Unicorns - what are they?

Broadly speaking, TRP uses the term "unicorn" to describe a girl who is simultaneously physically attractive, emotionally stable/loyal, and willing to work with you to maximize your happiness.

Do they exist?

Sure, but you don't find them. You make them - and like all mythical creatures, they may one day cease to exist.

2 posts caught my eye recently - the first declared that women will never grow with you/binary AWALT (more on that later), the second asked where to find "10s".

We're going to cover the many mistakes inherent with the anger phase, and the reasons why you put yourself first no matter what to achieve sustainable happiness.

Women are Wonderful

One of the endlessly repeated falsehoods in threads about good girls/unicorns/etc. is the belief that women in a prior age were somehow different. This is a fallacious and sneaky version of the Women are Wonderful effect at work - their nature never changed to be suddenly less loyal, they simply (in the 1st world) have the same freedoms as men.

Women didn't change or "get worse", a lot of legal and societal chains simply came off. Getting upset about this or imaging "the good old days" you never lived in and cannot return to is a pointless exercise.

The Rage Pill

Anger is a tool - you can use it like a hammer to smash your own dick or you can embrace it as a temporary feeling, useful for motivation, but ultimately a feeling that must come to pass.

Once you reach a sufficient SMV/RMV, you will absolutely find women who will do just about anything for you. If you STAY high value (in her eyes), you will experience a level of "loyalty" you were not aware existed previously. Will she stay that way forever?

That's up to you, mostly. She might get goofy ideas and peace out anyway - c'est la vie. If you like yourself as a person, you know you can find and create a new one anyway. Why be mad?

If you haven't felt some semblance of loyalty from a woman, that is a signal you have some work to do. Do not resent human nature, develop your NGAF and be resilient to its effects.

The revenge fantasies do you no good, and the Red Pill is the radical belief that women are human beings, not evil.

Loyalty

This also doesn't mean what many of you think it does. What men conceive of as honor does not apply to the other half. After all, relationships are restaurants, not banks.

You are not investing money for a future return. You are spending money on dinner. That money is gone, and you receive a meal...If you show up tomorrow with no money, you don’t eat. Even if you’ve been a loyal customer for years.

Women understand this. Most men do not. Men will lament when a woman behaves badly. They will question how she can do this to them. They have been so loyal and invested so much over such a long period of time. How can everything they’ve done over all this time mean so little to her?

Male participation in a relationship is performance. This does not mean you must be a dancing monkey, but ultimately men show up everyday to a relationship and use their capacity to provide attractive time and attention to cement that relationship.

Loyalty is a product of correctly doling out this attention, and making her believe that it is valuable, and never free. In order for her to respect you, she needs to pay up with the things only a woman can provide you - femininity, sex, and someone who makes your life easier, not harder.

Don't Project Your Sexuality onto Them

The Vagina Envy trap is very real. Yes, women can get sex and male attention whenever they want (decrescendoing over time, but you get what I mean). You can boo hoo about that or you can learn to play the game.

They don't want what you want. They want good feelz, and pay for those good feelz with sex and other aspects of femininity you want. They don't have the male sex drive, so don't fool yourself into thinking what you want and your "code" is what they live by.

Unicorns are Earned

Almost all good behavior in relationships is a mirror. It is a mirror of your attractiveness and reliability as a man. Almost all bad behavior is the result of a crack in that frame, in neediness, in unattractiveness.

You make your own unicorn by deciding what you want, finding a woman who wants to earn your commitment, and making her earn it the hard way. Her loyalty is fundamentally transactional, but that doesn't mean you can't get a good deal.

If you refuse to invest emotionally in her to some extent, the length of that relationship will be exceptionally temporary. Don't get so caught up on hardcore TRP mode that you fuck up something decent. As always, you have to spin plates first to understand what you want and lay down the law. No exceptions.

On 10s

10s don't exist. YOUR 10s exist. No one will agree on what a 10 is. Use the binary scale boys - 0=no, 1=yes. Find an exciting 1 and don't think about these dumbass scales. Part of what makes a high value woman is how she treats you - remember that.

Summary/tl;dr

  • The game is sold not told - attractive actions on your part are the bedrock of the relationship

  • Unicorns are made through respect for you, and placing high value on your time and attention

  • If you've never experienced good behavior from a woman, you haven't earned it yet

  • Their sexuality isn't yours - our sex drive is their feelz drive

  • Never forget - even a unicorn must EARN your commitment, what is given for free has no value