day at a time player. Life is a marathon not a sprint. Some guys and gals get everything out of the gate. But they dont always go the distance. You've got to work for it. But you recognise it and that's a start. Believe it or not, you've got plenty of time ahead of you.

Good luck on your journey.

Ordinary_Yam1866 · 2022-10-08T18:20:25+00:00

One thing I can mention, instead of finding motivation for exercising, work on discipline, so that you can do it no matter what. Motivation is fickle, it comes and goes.

In the beginning, you will feel worse forcing yourself to do things you don't want to, but it will help you to push through the anxiety and lack of motivation. In time, this attitude will spill over into other areas, like work and chasing girls.

ass-thetics · 2022-10-08T18:08:45+00:00

Welcome. This is a man's world. No one said it's going to be easy. All the red pill can promise you is that it will get easier - as long as you are adapting and getting stronger. Good luck dude. This place ruined, saved, then ruined and saved my life again. And out of all that I came out a better more capable man.

red_blood_cells · 2022-10-08T20:02:54+00:00

welcome to the club, glad to have you

Sayikrs5 · 2022-10-08T20:29:11+00:00

Do some goal setting

My goals are be able to lift 100kg (rn I can only do 2 plates)

My second goal is mental strength so yea no fap and development of a routine

My third goal is to get six pack abs however I'm an idiot who is so undisciplined and lazy

Good news is I'm still making progress cuz I went from 122.5 kg in December of 2021 to 95 kg as of today I'm going to be 24 as well, come next February

I'll be a new man and hopefully do some fighting later

Golden_Golem · 2022-10-08T20:43:31+00:00

Just read The Rational Male and The Way of the Superior Man

oooKenshiooo · 2022-10-08T17:54:19+00:00

Don't worry, you'll be alright. Read the sidebar and lift.

Your kindness is not a bad thing. Kindness is always good and morally right.

However, people don't value it when it does not come from a position of strength.

For other people to value your kindness, they must see you strong. So strong in fact, that you could be a total asshole and still get things your way. So strong that just using your power and status could get you things way easier than being kind.

Being kind under those circumstances - that has value.

Therefore: become strong, but also build your character so you don't turn into an asshole once you have the opportunity to do so.

319Skew · 2022-10-09T00:13:37+00:00

Readings these comments really shows how much toxic masculinity is here. /s

Dude, we've all been through the ropes. Feel like shit, reflect, learn and push past.

You'll get there. Promise

Green__Bananas · 2022-10-08T20:52:42+00:00

I had a similar upbringing so I totally get what you're feeling. One thing to remember on your journey: Change doesn't happen all at once.

Don't get discouraged if you don't feel radically different overnight. It's about getting 1% better every day, so that when you look back months/years later you made tremendous compounding progress.

Nighthawk_Black_ · 2022-10-09T00:28:26+00:00

Movement is motivation start small and keep going.

Ok_Management4634 · 2022-10-09T02:00:40+00:00

It's normal to take time to get over your first love/heartbreak (of it was not the first, the early ones).. You are very young. Too young to give up. A lot of us (including me) did not find the red pill until way later in life.

Read Rollo Thomasi's "Rational Male" books. Donovan Sharpe is another guy that is worth listening too.. Sign up for his patreon and watch his older stuff.. His current youtube stuff is ok, but unfortunately, more watered down. He's the perfect example of a guy that was way too nice when he was younger, got manipulated, but figured things out.

That's great you are going to the gym, keep that up.

Another key to being a happy man is that you have to emotionally disconnect from women. It's very hard, but expressions like "She's not yours, it's just your turn" help get you into the correct state of mind. You need to find other things besides women to make you happy. Guitar is a great hobby.. but you need to do it for the sheer enjoyment of it.. do not set up expectations that people need to like your music in order for you to enjoy it. Do it for yourself.

If music is your planned career, you probably want to start figuring out another career path, and just do music as a hobby. Remove the stress to "make it" in the music business, it's very hard , competitive, and hard to make money at now.

What you are going through is normal, we all do it. IT might be best to not even worry about getting a date for 6 months, hit the gym, read red pill material and be better prepared for the next one.

Dude, I could literally spend DAYS telling you stories about how being a nice guy bit me in the ass when I was your age. I really wish someone told me at your age -- women are not going to make you happy. You can be happy without a woman. A good woman can compliment your life. A bad one (and most are bad) will make you even more miserable.

Take care my friend.. Hit youtube and start digesting red pill material. Find a purpose in life besides women.

PlebsFelix · 2022-10-09T02:12:46+00:00

start by taking responsibility for yourself and your life. "I'm a beta because my daddy never taught me..." yea thats totally a beta mindset. Your dad brought you into this would and provided for you well enough for you to end on the internet complaining about about how shitty of a job he did. He did more than enough for you; now its time to take ownership of your life and your faults.
kindness, compassion, and forgiveness are wonderful attributes for a person to have. Do not resent your father for laying the groundwork necessary to be a good person. Pray that you are able to do the same for your son. So do not abandon these values. YES, you must absolutely ALSO have a spine and be willing and able to stand up for yourself. NO, you should not let people use and abuse you. YES, you can have a backbone and still be a kind, compassionate, and forgiving man. That is what you should aim for.
"stop thinking about..." yea no shit. Thinking is a powerful tool, but it can also be a prison if you dont do the other, even MORE powerful thing: ACTION. So stop talking about it and start doing it. "easier said than done" good so do it even though its hard for you.
you are on the right path. Take more ownership, do not abandon the values of your father, grow a backbone, escape from living in your mind and overthinking, and TAKE ACTION.

Best of luck friend

Truthfulldude1 · 2022-10-09T07:26:52+00:00

1) Stop watching porn. That's where you start. It helps dramatically with your confidence. You need to become a new version of yourself entirely, and that is a necessary piece. What better time to cut away vices than when you're already going through such drastic life changes? You're becoming a butterfly, my friend. And you're becoming a man, and as such you must put away childish things (addiction to self-pleasure, easy dopamine hits). Now is the time to do what's hard. You may want to implement cold showers as well. Because they suck.

2) Some men never take the Red Pill. So compared to them you're lightyears ahead. Just be glad you got out when you did. You escaped, you survived. You might have skimmed by on the skin of your teeth, but you made it. Now is the time to heal, preserve everything that you have, and chart a path forward.

You are alone, and that is terrifying and freeing. You have no children (presumably), and no one relying on you. You are in the perfect position to lay the groundwork for a new you. On the life you want. Be grateful you didn't have a child with that toxic ex. Or she'd have you by the balls right now.

I'm a nobody.

3) You... are not a nobody. You're you. That's important. The world needs more you's. You can't be me, or anyone else. You can and need to only be you. A talented yet insecure musician, a dreamer with a good heart. Sound necessary to me.

But it's easier said than done

4) Everything is easier said than done. If you think about it lol.

RavenRakeRook · 2022-10-08T20:04:39+00:00

Males don't get internal validation, stop looking for it. Kill the beta. Read Rollo, The Rationale Male. Nietzsche. Gym. Yoga/martial arts. Gun range. Speak up. Call a buddy. Adventures.

"Boldness be my Friend" Shakespeare.

kvakerok · 2022-10-08T21:32:36+00:00

First of all, get help for your anxiety and depression. Meditation, medication, whatever works. Once that is under control, you can start making meaningful changes that will turn your life around. The next step is two-fold: outcome independence and self-validation. They're kind of two sides of the same coin.

AcesOverPacific · 2022-10-08T23:22:03+00:00

I used to play music, but one day I realized in order to make any decent money in music you literally have to be the best of the best of the best at it. Making a career out of music is a lot like making a career out playing basketball, it can be a lot of fun but very few people can live off of it. That’s when I went back to school and became an engineer. Logical work that makes you money, very low risk.

GreenIcyTea · 2022-10-09T16:32:56+00:00

Head over to the married red pill (MRP) sub and read the side bar. The most underrated red pill sub on Reddit. I don't understand why it's not linked with this one. Some of the most knowledgeable and wise dudes in the manoshpere are over there.

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2022-10-08T17:36:45+00:00

You see the problem, sidebar has the solution.

Jihocech_Honza · 2022-10-08T22:14:43+00:00

Do not feel bad about your emotions, all the sadness, bitterness, anger, grief. Just do not let it consume you. Use all this as fuel in some physical activity, running, biking, lifting, whatever. Go monk mode for several month. Lose weight, if you are fat, pay of debts, if you have any, finish exams. Get your life in order, not today, not tomorrow, but start as soon as possible.

kalisto3010 · 2022-10-08T23:37:38+00:00

The best thing you can do at this point is to shift your focus to lifting full-time and eating right for the next year. That's the best advice anyone can give you at this juncture.

TimeXo9 · 2022-10-09T01:52:42+00:00

in the same boat as you brother. father didnt give me strength ever. but took it away. he was the biggest hurdle in my life and i am now my own man. but i have no direction in life. the world is not all rainbows . and i am indeed weak. but i dont feel like getting up again. its and endless suffering montage . i just want to die in peace. even for that i might have to get up

i will share this fact tho. whatever is going to happen, it will happen because of the choices you make and the kind of person you become. So work with absolute control on yourself.

babydontherzme · 2022-10-09T08:20:00+00:00

I was raised a similar way. I don’t even recall what kind of bullshit advise they gave me for bullies when I was ten years old but when I mentioned it to my female teacher she was surprised and said “what? No, you punch him in the face”. I’m good now but yeah, you have to learn to not need people, not need their validation. Which also includes your parents validation.

DopasDisciple · 2022-10-09T16:29:15+00:00

Just wanted to say I feel really supported on my self-improvement journey because of the warm welcome here and many brothers seem to really surprisingly respond empathetically. I want everyone to know I read each and every comment here and do not take it for granted.

Just a quick question in your experience is NoFap effective?

As well as abstaining from porn?

TheAmazingDevil · 2022-10-09T18:34:58+00:00

You are describing yourself as a typical "nice"(incompetent) guy. There is nothing wrong with being kind, passionate, polite, forgiving. These are good qualities. These qualities don't make people step on you. Its the lack of backbone that does. The so called "Alpha" man is a kind man. He is also a competent one. He protects his people and himself from harm. He is not docile and weak. You are equating weakness with the above awesome qualities. No you are not weak because your parents raised you to be weak. Yes they could have done a better job in making you more competent but that's not an excuse you should stand behind.

Your life is your doing. If you are capable of making this post, you are capable of changing your life. But you can't change if you wallow in self-pity. Take responsibility of your life. self pity doesn't suit a good man. You got out of a relationship at a young age. Let this be the lesson and motivation you need to make yourself better. Don't let this ruin your life or time. Many men come out of relationships depressed and pitiful. Don't be that guy and waste your years wallowing after someone that doesn't deserve you. Forget women for a while and work on yourself. Work towards a worthwhile goal and make little progresses towards these goals everyday. Work on physical fitness, mental fitness and sharpness, spiritual growth, financial growth, and relationship with your friends and family. Make tiny progresses towards these everyday. Learn to be successful. What you are today is a useless being. Useless = not successful. But don't let this be the final chapter of your life.
Here's a 4 words formula for success that applies equally well to individuals and organizations:

MAKE YOURSELF MORE USEFUL.

In all the life areas mentioned above, How can you apply the above formula? Work on making yourself useful in all areas of life. To be useful you'll have to be competent. The more competent you are, the more useful you'll be and the more useful you are the more successful you'll feel.

You'll have to fight your demons everyday. Don't give power to depression. It will waste years of your life if you do. These are the years when you can make something out of your life. You don't feel important because you aren't. But this is not the last chapter of your book. Its only the beginning. Make yourself useful and that self esteem and importance will return to you.
If you believe you can make a career in music then don't give up but get a side job to pay bills. If you think music career is not for you then find something else to spend your time on. But don't seek escapism. Beware of drugs and alcohol and tv and cinema and video game at this stage. Most men in your situation seeks escapism in these activities. They use it to forget the pain of being an inadequate man. But that pain of inaction and guilt will grow and will be worse than the pain of action. Choose your pain. Choose your sacrifice. You don't get to not make one. Don't give power to your negative feelings. Just get up and work on making yourself useful in all the different roles in life that you play. While doing so if a depressive thought or thoughts of this woman comes in your mind, be aware of it, and remove it from your mind. You decide what your mind should think about, don't let it decide freely for you. Because if you don't reign in your mind, it will always think about comfort and the loss of comfort and make you feel depressed. When such thoughts arises throw them out and focus on what actually matters. Manage your mind, Don't let it manage you.

And stop complaining about your parents. Most of the things your parents taught you are not inherently bad. Being violent in school doesn't make you a competent man. Its a good thing you are deciding to take responsibility of your life. Don't let this mindset slip away. Don't let time run its course. Take responsibility of your life every single day. Choose the pain of action everyday because the pain of regret and the growing guilt of inaction will be far far worse. Being kind and giving to women is not a bad thing. Every human should be kind and giving to fellow humans. What's bad are your expectations for wanting something in return. You aren't being kind for the sake of it. Its not true kindness. If it was, you wouldn't be complaining about it here. This is why women have issues with the so called nice guys. Its a facade and they can see through it. Please don't try to be unkind to anyone. Just let go of expectations for your kindness. Don't think a woman can make you happy. They can't. Only you can make yourself happy. Getting a woman is not an achievement. Even pigs have female pigs. Dogs have bitches. Its not a rare achievement to get a woman. Don't put them on pedestal. They also fart and their underarm sweat stinks like yours. First be free from the desire of women because that desire is coming from ignorance of their worth and from the slavery unto your sense organs. As long as you are a slave, you will never feel happy. Don't be a slave to your sense organs and don't be a slave of your own mind. Make them act according to your wishes not the other way around. You are the Master! Act like one!

Be more competent and disciplined in various areas of your life so that eventually when you want to be with a woman or get married or have kids and settle down, you are competent enough to support your family. Strong enough to protect and take care of them. Life isn't about getting women and having sex on a tap. Don't live a pig's life in a man's body. Live for something outside of yourself. Find a worthwhile purpose that serves humanity or people around you. Make yourself useful enough that you matter to this world. Don't let your desire for getting women ruin your life. Sex is overrated. Don't be infatuated by it. People that have women aren't happy because of it. If they are happy its because of something else that's going on in their life, whether that is spirituality or a worthy purposeful living. Don't follow these so called players on internet. They show that they have abundance of women but that's not what gives them peace. It really isn't worth it. There are kings in past that had millions of women but they left all of them because they couldn't find the peace and joy that they were craving in them and went to forest alone to worship god. And countless cases like that exists in the history of our world. Hear me when I say this, even if you get the most beautiful angel as your girlfriend, you still won't be happy. Women don't make you happy, you do. If they actually brought happiness, all the beautiful people in Hollywood would never breakup or divorce. Trust me, getting a woman is not a worthy goal of life. You can have much better, more exciting, more fulfilling, more peace giving goals in your life. The goals that make you feel at peace in your deathbed and makes you say, "even though I didn't achieve everything I set out to achieve, I strived hard and lived my life that befits a good man. My life was meaningful! I am at peace with myself" Don't live your life for women. Live it for a worthwhile purpose so that you can be with peace with yourself on your deathbed. No man ever said that they were so satisfied with their life because they had sex with a bunch of women in their lifetime. Its not a metric of success and its certainly not a metric of fulfillment and peace.
Don't be bitter and work on your life because no one else can do that for you. Be wiser, choose better, strive for fulfilling things and not just low pig-level pleasures.
Remember,
You are the stone, you are the Chisel, you are the sculpture. Man is the maker of himself.
Make better.

lifeintraining · 2022-10-08T20:20:06+00:00

Realization is the first step. I know it feels like a bad thing, but it’s a good thing. Just be careful not to take the black pill.

kalisto3010 · 2022-10-08T23:47:20+00:00

The best thing you can do at this point is to shift your focus to lifting full-time and eating right for the next year. That's the best advice anyone can give you at this juncture.

Razormack010 · 2022-10-09T07:09:47+00:00

Hey. Listen, you are already doing great trying to seperate from the crowd. Its important that you have realized what was needed and that you are already making an effort to change. Now don't look back.. There are lots of experienced people on here who can tell you in depth what ideologies you need to adapt.. For me getting into fitness has been the biggest mindset booster. I am more in sync with my body, I know how much better I am than others yet don't feel the need to prove myself to anyone, I feel more confident and strong.. If you need any advice with gym and nutrition, hop into my dm. I study evidence based fitness and I'm sure I can help you climb the ladder quickly.

testy68 · 2022-10-09T16:07:05+00:00

Two books you should start reading now:

When I say no, I feel guilty No More Mr Nice Guy

Those two books will help you start on your path.

These-Yak9531 · 2022-10-10T00:36:06+00:00

I have seen a comment here about an Old Red Pill man , who give an advicelike : Lift , Shut up , Get a job ... If you are reading this please post the comment againt . I am searching for your comment for the op .

nofaploveit · 2022-10-10T15:51:48+00:00

Yea man I (22m) was raised like a beta cuck too and I learned much earlier about red pill (at16) and I became a loner because of it.

I am very isolated but I hit the gym do my work and setting myself up for success by the time I’m your age.

So set yourself up for success. If I were you I’d work a remote job and get started on promoting your music. My guess is you have talent but are to pussy to even put yourself out there. Get on social media (TikTok) and start posting. Promote your shit.

CSA57 · 2022-10-09T12:13:19+00:00

Want to screw your son off completely? Tell them to be forgiving no matter what. They will have a lot to forgive. No one will take them seriously in business or in the family

Enjoyitbeforeitsover · 2022-10-09T13:59:34+00:00

You're young, this is the same time I started to train kickboxing. You may feel like you don't have things figured out but use this time to improve all aspects of your life. Make plans and do your best

KinkyBreeBaby · 2022-10-10T21:14:57+00:00

Women want to nurture a man. They're really turned off when the roles are reversed. I would say don't pay for anything or do anything for her until she's atleast sucked your cock.

spcparks · 2022-10-15T18:02:07+00:00

It sounds like a lot of guys here were raised with a beta father. Maybe that’s what we needed in order to see what not to do. We can learn the same way a positive example and from a negative example. Different sides of the same coin.

My father was not only a beta, but he was emotionally manipulative and emotionally abusive in his beta mindset. Constantly throwing his beta views on me as if it was my fault as an 8 year old kid why his world was upside down.

Giving women loans in hopes they would leave their husband and then suing them and saying how fucked up they were for not paying him back.

Constantly chasing a woman’s validation and not understanding why playing the nice guy card wasn’t working when deep down he was a narcissist with personality disorder.

To this day, he’s in Costa Rica trying to please protistutez with the nice guy card. And till this day he is getting denied.

Just recently tried to buy a prostitutes a condo and car and she still couldn’t put up with his beta shit. She was repulsed.

I watched this growing up and had to undo all the weak, repulsive shit he would do. My life has been a struggle but I know I’ll be much stronger having had to learn how to be a man on my own, without a strong male dominance

Effective_Distance58 · 2022-10-16T01:47:31+00:00

You are being to start the journey of becoming the man you always want to be.

My advice is just to find "new parents" people who you can see as figures you want to be and do what they do.

If following the advice here your life will change.

ImJDtesla · 2022-10-19T11:48:16+00:00

Brother. You’re literally me, every single word of your story hitted me hard man. 101% same story. I really wanna get outta this shit

warm20 · 2022-10-23T09:44:46+00:00

Yup we feminized men struggle sadly we don't even realize we've been feminized until it hits us later on in life, when it all starts to add up and make sense, to me I just realized I'm a feminized guy with a lot of beta kind traits, it's no wonder we're struggling so much internally.

World is brutal, life is unfair, and women are chaotic, never trust a womens advice. Ironically my therapist is in her 50s and told me that herself and made me realize I'm super nice guy that has been molded and feminized by my family's upbringing.

Take it at a day at a time, take care of yourself, be independent get your own place, do some activities sign up for swimming pool club, do some hiking alone, do some cycling, horse riding, travel, whatever activities you do alone you grow everyday from them and gain some level of confidence within yourself, you don't need your overprotective parents, stay away from them detox away from their controlling and gain some life in you

unscr · 2022-10-28T10:53:41+00:00

Man, do read and do breakfree activities from the book No more Mr nice guy. It will help you understanding your emotional and thinking pattern and will guide you to become an integrated man.

Puzzleheaded-Dot-681 · 2022-11-18T19:53:46+00:00

Fellas the 3 questions that we have to ask ourselves Are -…….Who are we? (gifts we were given from God) why are we here? (specific purpose) where are we going? (Vision to fulfill the mission we were placed here to do). We were not taught to pursue purpose before we try to find a woman. Purpose dictates our decisions and direction so when we are on this journey we will not need to leave our path to run to someone, we will run INTO them because she will be on the same journey as you!! When you know where you’re going then you will know what roads won’t take you there, purpose also let’s you know who to look for! Pursue purpose! Men we have been the cause in the past of a lot of hurt and pain but we also have the power to fix it because God created us to be the foundation! Their is responsibility in that purpose! We are not the victims but the cure!

Channel_oreo · 2022-10-09T11:19:59+00:00

Sounds like your dad neglected you. You are in the wrong sub. Go to raised by narcissist and ptsd. Red pill won't help you here.

patrixxxx · 2022-10-09T12:43:58+00:00

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Title	Being raised with beta mentality
Author	DopasDisciple
Upvotes	267
Comments	107
Date	October 8, 2022 5:32 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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