A week ago I decided to go out with a girl I heard had a crush on me. I had and still have 2 other plates. We went out on two dates she was very liberal so we discussed a lot of how we see society. I held frame throughout and stayed confident as I normally do on dates. We ended up having sex on date 2 , and after she started to vent about issues in her life. Then she asked me about my issues and I'm not sure why but I ended up venting to her. She acknowledged and seemed to not be fazed. I started to get excited about the possibility of someone who defied the red pill idea about not showing weakness. She then asked me what we were I said we aren't anything serious right now, but this isn't a one and done thing for me. But As you can guess it was a mistake to talk about my issues. I heard through a friend she thought I was coming on strong and I would have to really work her to get her to consider going on a date again.

I'm definitely not going to even attempt to contact her or go out again. I shouldn't have to prove anything to her. It sucks because I got my hopes up about being able to be real with someone and got too invested. In no way do I blame her for doing what she did I showed weakness and it makes sense. I'm just angry with myself for being so careless, and making myself look weak. Lesson learned when I need to talk go to a therapist, and showing weakness always will end the same way.