How to overcome redpill rage after learning the truth about female nature ?

Free_Economics3535 · 2024-10-07T09:15:46+00:00

RedPill is just a map of the terrain, it’s not the terrain itself. Don’t stare at the map forever, you need to actually walk the terrain and get to where you want to be.

This is where game, self improvement, PUA, etc.. comes in. These fields are the application of RedPill.

Set some goals, take action, and build the life and relationships you want. Get busy living or get busy dying.

Free_Economics3535 · 2024-10-07T09:22:42+00:00

Don’t forget that Rollo Tomassi, arguably the father of RedPill, has been happily married for years.

A healthy monogamous relationship through a RedPill lens and from a position of power is definitely possible.

If you prefer to have a rotation, or a string of hookups, or whatever floats your boat, they will be possible too. It’s a pick your own adventure. Set goals and achieve them.

TyranaSoreWristWreck · 2024-10-07T11:25:48+00:00

Get laid. Usually calms me right down

_do_not_read_this_ · 2024-10-07T12:34:24+00:00

Turn it into a game. It's fun chatting up women using the red pill toolbox and knowing before hand exactly what their reaction will be, and how to counter things like shit-tests. Even in business, I've learned that yes, I do have to treat and respond to women differently than men.

Personally it's given me clarity in all relationships, with women and men. I understand their motivations and reactions and can respond appropriately.

sandman2998 · 2024-10-07T10:02:09+00:00

I feel that rage, though initially present, may subside. It is like someone told you the reality of things. They're just arming you with the knowledge. What you do is in your hands.

Suppose, you work as an employee at large tevh company/financial corporation and have been doing everything whatever your manager tells you. Then suddenly, you get to know you're easily replaceable and no body even cares if you excell at your work or are horrible, untill you get the work done. This new found knowledge about your employer... would it make you angry, maybe a little, then you see around you and every company is approximately the same. What would you do, hate the company, leave the sector, be unemployed or just keep working improving skills and earning money. Maybe after 3-4 companies, you'd find a company which cares about employees, good work life balance etc. Then you kindof settle in the company. But remember, even after 20 years of experience, your manager/ceo etc. can fire you with a day's notice. So you keep your skills up to date, learn more, passively keep options open etc.

Red pill is also similar, someone told you about true female nature. You observe and confirm it. What do you do, hate and abstain from female interaction...or keep into the game etc. till you find a good woman. Like in a company, still you should be fit, develop trp skills etc. But remember, you're replaceable any day, so keep your options open.

upyoars · 2024-10-07T08:57:07+00:00

By using what you know about creating and maintaining attraction to… create and maintain attraction.

b2daoni · 2024-10-07T11:52:26+00:00

Acceptance is liberation.

Accept female nature for what it is, and you will be free from the illusion. If you don't accept, rage will continue and multiply.

Worried_Baker_9462 · 2024-10-07T10:03:16+00:00

Just time.

"Should be" is a theme of thought that gives rise only to indignation.

Attachment to what "should be" but is not can only cause grievance.

tropicsGold · 2024-10-07T10:42:39+00:00

Why on earth would you feel rage? Do you get mad at the sky for being blue? Red pill is about asking the truth, not for getting butthurt about it.

SlugRusher · 2024-10-07T14:42:11+00:00

Check out stoicism. Learn to accept what you cant control and aim to live a virtuous life. Do not let their degeneracy affect you.

fatal1tyltf · 2024-10-07T15:57:05+00:00

Anger is a healthy feeling towards pride and courage, as long as you don't dwell on your anger.

TRP is just a signpost towards a way of living in alignment with our nature.

Accept the truth and avoid judging it. Accept that's the way it is and will be. It is not in your control to change this universal truth. You don't get angry at a baby for crying, you don't get angry at a dog for barking, so don't get angry at women for being women.

What you can change is your own perspective of looking at the world and how you convey your perspective to the world.

ArtifactFan65 · 2024-10-07T09:52:11+00:00

Understand that you are no morally better than women and expecting a unicorn was unrealistic.

Naive_Bee_2303 · 2024-10-07T12:24:21+00:00

I’ll try to use a metaphore to share my thinking on this.

Remember the first time you learned the rules of playing chess. You probably got confused about the rules and stressed that you are not able to play the game.

Can you change the rules? No.

If you stress about how the board is set up and the movements allowed, will it make you a better player? Also no.

Only thing you can do is learning how to play. Focus on improving yourself.

salandra · 2024-10-07T14:11:33+00:00

Submit to the way of the world and choose if you want to be good or bad.

Haunting_Switch3463 · 2024-10-07T12:24:11+00:00

Are you mad at the lion for eating the zebra? As you wrote yourself it is in female nature. You cant blame them for acting the way evolution has made them.

unswunghero · 2024-10-07T17:52:02+00:00

Which part enrages you? Would be helpful to know that.

JoeJoeJenkins · 2024-10-07T18:51:10+00:00

This like saying you’ve learned the rules of chess. How do you stop hating the chess pieces? Makes no sense.

videogames_ · 2024-10-07T18:53:59+00:00

Sexual strategy doesn’t care about your feelings. Evolution only cares about reproductive fitness. This means giving women tingles.

Redpiller1988 · 2024-10-07T20:16:52+00:00

It’s just a phase man. Time and wisdom will do the trick.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2024-10-07T22:11:53+00:00

You can be Big Mad or you can be happy that you now know the truth and can act accordingly. Do not hate women for their nature, just as you would not hate the bee for stinging you - just learn to avoid the stings.

On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” Phase

-I Don't Hate Women and I Don't Think Anyone Should.

Fire_Stoic14 · 2024-10-08T04:30:23+00:00

To overcome RP rage, what worked for me was to use the knowledge gained from RP and then invest it into improving my life. It’s just application of the knowledge from here on out. That’s when you’ve hit the acceptance stage of RP.

So whether you want to use the knowledge and build yourself a trad con marriage and kids, whether you want to be a playboy, getting better job opportunities because of the way you view the world now, joining a men’s community and helping each other with your dating lives, or finding a purpose in your life and working towards that. Notice how in all these examples, action from the man is required. Red Pill is just tools, and forever will only be tools. Your job is to use those tools and create the life that’s meaningful for you, and that’s different for each man.

Men are happy when they’re in constant motion. When you don’t apply the knowledge RP provides you, and just mindlessly absorb the same concepts a million times, that’s when you’re trapped in RP rage forever and unable to move forward.

---Spartacus--- · 2024-10-07T10:27:52+00:00

Rage should be either sublimated or directed at appropriate targets - the System. The only reason average males are struggling so much to find mates today is because one aspect of female attraction - economic - is increasingly closed off to average males. This is a Matthew Effect problem - where the rich get richer and the poor get poorer - and that is not an observation restricted to economic wealth. ALL forms of wealth are subject to this effect and most forms of wealth cluster together.

The "Tradlife" idea is unrealistic until economic circumstances for average people change for the better. If a family cannot support itself on a single income there's no sense blaming women for that. Whatever caused that condition (we can debate on that, but I blame mostly Capitalism) is what needs to be the focus of your redpill rage.

Xanatosss · 2024-10-07T16:00:41+00:00

When I was a little beta bitch I would blame the other guy. After I built myself up and realized how true many of the stories here actually were, because I started to experience them. I realized that beta males are going to hold males accountable, they don't understand that a lot of these girls are going out to cheat on their partner or commit hypergamy whether you are there or not. It's like the ego of the beta male to not want to admit that they are the little bitch who needs to be improved and will point the finger at the other guy and girls but not themselves.

kclanton80 · 2024-10-07T17:10:48+00:00

I think the only time you will feel rage is when you are not having success with women, or when your attention is directed towards merely one woman.

Abundances the key.

If you have four girls on deck ready to come and service you.... You simply won't be as concerned about one particular girl's solicism or hypergamy.

Life is just a game and what the red pill does is finally give you the real rules to the game. Learn the rules then go out and play it.... But always remember that it's all a game.

Don't be upset with the game because you can't change the game. Everyone is going to lose battles but focus on winning the war.

-TempestofChaos- · 2024-10-07T21:13:51+00:00

Go get a job bartending and speak with every chick until it is not only normalized, but expected.

Worked for me. I am surprised by nothing now.

Good-Degree2349 · 2024-10-07T22:15:07+00:00

Accept understand but dont respect.You must learn mental point of origin.Think this way as a man we suffer,we provide,we protect whatever it takes,but women nature is opposite their mission is to save and birth babies.If a woman dumps you she probably find a better one at least she thinks this way(they all come back).Okay go and find someone better and more loyal.Your mission is you not women.You cant settle,you must continuously improve yourself.Thats it.No one can love you unconditionally except your family.Do you understand now.Dont love unconditionally.If she wants to go okay good bye,if she wants to come let me check etc.A masculine man doesnt resent from it.If she can find someone better why dont you do so.Improve and have more options.Dont give the kings strength to women.

Vermillion-Rx · 2024-10-07T22:41:14+00:00

Read whisper's writings on anger phase

yomo85 · 2024-10-08T15:42:35+00:00

See it like a buddhist or any other religion. The circumstances that enabled female behaviour were for one not set in stone and just as fate had it, women are - at least for 30 and under - on the bright side of things. It is what it is. Your were being unfairly lied to that is what hurts.

And I bet you would be the most raging slut ever when given the opportunities like your typical 22yo girl has.

Plus, it is very cruel being born with an innate worth that decreases almost daily and basically there is nothing you can do except self-deception or jumping of the train very early on and forfeiting all the possibilities.

Just as women see only the 1% of guys who make it, we RP guys see only the unjust examples of 40yo run-through whores who manage to catch a successful guy. Normally, all women will settle. Yes, settle. And it is cruel settling while being totally aware of what could be if one had jumped of the cock carousel just early enough. You on the other hand can make mistakes until you are dead and no one cares. And if you succeed, it is not unheard of having a 25yo younger girlfriend as a man. You just have not a good head start bro.

Truthfulldude1 · 2024-10-09T19:28:57+00:00

Don't begrudge them for doing what is in their nature. Do you get pissed at the snake for biting you? The bull for goreing you? The dog for pissing on your carpet? It's just what they do. To get upset about female nature is stupid. Simply understand them, and act accordingly. Don't put a snake near your cock, don't antagonize a bull with red colors, and don't get pissed at the dog for pissing on the carpet when you know he needed to go outside before.

Tek_Analyst · 2024-10-07T13:44:16+00:00

Women can write this exact thing in reverse about men. They want a certain thing from us, and we want a certain thing from them. You’re just mad at the lie you were fed your whole life. Give it time.

EarthEden · 2024-10-07T10:21:19+00:00

https://youtu.be/GDQE3xNzSJw?si=tv3kXwKvwQbElhJh watch this it helps put things into perspective. The first guy talking on there is coach red pill RIP.

Grand_Recipe_1330 · 2025-01-21T19:59:19+00:00

can someone please tell me more bout red pill life style im 16M and need to learn more about how to become a man. I am skinny weak and kinda ugly lol never had success with female but I need to learn more. trying to get into more MGTOW culture as well any advise welcome

fblackstone · 2024-10-07T14:19:51+00:00

Love women. I mean really love. At first, it is very normal to feel like that. Channel your energy into gym and finances. But in the meantime learn to love women. They are not doing this on purpose(mostly), they are not enemy. They don't have any idea about what they do. They are evolved this way. Accept them as they are. And use knowledge to make things easier. When you accept it , everything really becomes a game.

Title	How to overcome redpill rage after learning the truth about female nature ?
Author	Strong_Cherry_7065
Upvotes	33
Comments	61
Date	October 7, 2024 6:40 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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