Firstly I will say my game is below average, I'm a natural beta and grew up as a bullied kid, virgin until 21. Ive always been unable to have natural confidence in myself.
I've worked hard in improving my physical looks so that tinder would be easy for me. I saw the posts of catfishing guys pretending to be male models and saw their insane success. Im no male model but surely you don't need to be a top 0.001% man to experience that.
I spent about 6 months on getting my bf to 12%. While gaining about 25lbs of muscle. I experimented many times with haircuts, clothes, accessories, teeth whitenings, skin care treatments. I also basically become an expert at portrait photography.
My tinder is good. I get about 25 matches a week of 6+ smv girls which is more than enough. It took me a long time to get here though. There is definitely a line on tinder. I didnt go from 1 match a week to 3, to 5 etc. I went from about 3-4 per month to 20/week with a new pic. I only swipe girls that meet my threshold as well.
Okay, FR.
Message a girl with my generic opener "you seem cool, where did you study?" 3 messages later "lets meet up" "yes I would like to meet you!".
We meet at a bar. I have no game as I said. We chat about boring stuff, work, her family, I think I even asked what her favorite colour was. Only kino was a hug goodbye. I never go first night lay because I just get too nervous.
She texts me the next day if I want to meet up again. I suggest dinner and a movie. We go across the road to grab some food and start watching a movie at her place. I put my arm around her but she seems reluctant to it. I just assume nothing will happen. In the last 10 minutes of the movie she holds my hand. After it end she sits up and looks at me so I kiss her. I put my hand on her tits, no resistance. Hand between her legs, no resistance. Touch her pussy, soaking wet. She straddles me and I take her to the bedroom and fuck her no condom. After she confirms shes on birth control, clean and not seeing anyone else.
The whole time she was telling me how good my body is, how good looking I am, and she was worried I was out of her league. Not a single hint of a shit test. Just compliments. After she washed me in the shower, made me tea and some food then I went home.
This was a good experience because it was so easy. Im too busy with work to spend a lot of time chasing. I put no effort into game or kino, and it was more than enough. I wasnt even that confident, I couldnt get fully hard from nerves, but again she didnt seem to mind at all.
This is just another perspective to take in. Game + Looks is a killer combo. Don't think game is everything. In fact with this girl any kind of dread game or negging would just make her way too insecure.
I like this method because its easy. I dont have to do anything other than show up. It also is a huge boost to your self esteem when a girl is this enraptured by you just for existing.
TLDR:
I got hot through gym, diet, fashion, teeth whitening, skin care and a bit of genetic luck.
3-4 tinder dates a week. Latest date. No game, no kino. Fucked her raw, no shit tests, no LMR, just submissive and kind. Seeing her again soon.
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