I saw this comment in a thread about how Millenials are "choosing" to have less sex.

CallMeHaseo · 2017-02-15T18:38:41+00:00

I realized this and honest to god it scares me, especially after trying ok Cupid as chad and being picky. I was getting like 5 matches a day and a fair amount of the time girls were hitting ME up...when I tried dating apps before I took the red pill I'd be lucky if I got a match once a week... it's insane.. It's so ridiculous to the point where I legit started considering getting plastic surgery one day once I realized how shallow women really are .. What's crazy is a lot of men out here red or blue pill feel ridiculously insecure and hate themselves because of it while women get VIP access to the carnival and ride the carousel for free... THEN if you're not Chad you're expected to work hard in the gym and make good money in order to secure access to some used up slut after she's all done at the carnival and wants to get serious... the worst part is if you DARE mention any of this to most people "you're a bitch" "you're bitter" "don't be mad because no girls like you" "just find someone who likes you for you" "just wait and the right one will come" "you don't get no pussay" . The whole system is rigged man...

ArkAngelEV · 2017-02-15T15:46:17+00:00

Very old news. There was an article that had some investigator interview regular college age girls about the dating scene. They all confirmed that they can get the hot guy ... for a night. Then he was off with some other girl, and that she would have to start the process all over again. I believe only one was quoted as saying something like " god... I don't want to do that forever ". damn, I'll have to try to find it now

Here is but one example. There are too many good examples of AWALT and the economic sense women take in the SMP. I found some parts very telling, some parts interesting but these three things really stand out:

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/14/fashion/sex-on-campus-she-can-play-that-game-too.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

1.On the first girl “Ten years from now, no one will remember — I will not remember — who I have slept with,” A. said.

Wow. Are you fucking kidding me? This is a smart girl at a better college. Wow.

Because they believed that talking publicly about sex could come back to haunt them — by damaging their reputations at Penn, their families’ opinions of them or their professional future — the women spoke on the condition that their full names would not be revealed.

( Reputation is EVERYTHING to a woman. Interesting that when they choose to play naughty and dirty, their primary concern is how others will perceive them. It's just so crazy that most men, or at least me, couldn't fucking care less. Putting aside professional risk, because that IS important; that women don't have the courage or bravery to admit what they do, not even on a surface level. That's disgusting, and why men will always think less of them, not for what they've done, but if they really are so strong, why lie and obfuscate. Very telling )

2."Now, she said, she and her best friend had changed their romantic goals, from finding boyfriends to finding “hookup buddies,” which she described as “a guy that we don’t actually really like his personality, but we think is really attractive and hot and good in bed.”

3.Wellbred/elite girls are generally MORE promiscious.

This hits home twofold. A woman DOES NOT NEED a connection, or "communication" or any other bullshit to fuck a man. NOT EVEN A COMPATIBLE PERSONALITY! He just needs to be attractive and good in bed. The take away for becoming more successful with women is;

Be attractive, Make them cum in bed. That's it. Everything is spelled out so clearly in this one article, and they are many more like this.

What burns me, even to this day, is that this was going on under my nose. While I was too busy doing my own thing in college, being responsible and taking care of shit, and being a blue pill faggot shy in asking good looking girls out - she was getting railed by multiple chads every weekend. No wonder they mature faster, all they have to do is say "yes" to gain experience in life; meanwhile men have to be the initiators. This is some serious "Eyes wide shut" level shit going on, and most guys have NO FUCKING CLUE that it's going on

Apologies if this is a novel, today Im feeling really revved up about this bullshit. This is just the tip of the iceberg, not even taking into account all the sugar daddy site girls, girls who one off ( or routinely ) do paid porn on the side, total business ragers, sex tourism ( so called singles cruises and gangbanging Brad and Thad in 3rd world countries aka. all girl trips ), etc. So many lost years, so many bullshit excuses, so many lies - pisses me the fuck off. Women on the whole, have won. They outearn most men, out represent men in colleges, everything. I want to punch a fucking wall if I hear that women are being oppressed - they have all choices available. Fuck, even with barely a triple digit lay count I'm only as experienced as a moderately pretty girl was when she was 21 in college. Worse still, I struggled mightily in one of the best places on earth, with one of the best ratios and best sexual climate ever. Fuck me dead, had I been born in fucking arizona or something

Snazzy_Serval · 2017-02-15T17:41:01+00:00

Online dating and especially apps like Tinder is one of the worst things to normal guys.

Throw in the notion that slut shaming is somehow wrong now, and things get really bad for most guys.

This is probably the worst point in time to be a non 10% man.

IblizTrigga · 2017-02-15T16:19:34+00:00

Indeed. Sex is like pizza for women, only free. You can go out and pick whichever toppings you want (hell, you can have it there or take it home with you!), call in your order and pick it up, or just have it delivered to your door.

As far as "choosing" to have less sex, classic 80/20. Millennial men CAN'T get sex (due to women having more choices, therefore higher standards) so they either quit (MGTOW) or double down, thus worsening their chances (SJW/white knight).

Where's the thread link?

LymanRP · 2017-02-15T16:11:56+00:00

My wife's single friends go on and on about their Tinder, OKCupid experiences, etc. I find their stories fascinating since discovering TRP, and most of what they say validates the theory. What I find most fascinating is the amount of guys they meet and match with who look good on paper but always wind up being total betas. Lame dates (always dinner), lack of any excitement, kino, etc. One friend said her date walked her out of the restaurant and straight up asked, "Are we going to make out?" We're talking people in the late 20's-early 30's age bracket!

So often these girls will come back from a date and meet up with our friend group for drinks, and I'll hear, "He was cute... he's just really nice." I cracked the joke, "Aww, he's such a nice guy! I wish someone else would sleep with him." The girls laughed reluctantly because they damn well knew it was true.

Basically at my age (31) I'm seeing 2 kinds of "settling" relationships that I know are not destined for a happy longevity:

Beta guys who finally "get it" enough to muster some game and faux-confidence for a few dates. Single women will drop their standards like a prom dress as they hit the wall, and settle down with this Beta. I see this happening with my single female friends.
My guy friends who are fun and act alpha when single. They have enough looks and game to pull dates, etc. But then they get into that LTR and melt into Beta. Next thing you know, girl is shit-testing them in our group settings and dead bedroom ensues. It's sad because you want to feed them TRP, but they're not ready. I had one friend lose an LTR of 2 years who was stunned that she had totally lost attraction for him. It was sad because it follows TRP to the letter. I saw over the course of a year her going from totally adoring him to disdaining him. She even told him "I wish you were as confident with me as you are around your friends," and "I wish you'd take me off a pedestal sometimes." It sucks to see, because some of these women are fairly low on the hypergamy/branch swinging scale... they're just being slowly pushed away by their bf's beta behavior. And you're sitting there having beers with your boy and you know exactly what happened and why it did... he just doesn't get it. All you can do is drop him a copy of The Rational Male and hope it opens his eyes.

Long rant... but basically from what I am observing, any moderately attractive looking guy who is assertive, self confident and applies TRP to his life could clean up out there.

metallica11 · 2017-02-15T14:22:19+00:00

this is old news.

the 10% of men and most women: unlimited lays at their finger tips. I know men who have multiple dates a week, with little effort on their part.

Yet the majority of guys (even including in shape guys with decent jobs..not basement neckbeards) struggle to land a date every few months.

Troll_Name · 2017-02-15T16:39:55+00:00

Here comes that unpopular idea again:

You don't need to be having constant sex when you're young.

Below the age of 25, sex is like playing Russian Roulette with your future. You will be filled with a false sense of victory when the town bicycle approaches you for fun times, then you will be filled with random germs. Or maybe you'll become the one-and-only of that quiet loner girl, who then tries to kill you and/or accuses you of rape when you try to escape from her psychotic tantrums.

Just a suggestion. Prioritize yourself instead of prioritizing pussy. The pussy will flow like a fountain after you have worked on yourself enough.

theredpill101 · 2017-02-16T14:46:57+00:00

Online dating has given easier access to people looking to date/hook-up.

I still have a hard time believing that all of the available pussy is being snapped up by the "top 10%." There's only so much top 10% to go around, and it's not like those guys spend every single night getting laid. Even if they had women lining up to do it, you can only have so much sex before you decide that you would rather stay in and play video games, or sleep by yourself, or go out with the boys.

But the statistics still stand. Why are Millenials "choosing" to have less sex?

I'll give you my two cents:

I think Millenials are suffering from their sense of entitlement and their overindulgence in electronics/social media, and that is what is impacting their "decision" to abstain.

Did you think all this advice we preach about lifting was only about improving your physique?

We preach lifting for increased musculature because women prefer it, yes. But we also preach it because guys who go to the gym to improve themselves learn that you have to work for what you want.

You want to get laid? That's great. Go work for it.

And therein lies the issue with Millenials. Why would I get all dressed up, call my friends, go out to a club and try to work a few girls and get laid (while risking embarrassment and rejection) when I can stay at home eating Cheetos and playing Club Penguin? And if I get a raging boner over a girl penguin talking to me I can watch a porno with the click of a button and choke my chicken?

I think Millenials are choosing to have less sex because they refuse to work for it and defer to easier alternatives. And then, instead of accepting the choice they're making, they blame "the top 10%" for stealing all the girls.

I'm not a model. I'm probably a pretty average guy. But I work out, I keep myself groomed and clean, and I dress decently. I work an ok job, I own a car, I rent a shitty apartment but I keep it up and clean. And I have never gone a week without at least a few matches on dating apps.

I'm working for those matches - don't let me fool you. And if/when I meet them in person I'm working for that interaction too. But I'm getting laid more than the guy who "chooses" not to try.

abbafishhead · 2017-02-17T06:06:50+00:00

With Tinder, there are two distinct groups of guys: guys who get laid a lot (anywhere from 1-4 new girls every week) to guys who aren't getting laid at all, or who have a fluke lay every other month.

As the guy who fucks on average 2-3 new girls a week, I've given TONS of advice only to be dismissed as "you're hot, whoopdeedoo" to "I can't do that, that's too direct." Your loss, buddy. More for the rest of us. Just see my post history and all the BP comments hamstering why my stuff won't work. Jesus.

Get abs, ask them to come over for the first date. That's it. Don't complicate it.

Cushions · 2017-02-18T14:25:28+00:00

Jesus Christ this thread is fucking depressing to read.

Thy_Lord_Castiel · 2017-02-15T14:15:09+00:00

I didn't lose my V card until I was 22.

I didn't want to put my dick in crazy

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2017-02-16T21:11:41+00:00

Dating app are the problem, which is good for us redpill guys who know wtf is going on.

Dating apps just pumps girls up full validation, any girl 6 or above has their pick of the litter when it comes to guys on dating apps, vs us men who have to compete against 1000's of other guys just for some above average pussy (this ain't even for the 9-10 range of pussy), you're competing against even more dudes for that kinda of pussy. But for guys who understand this and you know actually go out and approach women use this to your advantage. 98% of those guys that are swiping on those hotties don't even approach even less actually put themselves in situations to even interact with girls of that caliber. So knowing this, you know going out and approaching is the best way to nail the really hot girls, online dating is really just a numbers games, and luck even if you're in the top 10-20% type of guy, you gotta be the exact kinda guy that girl is even swiping for at that point and time, and then you just get grouped into the other 100's of guys that she's already matched with that you're competing against. The odds are against you from the beginning, obviously you can slay 5,6,7's and some real 8's if you're a really top notch kinda of guy when it comes to online dating but even the 9-10's are hard to come by. And this is even if they see your profile, in big cities you got 1000's upon 1000's of guys profiles this women have to sift through.

I'm at the point where I'm almost completely done using online dating, I used it as a crutch when tinder first got popular just because I was having so much success, but since I've ramped up actually going out and approaching my success with the really hot quality type of girls I could potentially see myself LTRing has been 10 fold what I would do on tinder, a girl I made out with and got her number last weekend who is by most standards a solid 9, doesn't even use tinder. She is just some club slut who parties with NBA and NFL players when they're in town. She would've never even swipped right on me even if she did use tinder just being honest here, but who the fuck cares? Probably the beta who paid for a vip table and was dancing with her before I swooped in....lol

Title	I saw this comment in a thread about how Millenials are "choosing" to have less sex.
Author	Rob1150
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Date	February 15, 2017 2:13 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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